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What's the etiquette on approaching couples in clubs?

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By *onogamish OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Hull

So me and kat have visited a few clubs in the last month or so and have concluded it seems that you don't get many couples that go alone and are in groups of 4, 6 or more so my question is would you like an area in a club for couples who are on their own to mingle with others or just happy chancing your arm the old fashion way?

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By *olfandtazCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

Say hi, be polite, say you are new and go from there

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By *andPextraCouple
9 weeks ago

North West

With very few exceptions (i guess some go to use the equipment) i’d say the vast majority of attendees are there to meet someone (be it single male, couple, female, whomever) so chatting to pretty much anyone there is part and parcel of attending.

Providing people are polite and not pushy we’ll talk to anyone and if they aren't for us we will move on.

I’d like to think thats how most people operate at a club.

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By *orny PTMan
9 weeks ago

Peterborough

Smile.

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By *rivervaderMan
9 weeks ago

bolton

Clubs in my area are very clicky it seems like if you are not in the circle it’s hard to get chatting it’s easier if there are new folk in the club if you both are ever in Manchester I would chat with you both no problems

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Northampton

Approach, say hi, we’re A + B, are you having fun?

We go on our own all the time to clubs. At most we’ll loosely arrange to meet people there. Saturday we said we’ll say hi to about 5 couples. We did to 2 and spoke to at least 10 others

Be social butterflies and respond to body language cues

(Not suggesting you are) people sat in corners are not people we would make a beeline for

Oh, and have fun.

Xx

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By *rispyDuckMan
9 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Approach dancing 🕺 like Simon from the ‘Inbetweeners’ movie 🎥 😂

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By *hil most chillMan
9 weeks ago

South East & Europe

Go in with confidence. Cheek kisses for the men (both cheeks), and a firm handshake for the ladies. Upset the status quo. Talk about yourself in the third person and intentionally get their names wrong repeatedly. It teaches them that you don't need them, but they need to earn your respect. They'll be putty in your hands

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By *aomilatteCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

We've never gone in a group, it's always just the two of us. Many other couples go as a two also. Our advice is to look for prolonged eye contact or flirty smiles. If you go for walks around the club you can say hello and see if they'd like to chat. The more you go to club's the more experienced you'll get at flirting

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By *oBBeanCouple
9 weeks ago

Derby


"Go in with confidence. Cheek kisses for the men (both cheeks), and a firm handshake for the ladies. Upset the status quo. Talk about yourself in the third person and intentionally get their names wrong repeatedly. It teaches them that you don't need them, but they need to earn your respect. They'll be putty in your hands"

Nailed it

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Cannock


"Approach dancing 🕺 like Simon from the ‘Inbetweeners’ movie 🎥 😂"

😂😂😂 class

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By *oBBeanCouple
9 weeks ago

Derby

We've only been to clubs a couple of times.

It is intimidating and we totally get the groups that already know each other

More times we go, more times recognized and more people to chat to etc is the only way to break that

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By *nlyfunsMan
9 weeks ago

UK

Used to go with mrs. Agree it’s extremely intimidating. We used to love guys approaching though - flirting etc. be brave!

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By *neeyedwillieMan
9 weeks ago

Darlington

Just point and shout "oi you, fancy a fuck" and the rest just happens naturally.

But seriously...just say hi and start a conversation. That's all you can do. If they want to talk, they will. If the don't it'll be obvious.

I go to club f with my wife all the time and maybe it's just me but it's not hard to tell who's looking and who's there with freinds already just from doing that.

Them again my wife and I will sit and chat with anyone as we like to be very sociable so...I dunno. But if you don't go for it, you don't get I know that much.

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By *moothdickMan
9 weeks ago

stoke


"Go in with confidence. Cheek kisses for the men (both cheeks), and a firm handshake for the ladies. Upset the status quo. Talk about yourself in the third person and intentionally get their names wrong repeatedly. It teaches them that you don't need them, but they need to earn your respect. They'll be putty in your hands"

One of the best answers I’ve seen on here in years .. to many people have forgotten the art of sark, intelligence and fun… and let’s face it, that’s what the scene is all about or it use to be, before we all got offended …

I’d smile at them but I have no teeth and I’d wink but I only ave one eye and I might wink the staring one … and saying a polite hello with no teeth, sounds like a whistle of the wind under an ill fitting door .

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