FabSwingers.com forum: Woman, let me pick ur brain on this

By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

I’ve seen plenty of profiles that have included the likes of “if your taken and on here without missus knowing do no contact me “ but have also seen “married men more then welcome” etc

My question to you is ! Do you like married/taken men, if so what is it that makes you attracted to them.

Also be free to tell us about past experiences positive/negative.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
15 weeks ago

Sheffield

I have zero interest in anyone that’s cheating either a man or woman. Appreciate when people are honest so others can decide on that. Bit more difficult in a club setting as you’d never really know unless someone is honest.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Not for me OP.

Screaming wife and mother in law on my doorstep after I'd been seeing someone for a whole year with no clue at all they even existed didn't bring me joy.

And if someone is lying to the person they supposedly care about and chose to build a whole life with just to get their dick wet, how can I as just a fuck job on the side expect them to tell me the things I should know if it would mean they didn't get laid?

I'll pass on that.

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By *iscotti32Woman
15 weeks ago

gateshead

I don’t care either way.

Not my business if he doesn’t wanna shag his wife.

It’s neither off putting or a turn on. It just is what it is.

I do find it much less complicated with taken men tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

Very true way of looking at it. Definitely needs to be told to the person if someone is cheating so they can make a decision on their own ! Just trying to see everyone perspective

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

Also very true it is non of your business ! And if that works for you happy days. Why do you think it’s less complicated with taken men

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By *herry delightWoman
15 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I don't care and don't normally ask if they are married.

I have found that married men are less hassle than single men.

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By *iscotti32Woman
15 weeks ago

gateshead

Much less likely to get attached to me haha

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By *enatton2Couple
15 weeks ago

West Midlands

I don’t think you could ever truly know if someone is attached or not, some guys genuinely don’t want to accom, I know we don’t play at home, so that’s no proof they’re actually attached.

We have just decided that it’s something that they have to deal with doing. We rarely meet a second time anyway and contact details are rarely exchanged, so chances of issues down the line are small. We don’t ask questions, we meet, play and wave goodbye.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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15 weeks ago

East Sussex

Looking back we're sure we've met married or partnered men but we don't do it knowingly. I don't want to be anyone's bit on the side, I'm worth so much more

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'd never knowingly meet married or attached men, here on the sly.

The reason is, years ago when single, I met a man, not from here and we started seeing each other.

He'd told me he was single, no. Kids.

A few months in, I woke up to loads of missed calls on my mobile. It turns out he was attached and his partner had found my number from a text on his phone.

I rang her back, at first she didn't believe that I didn't know he was attached, but when I explained there were none of the signs and he'd claimed to be single, she came round.

She was so upset, it was horrible. He still tried to lie about it all, to us both and manipulate us.

I'd never want to cause someone else that pain, by intentionally meeting someone cheating.

As my story shows people get complacent and their partners do find out.

If they're not honest about being in a relationship, innocent people can then get dragged into all the drama.

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By *exandcoffeeWoman
15 weeks ago

Stamford

Not for me. Can’t be doing with the drama.

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By *olfandtazCouple
15 weeks ago

Bristol

We will pass on that! Don't want the fall out landing on our doorstep

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By *usyBusyElfWoman
15 weeks ago

Brum

Married is ok...so long as she is aware and consents, it's the cheating that is never ok, married or not

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By *orningcoffee9Man
15 weeks ago

Manchester

Is it really worth the drama though, come on? I understand there's excitement behind it all. To those especially who choose married or taken men/women. But what happens in the long run? It's all fun and games until someone isn't laughing no more, then the tears start rolling. I don't condone cheating I'd like to hope a lot of you don't. I suppose if all parties agree then it's all well and good the main thing is being honest with yourself and your partner.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We make it very clear we're married on our solo accounts.

We actually refer to our couples account in those occasions if people want confirmation.

I (cherry) always look for married men (whose partner is aware) and tend to avoid single men.

It always just seems to work better with married / people in relationships.

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
15 weeks ago

Inverness

Wouldn’t go near anyone that is on here without their partners permission

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