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By *inkerbellxoxo OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

leeds

Does anyone else find it hard to start chatting with single women on here?

We are looking to get to know someone both for vanilla and non vanilla fun

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By *andPextraCouple
9 weeks ago

North West

Join a very long queue

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By *aomilatteCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

We make no attempt to contact or chat to single Women on here. We have however chatted to (and more) to several in club's.

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By *inkerbellxoxo OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

leeds


"We make no attempt to contact or chat to single Women on here. We have however chatted to (and more) to several in club's."

We're unsure on clubs just yet. Haven't built up the courage for those 🙈

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By *aomilatteCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands


"We make no attempt to contact or chat to single Women on here. We have however chatted to (and more) to several in club's.

We're unsure on clubs just yet. Haven't built up the courage for those 🙈"

Everyone's nervous first time, after a few visits the nerves lessen and become excitement!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I can usually feel my eyes rolling to the back of my skull before actually getting to the message as soon as I see it's from a couples account.

Some of them are actually alright. I had an absolutely wonderful time with a couple very recently. But I can also absolutely confirm that a great many couples have real trouble with approaching the unicorns 💜

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By *KTim61Man
9 weeks ago

Tipton

Yes . . . . . But I've always had that problem. . . . . Untill the women get to know me that I'm a nice guy but most women are not after nice guys

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I can usually feel my eyes rolling to the back of my skull before actually getting to the message as soon as I see it's from a couples account.

Some of them are actually alright. I had an absolutely wonderful time with a couple very recently. But I can also absolutely confirm that a great many couples have real trouble with approaching the unicorns 💜"

This

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By *neeyedwillieMan
9 weeks ago

Darlington

Talking to single women on here is the metaphorical equivalent of being a single (or couples) voice in a sea of them. You easily get drowned out if you're not saying the right thing to c

My wife and I gave up trying on here a long time ago. Clubs and socials are the only way to go as far as we are concerned.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We have no issues finding and chatting to single women.

We have two ladies who we see on a regular basis or as regular as we all want/like.

We were both single on here and I think that helps a lot as we both can put ourselves in their shoes and see things from their POV.

We also chat everything through as a 3 - we have pics of us both and our profile is set up to hopefully appeal to ladies.

It’s finding the right gents which is seemingly impossible on here for us 🤷🏻‍♂️

K

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By *inkerbellxoxo OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

leeds


"I can usually feel my eyes rolling to the back of my skull before actually getting to the message as soon as I see it's from a couples account.

Some of them are actually alright. I had an absolutely wonderful time with a couple very recently. But I can also absolutely confirm that a great many couples have real trouble with approaching the unicorns 💜

This "

And this is what makes it harder for us 😂😭

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I can usually feel my eyes rolling to the back of my skull before actually getting to the message as soon as I see it's from a couples account.

Some of them are actually alright. I had an absolutely wonderful time with a couple very recently. But I can also absolutely confirm that a great many couples have real trouble with approaching the unicorns 💜

This

And this is what makes it harder for us 😂😭"

How does it make it harder?

Like I said, I spent time very recently with an absolutely wonderful couple from here who approached me like an actual person.

The people that are a potential fit shine a lot brighter against the backdrop of absolute no thank yous 💜

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By *he SmithsCouple
9 weeks ago

East Devon & London

No trouble approaching a unicorn.

It’s finding a local one that thinks the same way as us that’s the issue…

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm not your target audience, but could do with some pics of the male if you're both involved.Any fem is going to need to see both of you, to know if there's any attraction.

Most couples are after bi fems, so they can literally take their pick of couples.

I've seen couples say they've done better meeting fems in clubs than just using fab.

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By *olfandtazCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

It is hard on here to get chatting to a genuine single lady, we do have a few club visits planned so hopefully our luck will change there

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By *ellhungvweMan
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

My advice is treat single women like you would anyone else - ie normal people (hint: that’s what they are).

I don’t get the whole pedestal/unicorn thing.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Tamworth

I much prefer to get talking to couples in a club. You get a feel for the dynamics - I’ve had too many experiences where one or the other wasn’t really comfortable and I ended up in the middle.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Dartford

We tend to do ok on here but it is hard for unicorns to keep up with messages on here, so conversations tail off or maybe a hotter couple comes along who knows?. But conversations tail off for some reason and we don't overthink it. We have met people in clubs which seems to be the most effective way to meet ladies. We have met people at clubs and events that have previously turned us down on here and then gone on to play with them anyway. So just goes to show that it's hard to truly represent yourself on here. A phone call or video call is also good to get to know someone we've found too.

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By *nigmaDreamWoman
9 weeks ago

West Midlands

I tend to prefer meeting couples at clubs where you can actually talk to both of them and get a feel for their personality better.

Not adverse to couples on here but it’s very hard when it’s only one of them you’re talking to - not always the case I know but most of the time for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I am keen on date-like (date-lite!) vibes on first meeting anyone.

That's not for every swinging couple (a lot want snaps of my face and my best knickers before speaking and preagreement as to who will lick who and in which order before meeting).

I do better meeting couples at even vanilla parties than through here. It's certainly possible on Fab, but rare...

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Been few minths, and not had a successful meeting on fab !

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