FabSwingers.com forum: First Message Tips

By *riendlyfifer OP Man
9 weeks ago

Fife

Can anyone share their tips for a first message to woman?

Some profiles have no bio, so it's hard to judge want they want to receive.

Roughly what do people send?

Thanks

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

Don't send us a pic of your cock.. if we want to see we can ask. Not much luck with getting a reply with things like "Hi Hun" "What you been up to" all that shit.

I personally like a bit of straight off banter, bring humour x

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By *oy.2022Man
9 weeks ago

Dublin

"Don't send us a pic of your cock.. if we want to see we can ask. Not much luck with getting a reply with things like "Hi Hun" "What you been up to" all that shit.

I personally like a bit of straight off banter, bring humour x "

I cannot send you anything as you have single guys blocked...

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By *olfandtazCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

Make each message unique, we can spot a copy and paste message a mile off.

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By *ucka39Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

Be creative

How would you converse with a complete stranger in a bar or in the street/town centre that you've bumped into

And think I like the look of this

Or I'm curious then be creative

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By *Silver-Man
9 weeks ago

Mold

"Don't send us a pic of your cock.. if we want to see we can ask. Not much luck with getting a reply with things like "Hi Hun" "What you been up to" all that shit.

I personally like a bit of straight off banter, bring humour x

I cannot send you anything as you have single guys blocked...

Read her bio, not looking for single guys.

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By *urvyGalNorfolkWoman
9 weeks ago

East Norfolk

A personal message, one where you can make it clear you have read the profile/seen the pics and know what they’re after.

Humour is always a winner for me, dad jokes / obviously cheesy chat up lines are the best!

And have some stuff on your profile too, pics help (not ridiculous amounts of dick pics - we only need to see one!) as does a clearly well written profile. I always look at a profile before replying. If it just says “msg me” or it’s a rant about fab etc then I’m put off!

Your profile is quite good though OP, clear and straight to the point.

Anyways, hope this helps someone!

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By *entBarryUKMan
9 weeks ago

Ashford

I always read the profile fully and try to include something to show that. I also am a complete muppet, so I try to show my humour and then include a face pic. It doesn't have to be an essay.

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By *eekendVixenCouple
9 weeks ago

Leicester

Some advice we got ages ago:

Introduce yourself, name, maybe face pic.

Give a compliment.

Ask a question.

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By *Silver-Man
9 weeks ago

Mold

Try ' nice tits'

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Durham

Read the profile and be conversational. Make it sound like you are genuinely interested in the person and not just after a quick shag.

I tend to thing if the person puts no effort into their messages thet wont put any effort into a meet x

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By *ondonbifunMan
9 weeks ago

Enfield

I seem to be deleting first messages more and more

Things that will get you deleted;

‘Hi, what you up to?’

‘What you into?’

Type message

Also…

- People with no veri’s(especially after a year)

- People with no pics

All get deleted, repeat offenders get blocked

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