FabSwingers.com forum: Protocol

By *aterlite21 OP Man
18 weeks ago

Loughton

Hi everyone got a question what the general rule of thumb about messaging lol do ya wink first message first and then wait for a reply before friend request just asking,Saterlite21

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By *olfandtazCouple
18 weeks ago

Bristol

Depends on how we are feeling, sometimes we wink, sometimes we message

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By *as1373Couple
18 weeks ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

As a couple, the first general for others is ‘read the profile’. If it clearly says no single men, then adhere to it.

If single men are invited, don’t send dick pics until asked for, and we’d reject any friend requests from single men until we’ve messaged and got to know them.

It does amaze me how many single guys can’t read though! Or think they’ll try their luck like they are gods gift and couples will suddenly change their mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

If looking for a Fab date I either wink and then message if they wink back (although most interested single dudes just message me if I wink tbh). Or message and only message again if they reply.

I don't send friend invites without discussion about some particular reason or other because I have no "friends only" pics to show and don't wanna see theirs unless we've discussed (and I've checked its where they keep the face pics not the genital ones).

On this account I accept all friend requests because it's just for parties and stuff. But you can annoy people by sending a friend request out of the blue so I wouldn't advise it xx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Most women won't even look at their winks. Some couples will. Most men will.

So it depends who you're reaching out to as to whether it's likely to be worth bothering to wink at all.

If someone sends me a friend request before we've even spoken, I'll sometimes just block them. Asking for access to my friends only pictures without bothering to speak to me first is just a bit rude to me 💜

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By *carlettxWoman
18 weeks ago

Essex

I contradict myself I’m afraid

I wink if im not confident in getting a reply but rarely check winks to me !

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By *parkle1974Woman
18 weeks ago

Leeds

"Hi everyone got a question what the general rule of thumb about messaging lol do ya wink first message first and then wait for a reply before friend request just asking,Saterlite21"

I never look at winks as I find them pointless.

Re friends request, I only accept them after talking for a while.

Best advice I could give is to read a profile first and see if you are:

A. In there agae range and

B. If they have the same interests/likes as you

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By *parkle1974Woman
18 weeks ago

Leeds

"Hi everyone got a question what the general rule of thumb about messaging lol do ya wink first message first and then wait for a reply before friend request just asking,Saterlite21

I never look at winks as I find them pointless.

Re friends request, I only accept them after talking for a while.

Best advice I could give is to read a profile first and see if you are:

A. In there agae range and

B. If they have the same interests/likes as you"

** A: in their age range!!

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By *punk n gushCouple
18 weeks ago

deal

We prefer to receive a short but polite message to start with e seldom we respond to winks

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"I contradict myself I’m afraid

I wink if im not confident in getting a reply but rarely check winks to me !

Oh, yeah, me too! But differently! I use winks both ways on my personal profile but not on here.

OP, I think the key thing is reading profiles. People with strong preferences often state them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I almost always just message first, unless their profile mentions something about preferring winks first (a few profiles do).

If I receive a wink, I tend to message back, unless not interested or unable to: in this latter case, I'll wink back to reassure mutual interest and will properly message them later.

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By *andPextraCouple
18 weeks ago

North West

"Most women won't even look at their winks. Some couples will. Most men will.

So it depends who you're reaching out to as to whether it's likely to be worth bothering to wink at all.

This all day long with friends requests. Block several a day, every day

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By *end1Man
18 weeks ago

southend on sea

OP read their profile to see if you fit into what they may be looking for remember couples and single females get a lot of dms. Do not send a friend invite without chatting n asking first its rude to just send an invite first. If you do send a message and you don't get a reply don't send another one.

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By *opinovMan
18 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I don't have a general rule of thumb beyond punctuating.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
18 weeks ago

Stoke

Sending a friend request without speaking, is like going to sit at someone's table in a restaurant without speaking.... It's just weird.

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By *aterlite21 OP Man
18 weeks ago

Loughton

Thanks for the input x

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