FabSwingers.com forum: Body count / sexual partners

By *igboyreecexxx OP Man
16 weeks ago

hemel

How many have you had, and would you be honest and tell the person you were thinking of getting serious about? Would you want to know before deciding to get into a relationship with them?

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By *unning onCouple
16 weeks ago

leatherhead

I'd already had about 20 guys when I met mike, about the same since, along with half a dozen women

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By *luesindminorMan
16 weeks ago

Birmingham

Everyone has a past, if I wanted to know them, why do I need to know their past?

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By *parkle1974Woman
16 weeks ago

Leeds

Their past numbers wouldn't bother me and if they asked what mine was I'd happily tell them x

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

If I met someone who was part of this lifestyle it’s not a question I’d expect either of us to ask. It would be an instant red flag.

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By *ShyButNotShyCouple
16 weeks ago

Stafford

Husband here. 1 and proud 👍

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
16 weeks ago

the moon

less than the digits on one hand … (my choice)

And yes I’d be interested to know if it was a potential partner .. I prefer someone similar to myself 🤷‍♂️ …

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By *uckingFutzMan
16 weeks ago

Plymouth

What was the American pie equation? If a woman tells you how many men she's had times it by 3x!! Yet men you devide by 3x

That's how to get to the real number of partners

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

More than a few and less than most.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
16 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Probably under triple figures? Don't know, never bothered to count.

If someone asked me that question because they thought we were getting serious, they're not the kind of person I'd want to get serious with 💜

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By *ansexualPandaMan
16 weeks ago

Near You

I honestly couldn't say, I stopped counting 20 years ago. If it was an issue for a serious partner then they're not the right partner for me. It's not a brag as I still do understand why it's an issue for some.

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By *orphia2003Woman
16 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Lots.

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By *2001Man
16 weeks ago

Clacton on Sea

0 Cause I’m a pure Christian man 💯

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By *mbernectorCouple
16 weeks ago

Doncaster

I think that guys get off on the off on fact that you have slept with quite a few guys 😘

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By *ames18000Man
16 weeks ago

chistlehurst

Correct lol x

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
16 weeks ago

Carmarthen

It’s all a blur now.

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By *hilcarol89Couple
16 weeks ago

Warrington

Lots and lots especially when younger

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By *lecom1Couple
16 weeks ago

Stornoway

Lost count a long time ago

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
16 weeks ago

Sheffield

It’s not something I’d feel relevant to discuss for me.

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By *JandCMCouple
16 weeks ago

cardiff

The wife before we got together was to put into simple words known as the local bike.

She had around 60 different guys by the time we got together when she was around 21.

I did know her back then n did know some of the guys who did fuck her.

But she has always been honest n never lied about it n has sometime told me what she use to get upto in great detail n have found it a real turn on when fucking.

But it works for us as still together after 33 years.

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By *.hrisMan
16 weeks ago

Bath

Mine's a pretty sensible number, somewhere around 30.

I was seeing a girl last year that wasn't quite sure about hers, but somewhere around 60-70

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"It’s not something I’d feel relevant to discuss for me. "

I feel the same. It's not an information that I care to know, when getting to know a person.

I find it a little juvenile, and morbid, when people obsess about that, but hey, each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Lost count after numerous club visits and gangbangs.

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By *ellroseWoman
16 weeks ago

Brum

"It’s not something I’d feel relevant to discuss for me.

I feel the same. It's not an information that I care to know, when getting to know a person.

I find it a little juvenile, and morbid, when people obsess about that, but hey, each to their own."

Totally agree, does it really matter 🙄

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By *hil most chillMan
16 weeks ago

South East & Europe

If someone could tell me how many I've had that would be great as I can't remember

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By *rincess_nikki_transgurlTV/TS
16 weeks ago

salford

Fewer than if like, although really prefer one but very often.

Prob less than 30, maybe mid 20's

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
11 weeks ago

South West London

I had sex with 24 women, is that considered low for a guy my age?

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By *J-87Man
11 weeks ago

Donington

Double figures. Could be 10, could be 99......but yeah, it's 10.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol

I was raised with the ideal that, a gentleman never tells

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By *oiluvfunMan
10 weeks ago

Penrith

I’ve no idea in my actual ‘body count’, as it’s never been about the numbers for me, more the shared experiences? You could fuck 10 ladies in one week, but have more enjoyable times 10 times with the same woman in one week…..

I think women know you’re an experienced lover, and those who have asked me how many ladies I’ve slept with, have never pushed me for an actual number, which is fine, it’s not that important…..

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By *ooking4newMan
10 weeks ago

whitby

"Husband here. 1 and proud 👍"
same here

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By *agatoXXXMan
10 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Is this two separate questions?

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By *eekendVixenCouple
10 weeks ago

Leicester

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By *eekendVixenCouple
10 weeks ago

Leicester

"Husband here. 1 and proud 👍"

This is me. Total devotion to vixen.

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By *orestguy130Man
10 weeks ago

Melton

I think I'm on 33. Although I had group sex a couple of times so it gets hazy

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By *r SensualMan
10 weeks ago

London

Why does it or should it even matter? It’s in the past so let’s just leave it there… certainly wouldn’t judge someone on something which is so trivial

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By *elboy1978Man
10 weeks ago

Fellgate

2 women

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

4 women.

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By *hank you sirMan
10 weeks ago

colchester

I'd slept with around 20 people when me and my wife got together. We live in a small town and we're friends for years before we got together so she knew about most of them anyway.

One was even her sister a few years before we got together and yes she's well aware

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester

I would just say a lot more than they have without a doubt Well unless they have been in adult industry

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
10 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I had a sheltered upbringing so when I discovered the female body I was like a dog in a bone factory. Has to be around the 100 mark.

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By *sWyldWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

That's no one's business but mine. I've no interest in knowing anyone else's number either.

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By *otTheMessiah86Man
10 weeks ago

Stockton

Wouldn’t bother me one jot if it was 1 or 101. I don’t even know how many my own is. It’s not loads, less than 20, but I don’t keep count.

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

I don't think many women care much about numbers it's more for a male bravado.

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
10 weeks ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

When someone is special to me they will know that I am a swinger and have been since my twenties (in fact my first sex with a girl in my early teens was as part of a threesome but we won't go into that).

I have also learnt that if s close relationship is going to work then that lifestyle is gy to have to be one they can enjoy with me, like any other important mutual interest.

As far as body count goes I remember years ago when I had a positive test for some nasty and was phoned up by an obviously slightly naive researcher asking a similar question.

She ended the phone call a wiser and clearly quite fascinated young woman.

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By *rNightMan
10 weeks ago

Coventry

Probably between 50-60 women, my wife was my 14th. One guy too

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By *cott14Man
10 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

If I was asked I’d question their reasoning for asking ? . What’s that persons perception of what a “ good “ answer is ?

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