FabSwingers.com forum: Be Honest

By *PS.auce OP Couple
16 weeks ago

Manchester

So who's going to fess up about not reading a profile before they send a message?

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By *piritOfWolvesMan
16 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"So who's going to fess up about not reading a profile before they send a message? "

If the profile is too long and or nagging I stop reading. But I won't message either.

However, if it's a local profile and they asked question in the status or something, I may message answering/replying to that.

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By *jlondon78Man
16 weeks ago

Suffolk

Always read its a must

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By *andPextraCouple
16 weeks ago

North West

Pointless sending a message without reading.

Albeit many do, based on some of the dross we get

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
16 weeks ago

Birmingham

"So who's going to fess up about not reading a profile before they send a message? "

100% we are. We don't delete the messages now, we just block.

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By *moothdickMan
16 weeks ago

stoke

If it’s like war and peace then I give it a miss

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By *riel13Woman
16 weeks ago

Northampton

I wrote a profile I want read, before someone considers messaging me... Why wouldn't I do the same?

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By *parkle1974Woman
16 weeks ago

Leeds

I always read them

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By *he 1 2 watchWoman
16 weeks ago

Birmingham

This should fill up pretty quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I always read them & if there’s something relevant in the profile I’ll refer to it in the message, just so they know I’ve read it.

I don’t often send messages now though

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
16 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I always read a profile or certainly scan through it.

Obviously look for ‘not looking for single guys’ as one does not want to antagonise or waste anyone’s time.

Do find profiles that are overly long, and stipulate terms and conditions, a bit tedious and a deterrent in wanting to connect with people… but maybe that is the idea?

Maybe Fab should have a couple of more free field sections that have different headings so everything becomes less monolithic?

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By *sirapMan
16 weeks ago

Manchester

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By *sirapMan
16 weeks ago

Manchester

I always read them… sometimes.

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By *jekimMan
16 weeks ago

Wigan

Atleast 80% of the people who messaged me

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By *neeyedwillieMan
16 weeks ago

Darlington

"So who's going to fess up about not reading a profile before they send a message? "

Me.

But only because I already spoke with the person or persons at the club. I gave up messaging people on here a while ago when I did read em.

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By *andSxxCouple
16 weeks ago

Birmingham

We are always reading.The informations in the profile is important to us.

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
16 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Sometimes sent a wink before reading but not instigated a message without, although have been messaged and engaged with conversation without properly checking profile, normally do that when it's a couple for some reason

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By *orridgeCoupleCouple
16 weeks ago

Torridge

The amount of times during a conversation we get asked “what are you looking for” or “what are you into” is mind boggling 🤣

Most frustrating is that they see the male in a cage and automatically assume we’re a cuck couple 🤬

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

We always read the profile. They are there for a reason and can save alot of wasted time.

We don't mind long ones either.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
16 weeks ago

Lincoln

You guys can read? 😳

LvM

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
16 weeks ago

caterham

men seem to think the more messages you send the better chance you have of getting a response and maybe a meet , where as if you actually read the profile and took the time to see what the lady or couplee wanted and reapnd accordingly you would probably get more responses

dont forget you are the spare person trying to make an impresion but most are bad

the amount of straight guys that comtact us thinking becauce we like roleplaying therfore i must be a wimp is unbelievable,

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
16 weeks ago

Leeds

I had been told by a couple they had to message 100 women just to get 1 response so they wouldn't read them, this after they sulked because I didn't meet men & wasn't interested in him, if only they'd read the 1st line. 😂

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
16 weeks ago

Bedale

We genuinely always do. 100%

Well I say we, it's muggins here who actually does it haha

Not reading the profile to me is a wasted investment of time. The profile will often give indication of whether any response is a non-starter, so why not save the bother.

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By *hunky GentMan
16 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I tend to read a profile, unless my message is regarding a forum thread.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find that if the profile isn't worth reading, then they are probably not worth meeting

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By *lthomasMan
16 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I have done it when replying to someone in a forum.

I agree with the no point in messaging without reading

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
16 weeks ago

Stoke

Nope, we always read before we send, like always!!

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By *ene FairfaxMan
16 weeks ago

Dover

Always read them, hence I don't send pointless mail to those not on my wavelength lol

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I think you should have to scroll to the bottom of someone's profile before you can message or wink them it may incline some people to read the profile.

We actually included a line about blocking people who message and clearly haven't read our profile.

Thing is some of these people seem nice based on what I read but I have to block them as if they can't take 2 minutes to read and adhere to our profile how can I trust them in a sexual situation.

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By *ulie RobertsTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Southampton

"So who's going to fess up about not reading a profile before they send a message? "

Every man that messages me!!

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By *litalicious_CoupleCouple
16 weeks ago

North East

We always read them 😇, otherwise we could be just wasting everyone's time, plus we know how frustrating it is when others haven't read ours before sending us messages.

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By *ark n kimCouple
16 weeks ago

Durham

We both always read profiles if they interest us.really don't like it when we get a messages from anyone that obviously hasn't read ours.

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