FabSwingers.com forum: Connection/Social Needed? Busy Brain

By *ris221fab OP Man
16 weeks ago

North West

Hello all

Does anyone else feel they absolutely need a connection before doing anything further?

I love sex, that's why we're all here, right? But i find that my mind has to be stimulated to enjoy anything further. That connection is really needed.

Whereas lots of people, especially at clubs, seem to be able to go from 0 to 100, with seemingly no connection whatsoever.

At times I envy that ability to switch their mind off and enjoy completely animalistic fun. It sounds amazing.

Does anyone else need that extra connection though? It's probably a very busy/anxious/adhd filled brain for me.

Anyway, I'm based in the north west, would be good to meet others with a similar mindset.

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By *WB85Man
16 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Totally the same. I'm not desperate enough to just fuck anyone.

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By *oxy jWoman
16 weeks ago

taunton somerset

its good to be you its good not to want to fuck anything stick to your guns people will take notice and like that you are yourself ... one of the biggest things couples and women dont like is those who will indeed fuck anything do anything anywhere ...

preference / seeking attraction is sexy

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By *mmaleiaWoman
16 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I like a connection, I’m not good at spontaneous

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By *rangesmartieWoman
16 weeks ago

Devon

Yep, mental connection is essential. Like to be able to chat before, during and after activities. Being able to connect and share heightens the sexual feelings. The mind is the biggest sex organ

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By *obin444Man
16 weeks ago

Windsor

Absolutely.

A connection takes any encounter to a different level.

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By *ussraneCouple
16 weeks ago

Romford

A connection is paramount to good sex

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By *ostguy321Man
16 weeks ago

Bucks

A connection is everything otherwise its just sordid and cheap, definitely not my thing at all.

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By *ustamanMan
16 weeks ago

weymouth

I'm shallow - initial attraction and a good snog is all I need, for something more long term then this mysterious connection becomes more important

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
16 weeks ago

Stockport

We're not performing monkey's

We like a social as our thinking has always been that you've all got to get on , if you're gonna get it on

Yes we've been from social to play in minutes , so to speak

But there's got to be something there

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By *ris221fab OP Man
16 weeks ago

North West

Glad its not just me!

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By *omeo2024XXXMan
16 weeks ago

Greater London

"Yep, mental connection is essential. Like to be able to chat before, during and after activities. Being able to connect and share heightens the sexual feelings. The mind is the biggest sex organ "

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By *omeo2024XXXMan
16 weeks ago

Greater London

"A connection is everything otherwise its just sordid and cheap, definitely not my thing at all. "

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