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"Did you message saying thanks etc also launch into sex talk? That might have put them off. " No,no sex talk,just general chat . | |||
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"It's possible your message put them off." What, saying lovely profile, nice natural sexy pics, and general chat ect. | |||
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"Did you message saying thanks etc also launch into sex talk? That might have put them off. No,no sex talk,just general chat ." Ok it’s just when you said ‘ how hot their profile is and what we could do for each other’ I read that as it was sex content | |||
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"I'm guessing that the person who winked didn't consult their partner before doing so and was overruled " I would guess this is so, would be nice if knew which partner looked m/f lol | |||
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"I'm guessing that the person who winked didn't consult their partner before doing so and was overruled " All. The. Time. | |||
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"Did you message saying thanks etc also launch into sex talk? That might have put them off. No,no sex talk,just general chat . Ok it’s just when you said ‘ how hot their profile is and what we could do for each other’ I read that as it was sex content " It's was more of commenting on things their looking for and that we could be looking for same. I see were that could read as sex content lol | |||
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"It's possible your message put them off. What, saying lovely profile, nice natural sexy pics, and general chat ect." Not a clue. It's the conclusion I drew from what you said. They were interested - that's why they winked. You responded. They weren't interested anymore. What changed? Your message. | |||
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"I'm guessing that the person who winked didn't consult their partner before doing so and was overruled I would guess this is so, would be nice if knew which partner looked m/f lol" It wouldn't make you feel any better about it I don't think. It's often the woman who vetos contacts although not all the time | |||
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"It might be just something you said, a way you put something, spelling, text speak, whatever. Remember with couples you tend to have to appeal to two people as well, so may be that the other half didn't feel the same way. Not worth loosing sleep over. " This could well be true,and most likely is, there was no text speak(as I know most don't like). It's just frustrating as they made first contact, would be nice to message and say why instead of just blocking. But hey the show must go on. | |||
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"I'm guessing that the person who winked didn't consult their partner before doing so and was overruled I would guess this is so, would be nice if knew which partner looked m/f lol It wouldn't make you feel any better about it I don't think. It's often the woman who vetos contacts although not all the time" Reason being (think it may make me feel better) I get a lot of contact from bi guys(as I'm bi) ,so would have made me feel better if I knew it was the lady who made the contact 1st. Just my thoughts | |||
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"I'm guessing that the person who winked didn't consult their partner before doing so and was overruled I would guess this is so, would be nice if knew which partner looked m/f lol It wouldn't make you feel any better about it I don't think. It's often the woman who vetos contacts although not all the time Reason being (think it may make me feel better) I get a lot of contact from bi guys(as I'm bi) ,so would have made me feel better if I knew it was the lady who made the contact 1st. Just my thoughts " Fair enough | |||
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"Sounds like they didn't like your message." Lots have said this. Just thanking fir the wink,commenting on profile ect. So what bi couples who, wink and make 1st contact want in a 1st message from a bi guy. | |||
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"Sounds like they didn't like your message. Lots have said this. Just thanking fir the wink,commenting on profile ect. So what bi couples who, wink and make 1st contact want in a 1st message from a bi guy." We can't really say without knowing your message. Plus we don't know what they want. Personally any sexual stuff in a 1st message gets blocked, cock pics blocked, other people will have other preferences. | |||
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"Sounds like they didn't like your message. Lots have said this. Just thanking fir the wink,commenting on profile ect. So what bi couples who, wink and make 1st contact want in a 1st message from a bi guy. We can't really say without knowing your message. Plus we don't know what they want. Personally any sexual stuff in a 1st message gets blocked, cock pics blocked, other people will have other preferences." Just all frustrating and very confusing | |||
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"sometimes chat doesnt mean up for a meet? I chat politely to the folk who engage with me, doesn't mean I want to meet up, just being sociable? Also, I delete pms as a matter of keeping the profile manageable... if I didn't Id have way too many... deleting a message doesnt reflect on my thoughts about somebody!" It was delete and blocked. I was a social message, general chat. So don't know where I went wrong. | |||
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"There's all sorts there and best not getting too hung up on some of the antics. Had a picture fab from a couple account. Noticed because I get very few. Checked out the profile and returned the compliment by Fab'ing one of theirs. The account then blocked me which I found rather amusing lol" Exactly this. Always. | |||
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"There's all sorts there and best not getting too hung up on some of the antics. Had a picture fab from a couple account. Noticed because I get very few. Checked out the profile and returned the compliment by Fab'ing one of theirs. The account then blocked me which I found rather amusing lol" had similar, returned the fab..didn't follow up with a message, as out of their profile range..I'm now blocked?? | |||
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