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Hotel or home meets?

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By *ustylover98 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Warwickshire

Do you prefer hotel or home meets? Particularly on a first meet?

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By *ickylouCouple
17 weeks ago

Bi

Hotel always. Our home is our safe place for our family.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
17 weeks ago

stockport

Home meets love to hosting

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

First meet usually wouldn’t be either. But as a general rule of thumb - hotel - love a hotel meet, for a start don’t have to clean the sheets lol

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
17 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

we like home meets as long as there is a connection with whoever is invited

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By *enelope2UWoman
17 weeks ago

Fife

Neither I have higher standards

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Central

I'm mainly meeting in hotels, as you have easy support, lots of facilities etc, plus the benefits of security. No housework to do too

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By *ustylover98 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Warwickshire

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By *ustylover98 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Warwickshire


"Neither I have higher standards "

Such as?

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Depends how well I know the person/people.

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By *unclp2011Couple
17 weeks ago

Irwin

Hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

First meeting out and about. Ideally with the option of going home if we happen to be feeling it.

Hard no to first meeting in private anywhere or meeting stranger/s who've booked a room to have sex with me.

Later or incidental hotel use can be nice xx

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By *b750Couple
17 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Hotel only

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By * F 2018Couple
17 weeks ago

shropshire


"Do you prefer hotel or home meets? Particularly on a first meet?"

First meets social drink pub /hotel

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
17 weeks ago

the moon

Home over a hotel …

Those mattresses 🤢 … seen some better days …

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By *aturemaleMan
17 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Social meet first, then to a hotel if we click.

I can accommodate, but prefer to get to know people before I invite them into my home. I also quite like rhe anonymity and convenience of hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Hotel always for me. Guaranteed to make a mess and feels a lot more sexier and comfortable

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By *inMan321Man
17 weeks ago

Exeter

I would say either at this point as I have never had any luck on this site that's not virtual haha haha shameful right but I agree with the hotel as there is no clean up etc

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By *vaRose43Woman
17 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Hotel

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By *eroLondonMan
17 weeks ago

Mayfair

Hotel. Always. It's neutral territory, convenient and secure.

I take delight in the chivalrous notion of meeting someone at a hotel bar, imbibing and taking our sexual frisson to the next level, before being sequestered into a modernisticly stylish room and embarking on a dalliance that lingers for weeks after.

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By *inMan321Man
17 weeks ago

Exeter

Nicely said and that how it should be

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By *inMan321Man
17 weeks ago

Exeter

Winning

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By *eroLondonMan
17 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Hotel "

Eva, are you free in the next month or so for a clandestine hotel encounter?

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By *astpoetMan
17 weeks ago

where the world takes me

Whilst I have accommodate on my profile living in London means that’s hard, due to the cost of living I have housemates who don’t know my lifestyle.

My personal presence would normally be home if that wasn’t an issue, as it gives me a safe and comfortable environment, but I also understand how going into someone else’s home can have the opposite for others, especially women and minority groups

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Hotels to begin with until we get to know a couple , then we would host

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By *vaRose43Woman
17 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"Hotel

Eva, are you free in the next month or so for a clandestine hotel encounter?"

Wooo hoo

I’ll get my coat

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By *ularliWoman
17 weeks ago

Worcester

Home for me.

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By *lueyes69Man
17 weeks ago

coventry

Done both prefer home to be fair

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By *reen as JadeCouple
17 weeks ago

Cheshire

Hotel meets as we don't accommodate x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
17 weeks ago

cahoots

Club although we have had some hotel encounters

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By *onderlust69Couple
17 weeks ago

Central belt


"Do you prefer hotel or home meets? Particularly on a first meet?"

Starbucks for first meet

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By *pacecowboy99Man
17 weeks ago

Near You

Hotel always feels a bit naughtier and more exciting

But whatever is easiest and works in the situation!

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By *orders-cplCouple
17 weeks ago

middx cpl

i prefer marital bed meets rather than hotel

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By *inks_apeyCouple
17 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Clubs for us, as when meeting another couple all 4 have to click, and if already in a club at least we haven't waisted either couples time if for some reason it doesn't happen

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By *enusandmarsCouple
17 weeks ago

Buryish

If we're meeting a single guy then it's his home only. We want to know gor sure he's not married

With couples, then clubs usually

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By *herrybakewellCouple
17 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Nobody will ever be invited to our home.

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By *ogerroger69Man
17 weeks ago

West Yorks

Seeing a single guy seduce your wife on your home is truly surreal and special experience x

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
17 weeks ago

bolton

Always hotels less complicated

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Hotels, ain't no fab person entering my house.

Mrs

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By *inochioMan
17 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Same here, hotels offer a clean safe neutral environment. Meet in the bar, have a drink, if minds are changed at this point no hard feelings i enjoy spoiling myself with a nice hotel stay occasionally anyway, my wife is the same when she plays away. We both agree that our home is not for playing with others.

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By *eroLondonMan
17 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Hotel. Always. It's neutral territory, convenient and secure.

I take delight in the chivalrous notion of meeting someone at a hotel bar, imbibing and taking our sexual frisson to the next level, before being sequestered into a modernistic and stylish room and embarking on a dalliance that lingers for weeks after."

To clarify, this ^ is usually on subsequent meets and rarely for the inaugural one. 🦋

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

We rarely accommodate now after a few bad experiences. Something a bit more hot about using hotels as well

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By *arry monk40Man
17 weeks ago

Telford

Hotel always

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By *pthemanorMan
17 weeks ago

ABINGDON

Either or - social of some type first (usually, although it has been known for that part to be skipped )

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By *ricktop1966Man
17 weeks ago

colchester

Hotel as it adds to the thrill

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By *luebell888Woman
17 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I like hotel meets as always feel unsafe and uncomfortable in someone's home.

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By *oodiesCoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Leicestershire

After a social… definitely a hotel, a nice hotel especially if we’re stopping the night.

And I may even take a clean bedsheet to play on 🙈 I can’t sleep on wet cum covered bedding 😂

We have children, so our home is out of bounds!

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By *neeyedwillieMan
17 weeks ago

Darlington

If its just a lady and i, then a hotel.

If its my wife and I, clubs.

Got a kid at home so.....home is not happening.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
17 weeks ago

Wherever

I prefer hotel.

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By *ixedglcplsMan
17 weeks ago

england

Don’t mind both hotel or home

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By *winging_couple300Couple
17 weeks ago

Doncaster

Club or hotel, our home is for family

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
17 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Social first, all our sexual meets have been in our house in our bed, can't afford hotels all the time, plus it's nice think of all the different sucked and fucked cocks in our bed

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By *ardiner8Couple
17 weeks ago

Ramsgate

Where ever we lay our hat

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By *annSummersMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hotel meets! I don’t want to visit someone’s home and vice versa.

Happy to leave the wet sheets for the cleaners to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Hotel out of the 2.

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By *0 DancerMan
17 weeks ago

Brighton

I prefer to meet a couple at their house. It’s so sexy and comfortable. Especially if the husband bi. I know for a first meet not easy but I like to be friend and meet at home stay overnight.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
17 weeks ago

cardiff

Depends on who we meeting up with x

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Depends on who we meeting up with x"

Hot tub room?

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
17 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Hotel

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By *eelsandsuitsCouple
17 weeks ago

stirling

If we host it’s always a hotel, just not keen on our home being known by people we really don’t know that well. We have been to others homes though. Each to their own.

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By *ark n kimCouple
17 weeks ago

Durham

Home,but only after a social.

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By *ab50Man
17 weeks ago

bexhill

Hotel meets are so naughty..

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
17 weeks ago

Sheffield

Prefer a club setting. Would only feel comfortable in a hotel with someone I knew well.

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By *usty kayWoman
17 weeks ago

Burnham

First meet is usually Costa. That then drives if and where I'd feel comfortable for the next one.

I'd like hotel meets just so I don't have to worry about the housework but usually end up at mine or his

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By *ike_looking_forMan
17 weeks ago

Cumbria

hotels, even thoug most have thin walls these days it saves the neighbours getting the same audio

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By *oLondonWoman
17 weeks ago

London

Hotel!

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By *herry delightWoman
17 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

NEVER ever a hotel for any meet.

I value of my safety too much.

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By *etmebeinurefantasiesMan
17 weeks ago

witney

I'd be happy just to get a meet with a single female or couple

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
17 weeks ago

Chislehurst

Either

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