FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Local pub surprise left with dilemma

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago

Went a few drinks in the local the other day got chatting to a lovely lady and as the night went on flirting became a little more obvious whilst talking mentioned we were looking to buy a house she said her hubby was a financial advisor and if I give her my number she will sort out the mortgage… anyway come the end of the night she said she needed to get something out her car of which was in an unlit car park behind the pub. She asked as I was leaving if I would accompany her to get whatever it was out her car. I did that where she then asked for my number again and started kissing me can’t lie she is very attractive and had a great ass we literally kissed nothing else. Fast forward two nights later I popped in pub for another drink and she was there introduced me to her family her husband wasn’t there like a few nights earlier. Had a laugh and a couple of drinks we then had a cigarette and she was pushing her bum into my hands and again kissed me.. it was much busier in the pub and this was in the beer garden no where discreet shall we say. Her mum works on the pub too so many of the locals know her and her family.

During a few texts I thought I would ask if she swings she said no never and I don’t normally do what I have done this weekend. She says she wants to arrange seeing me again but I am very confident her husband has no clue about any of this. She’s very attractive and very sexy do I walk away from the situation or see where it leads?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Danger! Stay away.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ycling cockMan
17 weeks ago

Hale

Personally I’d have her knickers off and my head between her legs ready for a good deep fuck. I’d bet she could be persuaded to swing. Sounds like her husband isn’t enough for her!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reasyMan
17 weeks ago

Caerphilly

I see two sides to this one of them is the OP Wife obviously knows as it’s a joint profile so he can’t get grief from her. The dangerous side is if her husband doesn’t know when he finds out they would be a little grief there a lot of guys would say that’s worth taking the risk. I don’t know. I’ve never been in that position.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Central

[Removed by poster at 26/08/24 19:45:55]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Central

Too many red flags 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lowupdollTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

0 to 100%. I’d put money on you’re a game she plays and if you don’t steer clear you might at the very least need to find a new local.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Exit stage left to many danger signs.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *otuseater11Man
17 weeks ago

IRVINE

Mate stay away this might not end well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago

Appreciate the comments people and think you could be right…. They don’t live in the same village but only 15 mins up the road.

It does seem a little red flag like hence asking on here to get a general consensus

And in response to one of the comments trust me at the time when she first kissed me and threw her legs around my waist my first thought was been her over the car bonnet however some reasonable thinking time been had since and left unsure

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

You say in your status you hope to get to know her better....so it would seem you already know what your planning.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex

If her husband doesn't know why would you help her cheat on him?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago

Do but don’t if that makes sense

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Do but don’t if that makes sense "

Not really to be truthful. I get the forbidden fruit thing and the surprise of the approach but aren't there enough women whose husbands support to do this stuff?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uriouscouple241Couple
17 weeks ago

Newmarket

Personally it sounds as if she is unsure on her boundaries and expectations, if all parties are not on the same page it could be a recipe for disaster. It is really important to stick to boundaries in all cases so maybe could you message her and ask what her husband’s feelings are on the idea, and maybe (if comfortable) have a conversation with him to alleviate the worries you are feeling.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Did you give her your number so she can sort your mortgage ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *stwo80Couple
17 weeks ago

yorkshire

Do you own a pet rabbit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iredhandMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester


"Did you give her your number so she can sort your mortgage ?"

The term endowment may have been used but not in the way it would be in mortgage terms.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"If her husband doesn't know why would you help her cheat on him?"

I get this totally but on the flip side to have met people on here who after tell us that they are married etc

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Do you own a pet rabbit "

Think you have lost us here? Or are we being to innocent there?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Did you give her your number so she can sort your mortgage ?"

No not at the time didn’t exchange numbers till the kiss later that evening

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ony MannMan
17 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

OP ask your wife if she would like the husband, if they get it on, you should be OK.

I'm not sure I would take her up on the offer, but who knows till it happens to me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isstinseltoesWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"If her husband doesn't know why would you help her cheat on him?

I get this totally but on the flip side to have met people on here who after tell us that they are married etc "

But then if you didn't know, you're not at fault.

You know she's married now, if he doesn't know why get involved with her?

I'd stay well clear personally.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"OP ask your wife if she would like the husband, if they get it on, you should be OK.

I'm not sure I would take her up on the offer, but who knows till it happens to me."

Don’t know who he is what he looks like otherside should would be gane for that or for her to join us both if this lady is bi have no idea

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If her husband doesn't know why would you help her cheat on him?

I get this totally but on the flip side to have met people on here who after tell us that they are married etc "

The difference here being you know already.

I don't know what your dilemma is really. You know what's potentially at stake, if you're ok with it go ahead but don't expect to get a good deal on a mortgage if he finds out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex

Also ask yourself if you would be happy being the husband in this situation

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Also ask yourself if you would be happy being the husband in this situation "

Simone else asked this and my wife would be honest and upfront on that side of things so difficult… but no wouldn’t want to be him if it was the other way round

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"If her husband doesn't know why would you help her cheat on him?

I get this totally but on the flip side to have met people on here who after tell us that they are married etc

The difference here being you know already.

I don't know what your dilemma is really. You know what's potentially at stake, if you're ok with it go ahead but don't expect to get a good deal on a mortgage if he finds out "

Certainly would be going to him for a mortgage anyway now after the weekends antics shall we call them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Also ask yourself if you would be happy being the husband in this situation

Simone else asked this and my wife would be honest and upfront on that side of things so difficult… but no wouldn’t want to be him if it was the other way round "

🤷‍♀️

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cotsboyMan
17 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"If her husband doesn't know why would you help her cheat on him?

I get this totally but on the flip side to have met people on here who after tell us that they are married etc

The difference here being you know already.

I don't know what your dilemma is really. You know what's potentially at stake, if you're ok with it go ahead but don't expect to get a good deal on a mortgage if he finds out

Certainly would be going to him for a mortgage anyway now after the weekends antics shall we call them "

And what antics did you get up to?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ountry PeaksCouple
17 weeks ago

In The Surrey Hills


"Do you own a pet rabbit

Think you have lost us here? Or are we being to innocent there? "

The original line made me laugh, very good.

It’s in reference to Fatal Attraction

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"If her husband doesn't know why would you help her cheat on him?

I get this totally but on the flip side to have met people on here who after tell us that they are married etc

The difference here being you know already.

I don't know what your dilemma is really. You know what's potentially at stake, if you're ok with it go ahead but don't expect to get a good deal on a mortgage if he finds out

Certainly would be going to him for a mortgage anyway now after the weekends antics shall we call them

And what antics did you get up to?"

Not

Much as explained in the original post

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *angerous123Man
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Walk away mate

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *stwo80Couple
17 weeks ago

yorkshire


"Do you own a pet rabbit

Think you have lost us here? Or are we being to innocent there? "

The film Fatal Attraction, she boiled a pet rabbit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top