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By *aravancouple OP   Man
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We some times get messages from people that say would you like to meet me and my fuckbudy, that puts us off straight away dose it put you off or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Why does it put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it once, left us feeling we had taken part is some thing which had very great potential to hurt two totally innocent people.

We don't do it any more because of how we felt, not because we judge how others do their business

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's not something we do either.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"We don't do it any more because of how we felt, not because we judge how others do their business "

We don't meet fuck partners either but we do judge others by their actions! Everyone does!!! The very act of meeting with a fuck buddy if they are married to someone else is not right and judgement IS made on that person if YOU feel bad for the innocent ones! So to say you don't judge is just not right!

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By *aravancouple OP   Man
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"Why does it put you off?"

Because we don't like the term fuckbudy if they put there partner or GF we don't have a problem, I think we are just a bit old fashioned LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet fuck buddies but for another reason other than the one previously mentioned.

We're sharing the most precious thing in our lives,our long term lover/partner.

Its a big commitment on our part and we expect the same commitment in return,not just to meet up with a couple who have got together with the sole purpose of getting a shag.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i remember years ago when i was with the ex talking to a couple we was planning on meeting and i remember the woman saying they only met 'real' couples as the felt they was risking a lot doing this and if it ruined their marrage they wanted the other couple to go thro the same, i just thought charming and that really put me off meeting them

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

dont want 1

dont need them

I get all I want being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't do it any more because of how we felt, not because we judge how others do their business

We don't meet fuck partners either but we do judge others by their actions! Everyone does!!! The very act of meeting with a fuck buddy if they are married to someone else is not right and judgement IS made on that person if YOU feel bad for the innocent ones! So to say you don't judge is just not right! "

Nope, sorry and I know you don't like it as this is now a recurring theme, but we really do not judge.

We leave that to others and there are plenty of them in here, there is practically a new thread started on it every hour on the hour in here.

How people carry out their business on this site is entirely up to them.

All we do is decide what we wish to partake in and those we wish to partake in it with

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Why does it put you off?

Because we don't like the term fuckbudy if they put there partner or GF we don't have a problem, I think we are just a bit old fashioned LOL. "

I agree that the word fuckbuddy is'nt very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i remember years ago when i was with the ex talking to a couple we was planning on meeting and i remember the woman saying they only met 'real' couples as the felt they was risking a lot doing this and if it ruined their marrage they wanted the other couple to go thro the same, i just thought charming and that really put me off meeting them "
To be honest I can understand their point of view. I've seen lots of profiles on here from couples stating just that and from their point of view they have to deal with the 'consequences' of swinging as a couple. The dynamics would be different if two fuck buddies: I detest that term - were playing I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try not to judge peoples relationships, be it marital or convenience. We actually say on our profile that we will meet singles if they can pair up with a partner. We play because we want to enjoy sexy fun.

Selecting playmates can be really difficult, and this is an obstacle we choose not to negotiate, but, like so many subjects debated here, each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years I have met many couples who refer to themselves as FB's.

Some are cheating on others and we don't agree with that but that is up to them, as it is up to us not to play with them.

Some only meet other people when they are together but have thier own reasons for only being FB's and not forming a relationship with each other, they meet of sex but have no other form of relationship with each other.

Some single ladies like to find a guy just to go to an event with rather than go alone, cannot say we don't understand that and some single guys do the same.

The only FB's we don't like are (and it is mostly guys that are the cluprits here) the ones that grab any woman to attend a club or social event with in the hope that it will get them a shag with another couple, they don't care if they fancy the lady or not, the way they see it is they wont have to have sex with her because they plan to "swap" her the first chance they get.

All that said we don't meet FB's either because we like to play with people who love each other and care for each other, who care about how the partner they are with is enjoying the night and care for each others welfare, we want sex with people who love each other and enjoy sex with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the years I have met many couples who refer to themselves as FB's.

Some are cheating on others and we don't agree with that but that is up to them, as it is up to us not to play with them.

Some only meet other people when they are together but have thier own reasons for only being FB's and not forming a relationship with each other, they meet of sex but have no other form of relationship with each other.

Some single ladies like to find a guy just to go to an event with rather than go alone, cannot say we don't understand that and some single guys do the same.

The only FB's we don't like are (and it is mostly guys that are the cluprits here) the ones that grab any woman to attend a club or social event with in the hope that it will get them a shag with another couple, they don't care if they fancy the lady or not, the way they see it is they wont have to have sex with her because they plan to "swap" her the first chance they get.

All that said we don't meet FB's either because we like to play with people who love each other and care for each other, who care about how the partner they are with is enjoying the night and care for each others welfare, we want sex with people who love each other and enjoy sex with others."
I'm single but if I were part of a couple that swung my approach would be the same as yours.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Over the years I have met many couples who refer to themselves as FB's.

Some are cheating on others and we don't agree with that but that is up to them, as it is up to us not to play with them.

Some only meet other people when they are together but have thier own reasons for only being FB's and not forming a relationship with each other, they meet of sex but have no other form of relationship with each other.

Some single ladies like to find a guy just to go to an event with rather than go alone, cannot say we don't understand that and some single guys do the same.

The only FB's we don't like are (and it is mostly guys that are the cluprits here) the ones that grab any woman to attend a club or social event with in the hope that it will get them a shag with another couple, they don't care if they fancy the lady or not, the way they see it is they wont have to have sex with her because they plan to "swap" her the first chance they get.

All that said we don't meet FB's either because we like to play with people who love each other and care for each other, who care about how the partner they are with is enjoying the night and care for each others welfare, we want sex with people who love each other and enjoy sex with others."

Why can't love and sex be mutually exclusive?

Isn't it conceivable that a couple could be in a sexless relationship but still be in love? If both parties are honest and happy for each other to have sex outside that relationship by having a FB, then what's the problem?

We're all here and are part of the lifestyle because we enjoy sex but we don't fall in love with every person we have sex with. The "other people" with whom we swing with are just pawns in the game, merely tools to be used for our own gratification. Sure, it's important that everyone involved gets some form of satisfaction out of it, but none of us got into this purely because we want to satisfy others - we do what we do because it pleases ourselves first and foremost.

Taking this thought one step further, if someone meets up with any old woman irrespective of whether they're attracted to them and want to have sex with them (in which case I'd say that they're not fuck buddies as surely they'd have to be buddies that fuck to fit that description..?) just so that they can gain entrance to a club or other event, what's the harm if both parties are getting something they want out of it? Presumably nobody else attending the club or event is forced to have sex with either member of this couple if they don't desire. Therefore they're only capable of having sex because someone else wanted to have sex with them, and not for some other reason, i.e. because somebody felt sorry for them.

There's a certain irony in the fact that you won't meet couples who are FBs because their raison d'être is to simply have sex and not have a loving relationship, when the point of you meeting them is because you want to have sex with them and, presumably, not a loving relationship.

ps - I'm not having a go at you, I am just playing Devil's Advocate because I am curious by your comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i remember years ago when i was with the ex talking to a couple we was planning on meeting and i remember the woman saying they only met 'real' couples as the felt they was risking a lot doing this and if it ruined their marrage they wanted the other couple to go thro the same, i just thought charming and that really put me off meeting them

To be honest I can understand their point of view. I've seen lots of profiles on here from couples stating just that and from their point of view they have to deal with the 'consequences' of swinging as a couple. The dynamics would be different if two fuck buddies: I detest that term - were playing I guess."

but not all real couples are the same, some couples are very secure in what they do in swinging, where others arn't, all because two couples meet and one couple decide its not for them and fall out over it does that mean they have to push that mistake on the other couple? personally i find it a very selfish attitude, if i had ever fallen out over swinging i wouldnt dream of expecting the other couple to be involved in the after efects, that part is not part of swinging and should be kept behind closed door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i remember years ago when i was with the ex talking to a couple we was planning on meeting and i remember the woman saying they only met 'real' couples as the felt they was risking a lot doing this and if it ruined their marrage they wanted the other couple to go thro the same, i just thought charming and that really put me off meeting them

To be honest I can understand their point of view. I've seen lots of profiles on here from couples stating just that and from their point of view they have to deal with the 'consequences' of swinging as a couple. The dynamics would be different if two fuck buddies: I detest that term - were playing I guess.

but not all real couples are the same, some couples are very secure in what they do in swinging, where others arn't, all because two couples meet and one couple decide its not for them and fall out over it does that mean they have to push that mistake on the other couple? personally i find it a very selfish attitude, if i had ever fallen out over swinging i wouldnt dream of expecting the other couple to be involved in the after efects, that part is not part of swinging and should be kept behind closed door"
Oh I agree with you: I've never subscribed to the misery loves company attitude, but reading some of the profiles from couples on this and other sites you wonder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't meet fuck buddies but for another reason other than the one previously mentioned.

We're sharing the most precious thing in our lives,our long term lover/partner.

Its a big commitment on our part and we expect the same commitment in return,not just to meet up with a couple who have got together with the sole purpose of getting a shag.

XXXX"

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if the fuck buddy is filthy, has rotton teeth, greasy hair and smells of fish.

That would tend to make us think twice, otherwise we'd just play it by ear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't meet fuck buddies but for another reason other than the one previously mentioned.

We're sharing the most precious thing in our lives,our long term lover/partner.

Its a big commitment on our part and we expect the same commitment in return,not just to meet up with a couple who have got together with the sole purpose of getting a shag.

XXXX

Couldn't agree more "

Same for us, it fully encapsulates why we enjoy this lifestyle

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"We some times get messages from people that say would you like to meet me and my fuckbudy, that puts us off straight away dose it put you off or not? "

The only reason it would put us off is that one or both may be cheating on their partner. We aren't looking for love or a long term relationship here, it is purely sex in the first instance, but we have made some very good friends as well which is a wonderful 'by product' - also just because you meet a 'real' couple - how do you know that they're committed to each other and in love? They might just be in it for a quick shag in exactly the same way as fuck buddies - there's a thought!!! Z

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"We some times get messages from people that say would you like to meet me and my fuckbudy, that puts us off straight away dose it put you off or not?

The only reason it would put us off is that one or both may be cheating on their partner. We aren't looking for love or a long term relationship here, it is purely sex in the first instance, but we have made some very good friends as well which is a wonderful 'by product' - also just because you meet a 'real' couple - how do you know that they're committed to each other and in love? They might just be in it for a quick shag in exactly the same way as fuck buddies - there's a thought!!! Z"

Exactly - met a "real-married-dont play separately" couple, had been swigning for years, partiex, gangbangs, experienced,.. the lot. First chance they met us (at a party), he took the first chance he got to accost Zoe - behind not just my back, but his partner's also, then suggested Zoe came onto him.

What annoys me is the fact he did it while she was clearly "a little too merry". So much for being a gentleman eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeting people that are committed to each other means they know what the other person wants in a meet.

we met two fuck buddies and where not impress by the way he treated the female and it really put it of him. we did feel very sorry for the young lady and she was a lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't meet fuck buddies but for another reason other than the one previously mentioned.

We're sharing the most precious thing in our lives,our long term lover/partner.

Its a big commitment on our part and we expect the same commitment in return,not just to meet up with a couple who have got together with the sole purpose of getting a shag.

XXXX

Couldn't agree more

Same for us, it fully encapsulates why we enjoy this lifestyle "

This sums us up nicely as well.

We also find the social aspect before the clothes come off easier as the couple we're with know each other as well as Grace and I know each other. We don't feel insecure at all and infact we've been off out separately for day-time activities with some of the people we've met here.

We don't need a swinging site to find alternative sexual partners for the night. Any shit nightclub could make that goal achievable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not something we'd take part in at all, it leaves us cold. Especially when the fuck buddies are both playing away from home wives husbands etc whatever the situation. If they are both great looking and lie like hell though who are we to know lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an ex bi female 'swingle' on here I have to say the guys that got in touch with me and before we had even met wanted to know if I had any bi friends and/or wanted to go to a party or a club with them left me totally cold !

I would only ever meet with 'real' couples, and would spend a little time getting to know the couple first, that way I could be pretty well assured that the fem was as happy to be playing as the male was.

x Raz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread will go nowhere fast because it's one of those types where people have their own views and ideas about it.

I'm a single guy and i have two friends who i have no strings attached sex with. Were not in love with each other and get together because were friends and like having sex with each other and is no different with couples meeting other couples or singles within the loose swinging term. If any of us decided we would like someone else to join us then we would discuss it and both would have to want to or it would be a no...simple. Personally i have no interest in meeting with a MF couple so i'm glad i don't fit in with the single guy latching onto a female so as to have sex with a couple. We don't all fit into these narrow catagories that people seem to suggest we all belong in and we have to remember EVERYONE is different with different needs, wants, and desires. Only because people have sex with people who may or may not love the person their with does not mean they don't have fantastic sex or a great time. People don't like the term 'fuck buddy' which i agree is a course term but this relationship is hardly different from 'swingers' meeting strangers, or those they have chatted to for 5 minutes, and having sex with.

At the end of the day does it really matter who does what and with whom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aint quite worked out what exactly a fuckbuddy means some single fellas use different fem each time they want to meet a couple or are fb's only fb's to each other dont quite know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as i see it my fb is the guy i meet regularly as a friend we have somethin to eat a chat and most times sex! if we started goin out to pubs etc it may be somethin else? we both single so no harm in it and we will never be a "real couple" for so many reasons but we not hurtin anyone. i can understand with couples in case a million go wrong senarious could happen so may be easier with another committed couple but each to the own xxx

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

the first couple we met of hear were fuckbuddies. It took a few days to not think about it any longer.

a freind of ours is hooking up with her mate as fb's but she is leaving her husband. It is very nice when two people partner up together and become fuck buddies. I think the guilt of it been from a hell of a long line of married relatives together till there dying day kind of thing. It is hard to not judge and feel guilty going with a married person with out the partner knowing about it.

BUT were getting used to not judging anyone on sexual practis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe its me but i am finding some comments difficult to undersatand with this thread........ as with others im sure we share the opinion that honesty is formost with swinging., but we try our best not to be judgemental of ppl .im not sure im getting this meet ppl who are buddies, who are looked upon as peeps, who are just out for a shag...... not my words, we have met many a married cpl who are just only into swinging for the same reasons.also if ppl are at least honest with the fact that they are infact buddies and not in a relationship or at least not with that particular person, surely that counts for something........ im sure there are many peeps in fab who are infact married, engaged or similar who swear they are single. pinch of salt comes to mind, but also, take ppl on face value and not judge until a social meet has taken place.only my views of course, but i dont think any of us have reason to judge ppl we dont know and why they infact do certain things in their lives....... merry christmas all, have fun be safe, and above all be nice xxxx

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Ok, lets try this idea (because it happens), who would you rather meet:

1) A married couple with individual agendas they hide from each other?

2) A "fuckbuddies" pairing who have yet to "label" their relationship as "bf/gf" or "taking it to next level" but otherwise completely happy with what they have and the peopel they meet?

Simplicity would dictate "Married couple in, fuckbuddies out" and I think with these two examples its obviously not that clear cut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as i see it my fb is the guy i meet regularly as a friend we have somethin to eat a chat and most times sex! if we started goin out to pubs etc it may be somethin else? we both single so no harm in it and we will never be a "real couple" for so many reasons but we not hurtin anyone. i can understand with couples in case a million go wrong senarious could happen so may be easier with another committed couple but each to the own xxx "
I think most of us swingles have 'relationships' such as this. The people I play with are friends. We go out for meals, drinks etc and some I talk to every day and seldom about sex. The difference is if I dont hear from them I dont sit by my phone worrying about it. Clubs, groups and couples dont appeal to me: two subs eager to please is great fun. We all have different ways of swinging, there is no right or wrong, just what feels good to the people involved. I think the OP is just expressing their preference and not criticising in any way. As a couple I'm assuming there are things to consider that dont bother us swingles x

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Ok, lets try this idea (because it happens), who would you rather meet:

1) A married couple with individual agendas they hide from each other?

2) A "fuckbuddies" pairing who have yet to "label" their relationship as "bf/gf" or "taking it to next level" but otherwise completely happy with what they have and the peopel they meet?

Simplicity would dictate "Married couple in, fuckbuddies out" and I think with these two examples its obviously not that clear cut."

Wouldn't meet with either of them!! Mainly because we DO make judgments on people!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, lets try this idea (because it happens), who would you rather meet:

1) A married couple with individual agendas they hide from each other?

2) A "fuckbuddies" pairing who have yet to "label" their relationship as "bf/gf" or "taking it to next level" but otherwise completely happy with what they have and the peopel they meet?

Simplicity would dictate "Married couple in, fuckbuddies out" and I think with these two examples its obviously not that clear cut.

Wouldn't meet with either of them!! Mainly because we DO make judgments on people!! "

Well done you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though certain people are adamant that they won't meet "fuckbuddies", I reckon that an equal and opposite number would have no problem with it. The best thing about websites, with profiles and information on them, is the ability to eliminate the people who are unsuitable for you own needs. Maybe FB's should look for other FB couples and keep the fun to themselves?

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Who the fuck cares? People will/ won't meet others as suits them.

Ain't that enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met hubby on here and never thought that i would meet someone who i would enjoy swinging with,and be happy and settled with,we been very happy together for past few yrs.

But we have met a couple,and she was only swinging for him,she thought if she done it then he would want to be with her,when me and her man started playing she went mad... Hubby kicked em out.

You need to be honest from the start,tell her... You might be pleasantly suprised xxxx

You need to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok so im a swingle bi girl i get lots of mail from couples wanting to play with me which is great...i also have a fuck buddy who i like to play with for parties clubs etc...neither of us are playing away we both love the single life too much to want to be part of a proper couple...does that mean the couples i may meet as a swingle wud not want to meet me as part of a couple ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though certain people are adamant that they won't meet "fuckbuddies", I reckon that an equal and opposite number would have no problem with it. The best thing about websites, with profiles and information on them, is the ability to eliminate the people who are unsuitable for you own needs. Maybe FB's should look for other FB couples and keep the fun to themselves?

"

Prefer the term Bed Buddy...having played previously as a single bi fem...then as a couple but with a guy who was purely a bed buddy...and playing now as a couple with a man I love and adore...my personal perspective is I struggle ethically with with cheating...

I have played with peeps who i thought were a "real" couple...only to find they had teamed up just to fuck me and my Bed buddy at a club...felt kinda used by that one....but hey peeps who me and my BB met at clubs may have been shocked to discover we were buddies and not a "real" couple...as no one ever asked us...

Now playing as a "real" couple..its fraught with dilemas....we have yet to play in a 4some with another couple..when we go to clubs it all gets very wild and some crazy unholy combinations occur..hehe...but as yet no same room play with just one other couple...from a purely social aspect we enjoy chatting with any friendly funny peeps...but we would not knowingly PLAY with Fuck buddies who were cheating on unwitting partners..but as previous posters have said ..some peeps are great liars.

So the club scene can sometimes be an unknown quantity on the cheating Fbuddy front..but if peeps are honest on their profiles about what and who they are...we all have the choice to play or block...and its a personal one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont really go on what a couple call them selfs but more on how it goes when we talk on the phone or meet up. Have met couples married for years who were had work and so called buddies we got on with great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife had a fuckbudy that she`d meet on her own every 4-6 weeks and stay over night at his place. He wasn`t a partner or bf. What else would we call him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh err just realised that if I ever met a couple it would have to be with a man so I suppose we would be called buddies ah well best make sure I stick to what I do best ..... talking and no action as this seems so darn complicated in terms of etiquette to me!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"My wife had a fuckbudy that she`d meet on her own every 4-6 weeks and stay over night at his place. He wasn`t a partner or bf. What else would we call him? "

Lucky...?

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By *ayc_BigballsMan
over a year ago

Derby


"My wife had a fuckbudy that she`d meet on her own every 4-6 weeks and stay over night at his place. He wasn`t a partner or bf. What else would we call him?

Lucky...?"

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We some times get messages from people that say would you like to meet me and my fuckbudy, that puts us off straight away dose it put you off or not? "

Yes it puts me off. It's not the 'legal' relationship thing or the fact that they are not in a long term relationship. It's just a word that makes me cringe. I mean.........why not

here is my Portable Part Time Cunt .

or ........ Female Fanny Friend....

Transportable Twat ....

Commutable Cock ...... Driveable Dick?

Why does it need a name ? In the supermarket is the person you are shopping with .. your purchasing pal ? your Trolley Traveller ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much nicer to just call them friends, after all it's no one else's business what people do together.

You either want to play with them or not.

Too many people make up their own morality code and think that everyone should follow it.

We are all free thinking adults and what we do for our fun is fine as long as both parties agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We some times get messages from people that say would you like to meet me and my fuckbudy, that puts us off straight away dose it put you off or not? "

yeah puts me off cause it means they not a single guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife had a fuckbudy that she`d meet on her own every 4-6 weeks and stay over night at his place. He wasn`t a partner or bf. What else would we call him?

Lucky...?"

lol...he thought so too

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester

'Fuckbudy' does sound harsh and cold to me..

I have 'Friends with benefits'

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood


"We some times get messages from people that say would you like to meet me and my fuckbudy, that puts us off straight away dose it put you off or not?

yeah puts me off cause it means they not a single guy lol"

And why is that?

My Fuckbuddy is a single guy so think you may be assuming too much....

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"We some times get messages from people that say would you like to meet me and my fuckbudy, that puts us off straight away dose it put you off or not?

yeah puts me off cause it means they not a single guy lol

And why is that?

My Fuckbuddy is a single guy so think you may be assuming too much...."

Some people do assume too much but unfortunately there are married guys who play away with fb's and it can tar quite innocent people with the same brush - sad but true Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it a friend with benefits. I'm a full time single mum who works hard. Not got time for full time relationship married to my kids. But still have needs. Meet up and we go to the clubs together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer friends with benefits than the dreaded one night stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i want friends also but not many in reply back to standard messages even though they have read it

then delete it

makes me think why i do bother in mailing them

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

What has a moan about people not replying to messages got to do with a thread about the term fuck buddy

You've been here long enough to know that not everyone replies to messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe not long enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry just am getting tired an not reading properly

but it dose make you wanna scream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry just am getting tired an not reading properly

but it dose make you wanna scream"

That it does but posting about it is never gonna get you any sympathy in here, just suck it up and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well were now a couple wonder if the emails will come rolling in? really dont know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well were now a couple wonder if the emails will come rolling in? really dont know."

NO..baby you will get less than you did as a single girl (in my experience)....but yay...glad you have made it "official"...mwah and see ya soon xx

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