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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago

I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks!

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By *ustamanMan
24 weeks ago

weymouth

No to both, do it you won't regret it

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By *illDoXXXMan
24 weeks ago

Preston

No to both , and nice to know no little bundles of joy make should something pop !

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By *r MzchiefMan
24 weeks ago

Middle Earth

I didnt experience any change in libido. The procedure snips the tubes the facilitate the movement of sperm apart from thatthe testicles are pretty much left alone. It does not stop the production of ejaculate, might recuce the quantity.

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By *ausage1970Man
24 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Made no difference at all and bear in mind it's a simple procedure and no worse than having a tooth filled.

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By *luesindminorMan
24 weeks ago

Birmingham

No change in libido, it is ‘uncomfortable’ during the procedure but it is only short lived. Sometimes it looks clearer, but not reduced in the amount.

Only do it if you are choosing never to have kids, otherwise there are no downside post the operation

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By *hil most chillMan
24 weeks ago

South East & Europe


"Made no difference at all and bear in mind it's a simple procedure and no worse than having a tooth filled. "

Except there's a surgeon playing with your balls, which is a slightly different dynamic. I found it an uncomfortable experience personally, but not too bad. The benefits definitely make it worthwhile!

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By *implesimon777Man
24 weeks ago

Leeds

Nope, neither of those changes

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
24 weeks ago

London

I've had it and no can safely say no difference on either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago

Thank you everyone for replying! I am very tempted to have it done, but I’m still gathering facts before I make the final decision.

What sort of discomfort have you experienced during the procedure? Was it pin or something else? I don’t mind the pain

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By *8warrenMan
24 weeks ago

.

O no change, nothing changes, it’s a simple little op and mine was a quick recovery

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By *iredhandMan
24 weeks ago

Manchester


"Thank you everyone for replying! I am very tempted to have it done, but I’m still gathering facts before I make the final decision.

What sort of discomfort have you experienced during the procedure? Was it pin or something else? I don’t mind the pain"

Done under local anaesthetic and all you will feel is a little tugging as they cut and seal the vas deferens.

If you do have it done and change your mind about kids after, you can have a reversal which is a bigger procedure carried out under general anaesthetic and can be successful, as it was for me.

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By *xfordjohnMan
24 weeks ago

Oxford

It didn't change anything for me too - in fact, it makes it easier to go bareback if that is what you want.

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By *iredhandMan
24 weeks ago

Manchester


"It didn't change anything for me too - in fact, it makes it easier to go bareback if that is what you want."

Vasectomy or not, bareback still carries the risk of STIs. It isn’t just pregnancy that is the risk.

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By *allipygousMan
24 weeks ago

Leicester


"I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks! "

It didn't affect my libido but it certainly made a difference to the viscosity of my ejaculations. There's no sperm swimming around so it's more watery. I found that women who said they don't swallow were more inclined to do so. Easier to ingest I guess 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

No to both but was cold in the procedure room…

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By *ppydayzzMan
24 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

I dunno what drugs they gave me but I had a great few hours afterwards! Definitely take note when they say you can’t drive home .

And no to all questions as others have said

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By *aldyballsMan
24 weeks ago

South Cheshire

I have found that actually cumming is not as intense. I miss the volume I was a heavy cummer so the orgasm doesn't feel as physical or intense.

Actually having the snip wasn't too painful just very embarrassing, the wife of one of the guys I played football with was the nurse and yes she did recognise me unfortunately.

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By *amieLDN22Man
24 weeks ago

London


"

Except there's a surgeon playing with your balls, which is a slightly different dynamic. I found it an uncomfortable experience personally, but not too bad. The benefits definitely make it worthwhile!"

Surgeon playing with my balls? *runs to Mars*

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By *uskymotoMan
24 weeks ago

Cumbria

Got the snip, 2 paracetamol, wait 20 minutes and drove 2 hours to get home.

Didn't need anything else except slack pants for a day.

My libido wasn't affected at all. I ejaculate about half the volume I used to but that's no problem, probably a bonus for some ladies. Not everyone wants gallons of spunk to clean up.

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By *tickler2000Man
24 weeks ago

St Agnes

What they said.

I still use a condom with partners with unknown history.

Lots of galloping knob rot out there.

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By *fricanguyMan
24 weeks ago

warr

60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

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By *essTTWoman
24 weeks ago

Birmingham


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world "

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babies

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By *fricanguyMan
24 weeks ago

warr


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babies"
what if they change their mind down the road ?

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By *essTTWoman
24 weeks ago

Birmingham


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?"

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed.

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By *fricanguyMan
24 weeks ago

warr


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. "
sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

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By *dmit-itMan
24 weeks ago

Bristol

Such freedom when unloading, knowing I was shooting blanks especially as my wife loves cum

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By *essTTWoman
24 weeks ago

Birmingham


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao "

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

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By *fricanguyMan
24 weeks ago

warr


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it"

No I would never put myself through all that n am not worried I just made a statement n you replied it's public and I never called them crazy I said it's a crazy world

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By *iscreet912Man
24 weeks ago

West Sussex

Also thinking about having this done! So good to read the comments.

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By *k98765Couple
24 weeks ago

birmingham

No difference in libido do find my cum is thinner but no difference in quantity

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By *allipygousMan
24 weeks ago

Leicester


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it"

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

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By *essTTWoman
24 weeks ago

Birmingham


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads."

Oh yes I know

It's disgusting

My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.

I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
24 weeks ago

Reigate

Have made first contact with the gp about getting this done. Would be great for my for my wife to have the option to come off birth control.

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By *loydyMan
24 weeks ago

British


"I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks! "
nothing changes apart from your balls aching for a couple of days

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By *loydyMan
24 weeks ago

British


"Thank you everyone for replying! I am very tempted to have it done, but I’m still gathering facts before I make the final decision.

What sort of discomfort have you experienced during the procedure? Was it pin or something else? I don’t mind the pain"
I was fishing the next day

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
24 weeks ago

Reigate

How soon can you cun after having it done?

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
24 weeks ago

Reigate

By cun, I meant cum

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By *afe and shavenCouple
24 weeks ago

Ipswich


"I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks! "

My libido got better; the relaxed sex knowing that an unwanted pregnancy is not going to happen. The seminal fluids were exactly as before. Fantastic.

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By *allipygousMan
24 weeks ago

Leicester


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

Oh yes I know

It's disgusting

My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.

I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children "

I keep forgetting you have a high amount of melanin 🙂

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By *ene FairfaxMan
24 weeks ago

Dover

I found my libido increased and I produced more cum. So it was a win win for me lol

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By *ayo81966Man
24 weeks ago

barnstaple


" O no change, nothing changes, it’s a simple little op and mine was a quick recovery "

Mine had complications but would still go for it again

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By *uilder.funMan
24 weeks ago

Bristol

I've had one. Was sore for a week or so but nothing to bad.

Knowing I can't get anyone pregnant makes certain role-playing a lot safer and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I've had no issues

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By *ini1275Man
24 weeks ago

stoke on trent

No difference at all

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
24 weeks ago

Stroud

Was snipped over 30 years ago. Not aware it made any difference to libido or spunk.....one of best things I have ever done!

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By *vaRose43Woman
24 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Husband sat next to me so I’m replying in his words

The procedure itself was quick and mostly painless. The local anaesthetic stings like a bitch but there was no pain during the operation, just some tugging. Afterwards a mild ache that paracetamol dealt with.

His was a slightly more complicated recovery as the stitches they used popped on the second day… had to be glued under a fresh local anaesthetic and a course of antibiotics. No big deal though and despite some aching discomfort for about 3 days afterwards he was fine and dandy. Nothing that a couple of cocodamol couldn’t deal with.

There was no change to his libido or his load, nor any change to how an orgasm felt. Wishes he had had it sooner.

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By *oiluvfunMan
24 weeks ago

Penrith

No difference for me either. Had mine done 15 years ago, and check out my cum vid from last night, to confirm my cum looks perfectly normal, and plenty of it lol

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
24 weeks ago

London

There's loads of information about the procedure on the NHS websites and tells you everything you need without some of the dubious anecdotal evidence some people seem to be providing here!

One thing I do share with my friends though is that they do warn you that for a very small number of people 1%, they can suffer long term sometimes permanent pain after. I had quite a long recovery, firstly for a few weeks it felt a bit like I'd been kicked in the balls, this carried on for around a year but gradually getting better and better and now I have no pain at all. However some people need to have it reversed as the only cure to this pain

It's always best to discuss with the doctor during consultations

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
24 weeks ago

London

Here is the link to that part

https://www.nhs.uk/contraception/methods-of-contraception/vasectomy-male-sterilisation/complications/

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By *fricanguyMan
24 weeks ago

warr


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads."
and which culture is that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Mine was done with a cauterising scalpel- smelt like frying bacon

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By *fricanguyMan
24 weeks ago

warr


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

Oh yes I know

It's disgusting

My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.

I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children "
you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf

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By *allipygousMan
24 weeks ago

Leicester


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

and which culture is that ?"

Black/African culture.

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By *erfHerder74Man
24 weeks ago

Inverclyde

Does it change your load size?

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By *fricanguyMan
24 weeks ago

warr


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

and which culture is that ?

Black/African culture."

That's not my culture am black African u just put 54 country in Africa +carribean n other blacks in one basket n say its their culture that's quite ignorant if u ask me specially if u are black

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By *essTTWoman
24 weeks ago

Birmingham


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

Oh yes I know

It's disgusting

My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.

I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf

"

A man cheating on his wife and producing 2 kids outside of his marriage and not having any input/looking after those 2 children, is disgusting.

Anyway

Let's stay on topic shall we

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By *andg2206Couple
24 weeks ago

poole

Be careful what you wish for.

Drs won’t tell you this

Got to laugh. My Dr told me no change would occur. Some years later My dog had the procedure. I was told by the Vet”your dog will put weight on become grumpy and their hair will change” all of which did happen. And all of the same happened to me over time Wish the Dr had told me that.

On a positive note. I was divorced and back on the market and found the ladies love the fact it’s ‘safe’ and whilst no change in libido. I do find that the reduced level of testosterone has an effect. Now that could be natural aging but for me it has meant going from Alpha male totally hetero to being much more open minded bi curious and explorative of other options.

So think carefully like all things it is not without short term pain and long term change

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By *fricanguyMan
24 weeks ago

warr


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

Oh yes I know

It's disgusting

My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.

I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf

A man cheating on his wife and producing 2 kids outside of his marriage and not having any input/looking after those 2 children, is disgusting.

Anyway

Let's stay on topic shall we "
u said he was a donor now u saying he was a cheater damn and maybe ur mum wasn't giving him good kids or maybe he just loves blessing women who wanted children sure he thought about it if u not planning having kids don't worry about it

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By *essTTWoman
24 weeks ago

Birmingham


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

Oh yes I know

It's disgusting

My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.

I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf

A man cheating on his wife and producing 2 kids outside of his marriage and not having any input/looking after those 2 children, is disgusting.

Anyway

Let's stay on topic shall we u said he was a donor now u saying he was a cheater damn and maybe ur mum wasn't giving him good kids or maybe he just loves blessing women who wanted children sure he thought about it if u not planning having kids don't worry about it

"

Clearly reading and understanding isn't your strong point.

Never mind maybe it will get better when you get older. Have a good day

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By *fricanguyMan
24 weeks ago

warr


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

Oh yes I know

It's disgusting

My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.

I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf

A man cheating on his wife and producing 2 kids outside of his marriage and not having any input/looking after those 2 children, is disgusting.

Anyway

Let's stay on topic shall we u said he was a donor now u saying he was a cheater damn and maybe ur mum wasn't giving him good kids or maybe he just loves blessing women who wanted children sure he thought about it if u not planning having kids don't worry about it

Clearly reading and understanding isn't your strong point.

Never mind maybe it will get better when you get older. Have a good day "
u not a good lier maybe u will get better when in the nursing home I guess good day

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
24 weeks ago

North Yorkshire


"Thank you everyone for replying! I am very tempted to have it done, but I’m still gathering facts before I make the final decision.

What sort of discomfort have you experienced during the procedure? Was it pin or something else? I don’t mind the painI was fishing the next day "

Mate of my hubby played half a charity football match the next day (was only a fun game but even so! ) also no change to any concerns when hubby had his done

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
24 weeks ago

London


"Be careful what you wish for.

Drs won’t tell you this

Got to laugh. My Dr told me no change would occur. Some years later My dog had the procedure. I was told by the Vet”your dog will put weight on become grumpy and their hair will change” all of which did happen. And all of the same happened to me over time Wish the Dr had told me that.

On a positive note. I was divorced and back on the market and found the ladies love the fact it’s ‘safe’ and whilst no change in libido. I do find that the reduced level of testosterone has an effect. Now that could be natural aging but for me it has meant going from Alpha male totally hetero to being much more open minded bi curious and explorative of other options.

So think carefully like all things it is not without short term pain and long term change "

Drs won't mention it because Vasectomies don't affect testosterone levels, this has been studied and is well evidenced.

Usually dogs are castrated specifically because this does reduces testosterone which will bring benefits to their behaviour and not given vasectomies which do not lower testosterone levels and simply stop sperm from being released.

There is some evidence to suggest in some people that testosterone is reduced in the first three months due to the reduction in blood flow but levels normalize after this time.

A vasectomy cuts the tube for the sperm which results in the sperm being absorbed back into the body. This process is what happens naturally when someone doesn't ejaculate. And is why these guys aren't walking around with a wheelbarrow everywhere they go.

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By *allipygousMan
24 weeks ago

Leicester


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?

I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao

If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.

But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it

It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.

and which culture is that ?

Black/African culture.

That's not my culture am black African u just put 54 country in Africa +carribean n other blacks in one basket n say its their culture that's quite ignorant if u ask me specially if u are black

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Yeah, I said "Some of my 'brothers'...", not all. And your attitude just cements what I'm saying.

Do all black folk have to think the same way btw?

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
24 weeks ago

tamworth

No change in libido.

Have noticed the ejaculate itself is not quite as thick which is supposedly completely normal and healthy accordingly to my GP

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
24 weeks ago

tamworth


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world "

Personally, I figured given that we don't want more children, that it wasn't just my wife's job to worry about both of our fertility whilst also exposing herself to dangerous contraceptives that can ruin her hormonal cycle and put her at risk of various cancers and other problems. When I could go for a 10-20 minute procedure (and get 2 weeks off work paid for my troubles when really, i needed a solid 24 hours), just under a local anesthetic... the benefits outweighs the negatives.

It's a form of contraception, it's not a sign of a "crazy world". You could also argue that chainsaws being used to cut down trees is a sign of that given they were originally invented to help during child birth. We've moved on.

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By *he Gentleman 4uMan
24 weeks ago

Aston

Definitely do it. You wont regret it.

I had mine when me and my ex decided no more kids which was 15 years ago and absolutely no change in libido or amount of cum only change was i could cum in her without risk of pregnancy which is a bonus. And I find women i meet now im single are very receptive to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Libido is exactly the same and I've not noticed any change to colour, texture, viscosity, etc.

15 mins is all it takes and the pain is relatively low for such a delicate area.

One thing I will say is, be prepared for the pain to linger longer than expected. Got mine done 4 weeks ago and I'm still getting sporadic teste pain: nothing severe but it's just occasionally... there.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Only change is I don’t have to wear condoms when having sex with Mrs and it is sooo much better

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By *SCouple81Couple
24 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

No change as such but first few orgasms after it healed were amazing We were using condoms for years and having sex with Mrs without them is awesome. Of course still using them with others.

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By *essTTWoman
24 weeks ago

Birmingham


"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world

Personally, I figured given that we don't want more children, that it wasn't just my wife's job to worry about both of our fertility whilst also exposing herself to dangerous contraceptives that can ruin her hormonal cycle and put her at risk of various cancers and other problems. When I could go for a 10-20 minute procedure (and get 2 weeks off work paid for my troubles when really, i needed a solid 24 hours), just under a local anesthetic... the benefits outweighs the negatives.

It's a form of contraception, it's not a sign of a "crazy world". You could also argue that chainsaws being used to cut down trees is a sign of that given they were originally invented to help during child birth. We've moved on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks! "

After a short period of recovery I've noticed no change in either.

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By *oiluvfunMan
24 weeks ago

Penrith


"Mine was done with a cauterising scalpel- smelt like frying bacon "

Mine was done the same way. I’ve never looked at solder irons the same way since

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago


"Here is the link to that part

https://www.nhs.uk/contraception/methods-of-contraception/vasectomy-male-sterilisation/complications/"

Thank you and thanks everyone for your contributions!

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

No change in either, the only side effect I have is every few months or so, I get an achey left ball for a few days! On these days I just wear more supportive underwear

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By *octor ProdMan
24 weeks ago

working Overseas

I had mine 10 years ago, as long as you drain the tanks regularly and keep using protection until you have the test, its all good

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By *octor ProdMan
24 weeks ago

working Overseas

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By *ick a clit.comMan
22 weeks ago

Southsea

Totally concur

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

6 weeks on from the op and I'm still getting niggling little pains every now and then.

Is this normal?

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By *hong80321967Man
22 weeks ago

Wakefield

Go for it, I had no issues and was out and about the same day

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By *icemember7Man
22 weeks ago

Worcester

I've never felt my orgasmns are as strong as before, still came with the same amount. More women I met allowed bareback knowing I'd had the snip, also more were willing to allow me too cum in their mouths. Which outweighed the slightly less enjoyable ejaculations.

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By *ot manMan
19 weeks ago

long eaton


"Have made first contact with the gp about getting this done. Would be great for my for my wife to have the option to come off birth control. "

I’ve made first contact with the gp what did they say to you about it any advice would be good I

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Top tips are:

* Buy tightish fitting underpants for afterwards so they support your ballsack not letting them dangle

* Get someone to drive you home. I drove home myself, wasn't a good experience!

Some people say the op itself isn't painful, I found it very uncomfortable but definitely worth it, and noticed no difference to libido etc afterwards.

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