FabSwingers.com forum: Site admin

By *igus dickus1973 OP Man
17 weeks ago

Scarborough

I've been on this site for two years had one genuine meet off here so I'm a real genuine guy but I seem not to have regular messages I've never been to a club (live to far away) There seem to be more fake and time waster men on here

Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site

There just no swinger life in Scarborough for single men

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By *mmaleiaWoman
17 weeks ago

Trowbridge

This is satire right? Right? 😬

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By *igus dickus1973 OP Man
17 weeks ago

Scarborough

No no it not satire

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By *hil most chillMan
17 weeks ago

South East & Europe

Yeah it's the site admin's fault you can't get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Hahaha, oh I couldn't wait to read the comments on this one, and fab is delivering as always - brutal but hilarious xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

"I've never been to a club (live to far away) "

There is HU9 an hours drive away from you and two clubs in Leeds an hour and a half away, plus a swingers campsite at Doncaster.

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By *nesCouple
17 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Admin can’t help you get laid, that’s your job.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't think admin can do much to increase the number of women and couples who join. People have sometimes suggested reducing the amount of single men to make the numbers more even but I don't think that would work either.

What might work is being realistic about what anyone might expect from the site.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

A possibility to get more single women on the site would be to charge them less than single men to be site supporters but I doubt this would be legal. Clubs can have differing pricing structures as they are Private Members Clubs.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
17 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"A possibility to get more single women on the site would be to charge them less than single men to be site supporters but I doubt this would be legal. Clubs can have differing pricing structures as they are Private Members Clubs. "

I’d imagine that would encourage more fake female profiles

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Scarborough

"I've been on this site for two years had one genuine meet off here so I'm a real genuine guy but I seem not to have regular messages I've never been to a club (live to far away) There seem to be more fake and time waster men on here

Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site

There just no swinger life in Scarborough for single men "

I don’t think many single men get lots of messages. On here no reply means not interested.

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By *hil most chillMan
17 weeks ago

South East & Europe

"I don't think admin can do much to increase the number of women and couples who join. People have sometimes suggested reducing the amount of single men to make the numbers more even but I don't think that would work either.

What might work is being realistic about what anyone might expect from the site. "

This isn't very constructive, as a mod you should be asking all your female friends to sign up, and maybe posting flyers all over your neighbourhood. This guy needs sex and if you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem!

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By *hoirCouple
17 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site

There just no swinger life in Scarborough for single men "

It's not us, it's you.

Sorry that you don't want to put in the effort but stop demanding others tailor the site to your desires. Swinging is a great couples activity.

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
17 weeks ago

Somewhere

Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site

There just no swinger life in Scarborough for single men "

You could always move instead

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By *ack FrostyMan
17 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Price of membership is a fiver

What do you suggest? £4

I don’t see why men should have to pay more to be a member here or anywhere unless you agree with 2 or 3 tier membership.

This site works well for people who are respectful, non pushy and don’t see it as instashag and that’s from all members

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By *dam_TinaCouple
17 weeks ago

Hampshire

We agree with the OP.

We haven't yet had an orgy with ten hot bisexual women.

Come on admin, pull your finger out.

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
17 weeks ago

Within touching distance

We just blaming admin for shit now? This site is amazing

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Scarborough

"We agree with the OP.

We haven't yet had an orgy with ten hot bisexual women.

Come on admin, pull your finger out."

You can’t get the staff these days, im waiting for 2 Lesbians to contact me.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

🎻

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By *r SproutMan
17 weeks ago

the middle

Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site

There just no swinger life in Scarborough for single men "

I agree OP. I’ve been mailing admin for months asking them to get more women on here but they don’t even respond to my messages!

What chance do us real genuine men have

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

oh these comments are hilarious, keep them up guys xx

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Scarborough

Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site

There just no swinger life in Scarborough for single men

I agree OP. I’ve been mailing admin for months asking them to get more women on here but they don’t even respond to my messages!

What chance do us real genuine men have

I’m off to be a nun, at least I’ll get a candle.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Just relying on fab makes it hard for most people op.

I'm half a couple, when we are more active we go to clubs and socials. This increases the people we meet and get to know.

Try a club or an organised social, plenty of ladies go to both.

Fab can't physically make more women sign up.

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By *oxy jWoman
17 weeks ago

taunton somerset

fab is not responsible for you getting meets you are its 100% down to you and if anyone wants to meet you ... fab just provides the tools and nothing else

you come across a bit entitled as if the site or others owe you something .. guess what they dont..

10.000 / 20.000 women couple could join tomorrow and most men would not see a difference its a lifestyle its a attraction / compatibility lifestyle and bare in mind attraction alone most people dont like other people let alone comparably ..

men out number women on this scene by massive amounts 100 to 1 more in some places... and another thing is how ever many single women you think are on here then at least half it as many of us have our couples p

es too then add in all the men pretending to be women/couples then thats a mine field for men..

but guess what some men do very well they dont put all their eggs in one basket they do socials they do clubs but bare in mind they are still selection / rejection processes too i know many many men who for reasons dont do well no matter what...

so everything is down to you nobody else ..

all these type of post do is make people want to block you / not meet you people swing for fun not negativity...

good luck op

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By *agatoXXXMan
17 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site

Are you suggesting they press gang them?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not convinced that this post has gone the way the OP hoped

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By *ny1localMan
17 weeks ago

READING

If they reduce the price of membership for women, reduce it for us pensioners...there's too many youngsters in here

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By *hades Of GreyMan
17 weeks ago

Leeds

"Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site. There just no swinger life in Scarborough for single men "

Ask the the FAB owners to bus some women into Scarborough for you. I'm sure they'd oblige - oh wait!

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
17 weeks ago

Paignton

Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site

There just no swinger life in Scarborough for single men "

Fab swingers is just a site offered by the owners to allow people to hook up who are seeking or living the lifestyle, the owners do not actively seek people to boost meetings.

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By *aulupforitMan
17 weeks ago

Corbridge

To many cam wankers on site and not looking for meets.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
17 weeks ago

belfast

Get the site admin out forcing women to join so yer man can get a ride. Bloody disgrace that admin aren't forcing women and couples to join.

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
17 weeks ago

Medway

The replies on this thread have made my Sunday!

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By *issFussyWoman
17 weeks ago

hitchin

Perhaps admin also need to recruit a ‘sacrificial lamb’ for those struggling to connect?

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
17 weeks ago

Paignton

"Perhaps admin also need to recruit a ‘sacrificial lamb’ for those struggling to connect? "

😂😂😂😂

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By *inkyguyUKMan
17 weeks ago

worcester

They could get rid of the time waster but it's not in their financial interest if timewasters are also paying members

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By *issFussyWoman
17 weeks ago

hitchin

[Removed by poster at 25/08/24 13:56:08]

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By *oxy jWoman
17 weeks ago

taunton somerset

"They could get rid of the time waster but it's not in their financial interest if timewasters are also paying members "

how ?? define timewaster its someones word againts the other there no real way to define those of us who sometime come across them just block easy job done..

also its a free site for most yet people want rolls royce rather than a site that just provides the tool ... yes they make money but only if you want to they dont force you its just a option for a few extra tools to help ...as swinging goes its still by far the best site for womem and couples and some guys others not so as simple maths will tell you

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By *issFussyWoman
17 weeks ago

hitchin

What might work is being realistic about what anyone might expect from the site.

Great idea! We need a working party to design said flyers to attract a multitude of new women. We also need to decide to best places to leaflet drop to ensure we find our target demographic.

Perhaps supermarkets, nail bars and hairdressers? What does anyone think???

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
17 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Site owners need to get more females and couples on the site

There just no swinger life in Scarborough for single men

I agree OP. I’ve been mailing admin for months asking them to get more women on here but they don’t even respond to my messages!

What chance do us real genuine men have

I’m off to be a nun, at least I’ll get a candle. "

We will have "nun" of that talk on here!!! lol

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
17 weeks ago

There and Here

OP you do realise that it's not just about numbers don't you?

There's attraction (physical and emotional) to consider too, not to mention location and opportunity

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Central

We're a local shop/site, for local people. The best way to get more local women people in, is by the local men people recruiting them. OP has a little extra time on his hands so can bring these women into Fab. He can keep quiet about the sausage mountain and just show them his profile. The rest of us aren't local people, including Admin, so won't have the wherewithal to pull them in. Keep quiet about bringing in loads, as hordes of men will come and compete.

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By *agatoXXXMan
17 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

"To many cam wankers on site and not looking for meets."

Yeah, loads of the on there tonight...

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
17 weeks ago

Stoke

C'mon Fab sort it out, this guy needs to get his willy wet, ship all those unicorns into Scarborough and let them roam free so he can mop them all up.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

To add a little balance... Signing up to Fab as a single F willing to meet single M and couples is an utterly miserable experience.

- the "New Women" feature ensures you get thousands of the worst kind of message

- and then you are way over policed compared to other demographics so having just received a lot of one liners, mysogynistic abuse and penis pics you are frequently asked to send an intimate or identifying image of yourself to an organisation you don't know anything about in order to allow yourself to continue being abused.

I had to have a couple of goes at setting up this profile to sign up for parties etc. Ended up creating it and then hiding it for a week to stop being targeted. Many first time F users won't persist. I only did because I knew people on here and already had a personal account (which had also taken a few attempts).

Removing the "New Women" feature would actually make a huge difference to the experience.

As might asking for fewer verifications from women. Except that lotta people clamour on here to make women's accounts harder to set up...

OP, you could definitely help yourself a little more. But this free to use site is never going to be perfect for everyone. It can be effective xx

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