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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well i would love to find out why people swing in the first place? but my most un-answered question is do men or women prefer the look of a man on his own....or a woman....or is it more of a turn on to see both together?

I always look at males pic and think their body's are quite boring theres nothing more than the cock to play with (unless there is a woman attatched to him) .yet with a woman there is lots to do tits ass pussy and a man just a cock and mayb an ass lol

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Being the male half I prefer to look at the women,Bering red blooded,since we started swinging wife has had fem fun too and also likes boobs and pussy ,and enjoys women playing with her,but still find it hard finding couples where she wants to have fun with both partners,so we go to club now for more choice,where at least I do get to see her taken but a guy sometime during the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a nice male, (luckily fabs has many ) then that's enough for me, I don't need to see him in action with another woman. Good arms, chest, strong shoulders, I'll stop there :p

The same for women, I can like the look of her but it isn't about seeing the sex that excites me, it's the actual person and the fun I will have with him/her.

When I was married and we swapped with other couples I didn't feel desires to watch my ex with who ever as I'd seen that before, but being in an environment where others are having fun/sex is very erotic

Guess I am more of a participant than a perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock

Agreed "

and therein lies the second problem .... distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock "
yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I see a nice male, (luckily fabs has many ) then that's enough for me, I don't need to see him in action with another woman. Good arms, chest, strong shoulders, I'll stop there :p

The same for women, I can like the look of her but it isn't about seeing the sex that excites me, it's the actual person and the fun I will have with him/her.

Agreed

When I was married and we swapped with other couples I didn't feel desires to watch my ex with who ever as I'd seen that before, but being in an environment where others are having fun/sex is very erotic

Guess I am more of a participant than a perv "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was the fact that i have a very busy lifestyle and i love sex.

Also being bi i started out to mainly meet couples as i get a fix of both sexes and there are no complications after....an attached man is less likely to want more than the nsa and like wise for an attached lady...its like im an enhancement of their sex life without the emotional ties.

And i meet men or women alone also,but tend to speak to them a little longer to be sure of what we both want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me it was the fact that i have a very busy lifestyle and i love sex.

Also being bi i started out to mainly meet couples as i get a fix of both sexes and there are no complications after....an attached man is less likely to want more than the nsa and like wise for an attached lady...its like im an enhancement of their sex life without the emotional ties.

And i meet men or women alone also,but tend to speak to them a little longer to be sure of what we both want."

Fantastic way to be i agree....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are just more pleasing on the eye but when it comes to playing neither men or women do it more for me i like both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like looking at women as well as men but prefer looking at men.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Not interested in the female....

However, I do enjoy seeing how they are with each other...

Too many times have met couples that dont seem to care what the other is doing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else "

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock "

well i like all that maybe im just going to attract those that doesn't lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm looking at couples I have to like both of them usually the lady will be gorgeous and the man won't be for me, so I move on and that's why I feel couples on here are the hardest to find in my humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock "

i wasnt feeling horny till that was said, damn u pmt!!!!! pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock "

Mmmmmm very appealing apart from the toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are just more pleasing on the eye but when it comes to playing neither men or women do it more for me i like both. "

As the male half of a bi couple, I would have to agree

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"Women are just more pleasing on the eye but when it comes to playing neither men or women do it more for me i like both. "

I second that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock

well i like all that maybe im just going to attract those that doesn't lol xx"

Use it as a check list and get them to tick the boxes ... I think a lot of men would like a lot of that but many wont say so, BUT maybe I'm wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock

i wasnt feeling horny till that was said, damn u pmt!!!!! pmsl"

I always did talk a good session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock

Mmmmmm very appealing apart from the toes "

Toes are optional .... need to be freshly bathed, or better still just slipped out of a new pair of leather boots, nails trimmed, foot held tight and pressure applied quite firmly with mouth and tongue .... shouldn't do this in this suit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for uthem to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock

Mmmmmm very appealing apart from the toes

Toes are optional .... need to be freshly bathed, or better still just slipped out of a new pair of leather boots, nails trimmed, foot held tight and pressure applied quite firmly with mouth and tongue .... shouldn't do this in this suit! "

Cane stand my feet being touched reallyticklish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock

Mmmmmm very appealing apart from the toes

Toes are optional .... need to be freshly bathed, or better still just slipped out of a new pair of leather boots, nails trimmed, foot held tight and pressure applied quite firmly with mouth and tongue .... shouldn't do this in this suit! "
hmm maybe the suit would help

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock "

All ingredients for a successfull and delicious menu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock

All ingredients for a successfull and delicious menu "

When we are with couples

Me jason likes a woman to stimulate my brain verbally first have a laugh joke and a dance with a bit of flirting , Paula on the other hand might not say a word to the guy all night and as soon as we get in will suck his cock till its hard and then ride him till he is sore

We do okay and it works for us ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if a man is just a cock then a toy is the answer. A guy who no's how to do things right is looked at entirely differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therein often lies the problem. I don't know about everyone else but I know that I have a whole lot more than a cock to play with. From head to toe is a veritable playground .... stimulate my body and mind please - not just my cock yes i very much agree but that what im trying to get across not many men like being touched anywhere else and would be great for them to come forward and say oh i like it when you......you all expect a woman to say what they like and we usually do whilst or before naughtiness takes place.....most of the men i been with has always been about their cock and nowt else

I suppose its all down to individuals and communication ... me personally; I like it when you bite my ear, kiss my neck, scratch my back, play with my ass, bite my nipples, kiss my stomach and the inside of my thighs and suck my toes (sometimes) and at each stage come back up and kiss my mouth ... you do that to me, I do that to you and then we consider my cock

i wasnt feeling horny till that was said, damn u pmt!!!!! pmsl

I always did talk a good session "

You talk a good session indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both like seeing each pleasured by somebody else as we're pervs at heart.

As for stimulation, I (Silk) love to be touched everywhere on my body (apart from the tickly bits) as I get lovely sensations from them being played with, hands or tongue.

We don't have any cock pics on our profile so we leave that part to the imagination.

There is more to a man than his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me i cant see a women as a shag. Even though sometimes spur of the moment can be really good too.

You got so much to explore and do,just let loose. Same for guys and me. Enjoy it all.

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