FabSwingers.com forum: Edging and orgasm control

By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

First time doing this and a week and a half in - WOW. Abstaining from orgasm until I meet GF in mid Sept making it a month of build up in total.

How do others find this and what’s the longest time you’ve edged before sex/orgasm (or giving in)?

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
12 weeks ago

Bradford

"First time doing this and a week and a half in - WOW. Abstaining from orgasm until I meet GF in mid Sept making it a month of build up in total.

How do others find this and what’s the longest time you’ve edged before sex/orgasm (or giving in)? "

Sounds like a pure nightmare to me

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By *ilkey69Man
12 weeks ago

Barnsley

I do this regularly it feels so horny

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By *atandasmileMan
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

So I think the thing I'm into is a little different, bit it fits the title so I'll post in the thread anyway in case others are interested.

What I like is short term orgasm control. Get a woman (usually a sub) close. So close to orgasm she can almost taste it. Make her ache to cum.

Then I'll keep her there right on the edge of orgasm, without tipping over. Building up that need. Perhaps make her count to five or ten, depending on how much I think she can take.

And when I think the moment is right, when her orgasm will be the deepest and the hardest, then I'll make her cum - let that orgasm hit.

So temporary denial and control as a way to build more tension on the way to a stronger orgasm - that's what I like.

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By *ur little secret 20Couple
12 weeks ago

manchester

"So I think the thing I'm into is a little different, bit it fits the title so I'll post in the thread anyway in case others are interested.

What I like is short term orgasm control. Get a woman (usually a sub) close. So close to orgasm she can almost taste it. Make her ache to cum.

Then I'll keep her there right on the edge of orgasm, without tipping over. Building up that need. Perhaps make her count to five or ten, depending on how much I think she can take.

And when I think the moment is right, when her orgasm will be the deepest and the hardest, then I'll make her cum - let that orgasm hit.

So temporary denial and control as a way to build more tension on the way to a stronger orgasm - that's what I like."

Love the sound of this! X

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By *unter212gazMan
12 weeks ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I do this. I love being in control of someone's orgasm or lack of. And love it being done to me too.

A good 4 or 5 hour session. Being brought to the brink multiple times until finally allowed to cum. So intense!

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By *atandasmileMan
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"So temporary denial and control as a way to build more tension on the way to a stronger orgasm - that's what I like.

Love the sound of this! X"

I really love it - by the time someone has been made to cum a few times like this they are well on the way to subspace by pleasure, rather than pain (which is my MO).

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By *hil most chillMan
12 weeks ago

South East & Europe

"First time doing this and a week and a half in - WOW. Abstaining from orgasm until I meet GF in mid Sept making it a month of build up in total.

How do others find this and what’s the longest time you’ve edged before sex/orgasm (or giving in)? "

I will sometimes go a week or 2 without orgasm. If I've played with myself during that time I find after a week or so I'm just constantly horny, every other thought goes to sex. A month is impressive, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I've done a month before, but I find it very hard as any sexual thoughts get me hard, so it's hard at work. I love to regularly get hard and build a little tension up then stop, but I normally go the week ready for the weekend however I get angry with the horny too

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By *trong SwimmerMan
12 weeks ago

North Wicklow

Most I could do was two days.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Bedford

I usually gently pinch the head of the penis just before ejaculation this causes a slight relax and delays orgasms then re stroke to build up again.

3 days off and on then an Angela White film tipped me over the edge.

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By *ndysahornyboyMan
12 weeks ago

Holborn for work

No, couldn't do it. I love edging and being edged, but need to cum after a few hours. Not cumming for days or weeks...the most I've ever done is 5 days and I was climbing the walls. Usually I cum daily at least.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
12 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

I've been edging for a couple of days previous to a meet. What I found is you get lots of little orgasm's come the big day rather than a cum dump.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I've been edging since yesterday. Cock is going to explode

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

Jeez you’re not wrong about every other thought turning to sex. Thankfully it’s not impacting my work…. yet

But def up for this challenge and GF wants me to cum in less than a minute which I think is entirely doable given the build up.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
12 weeks ago

North Leeds / LS20

Love edging, I can keep it going for days.

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By *otts-manMan
12 weeks ago

Long Eaton

I definitely enjoy this aspect of sexual play, either alone or with someone else.....

I can take myself to the point of cumming, then stop all stimulation and squeeze my pelvic floor muscles really hard to try and stop myself cumming.. sometimes it makes me feel really light headed to the point where I think I might black-out. It's so intense.

I get annoyed with myself if I've tried to stop mysrlf cumming, but didn't stop the stimulation early enough, so I do actually release some cum

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