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By *unkhouser72 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Gtr Manchester

Not something I participate in but I've been to clubs watched females being fucked in sucession by lots of guys BB. I wonder do these people not worry about contracting or passing on serious STDs during these encounters

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By *herry delightWoman
12 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I was having a discussion with a man about BB and he was saying he didn't get why people are so worried about chlamydia and gonorrhea as they don't show symptoms most of the time and easily treated.

I said what about HIV his answer was I don't have sex with men at this point I rolled my eyes and gave up.

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By *hilcarol89Couple
12 weeks ago

Warrington

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By *hilcarol89Couple
12 weeks ago

Warrington

I love it bare and would love to be bare in clubs but havnt and wouldn't risk it I fry tested every month condoms dry me out

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By *uteguyhereMan
12 weeks ago

leeds

I always use a condom. Always have. Helps my last a bit longer too

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By *elboy1978Man
12 weeks ago

Fellgate

I like the feeling of bareback I have only done it with the ex wife

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By *oxy jWoman
12 weeks ago

somerset

op you only need to worry about your self but just remember safe sex is safer sex you can still catch things ..

the only real safe is protected sex ie condoms / oral dams and rubber gloves along with regular testing but so many safe sex only people dont do oh my mouths ok as is my hands and other body parts and i dont need to test because he used condoms .. nope rubbish the only safe sex is no sex .... so those preaching bb sex need to get their own sexual health in order before preaching to others ...

sex is a risk walking the street is a risk .. let other do what they want whiles you look after you if your worried then swinging is not for you as i think you'll be shocked at the real world ...

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By *uysforhotwivesCouple (MM)
12 weeks ago

north west, Yorkshire, and midlands


"op you only need to worry about your self but just remember safe sex is safer sex you can still catch things ..

the only real safe is protected sex ie condoms / oral dams and rubber gloves along with regular testing but so many safe sex only people dont do oh my mouths ok as is my hands and other body parts and i dont need to test because he used condoms .. nope rubbish the only safe sex is no sex .... so those preaching bb sex need to get their own sexual health in order before preaching to others ...

sex is a risk walking the street is a risk .. let other do what they want whiles you look after you if your worried then swinging is not for you as i think you'll be shocked at the real world ...

"

Exactly this.

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By *hong80321967Man
12 weeks ago

Wakefield

Can't beat bareback

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By *issmorganWoman
12 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I presume they know and are happy to take the risk,

It's not something I'd want to do, but each to their own.

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By *unkhouser72 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Gtr Manchester


"op you only need to worry about your self but just remember safe sex is safer sex you can still catch things ..

the only real safe is protected sex ie condoms / oral dams and rubber gloves along with regular testing but so many safe sex only people dont do oh my mouths ok as is my hands and other body parts and i dont need to test because he used condoms .. nope rubbish the only safe sex is no sex .... so those preaching bb sex need to get their own sexual health in order before preaching to others ...

sex is a risk walking the street is a risk .. let other do what they want whiles you look after you if your worried then swinging is not for you as i think you'll be shocked at the real world ...

"

I don't see anyone preaching on this post apart from you my dear

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By *oxy jWoman
12 weeks ago

somerset


"op you only need to worry about your self but just remember safe sex is safer sex you can still catch things ..

the only real safe is protected sex ie condoms / oral dams and rubber gloves along with regular testing but so many safe sex only people dont do oh my mouths ok as is my hands and other body parts and i dont need to test because he used condoms .. nope rubbish the only safe sex is no sex .... so those preaching bb sex need to get their own sexual health in order before preaching to others ...

sex is a risk walking the street is a risk .. let other do what they want whiles you look after you if your worried then swinging is not for you as i think you'll be shocked at the real world ...

I don't see anyone preaching on this post apart from you my dear "

read again i mention nothing about preaching on this post i said preaching in general ... my dear

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By *uri00620Woman
12 weeks ago

Croydon

I wouldn't worry about other people and what they're doing. I'm sure they know the risks.

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By *londebiguyMan
12 weeks ago

Southport

Regular testing is what is most important.

HIV can be protected agsinst now if you are tested regularly.

HIV is now a managed disease rather as diabetes is controlled. It is not a disaster or such a fear as in was years ago.

People live with HIV and are unable to pass the virus on if they are sensible and medicated properly.

This stigma needs to be stopped and everyone should try to educate themselves to the advances in medical science and to regular STI testing.

The comment about not showing symptoms is the most worrying to me.

Then there is the situation that bare sex is somehow demonised yet most use no protection for oral sex at all.

The

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By *ackformore100Man
12 weeks ago

Tin town


"Regular testing is what is most important.

HIV can be protected agsinst now if you are tested regularly.

HIV is now a managed disease rather as diabetes is controlled. It is not a disaster or such a fear as in was years ago.

This stigma needs to be stopped and everyone should try to educate themselves to the advances in medical science and to regular STI testing.

The comment about not showing symptoms is the most worrying to me.

Then there is the situation that bare sex is somehow demonised yet most use no protection for oral sex at all.

The "

Genuine question... Your comment...

"People live with HIV and are unable to pass the virus on if they are sensible and medicated properly."

What does being "sensible" actually mean?

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By *d4funtimesMan
12 weeks ago

Cambridge

The best to keep it between safe friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

She would only let people we knew safe

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By *londebiguyMan
12 weeks ago

Southport


"Regular testing is what is most important.

HIV can be protected agsinst now if you are tested regularly.

HIV is now a managed disease rather as diabetes is controlled. It is not a disaster or such a fear as in was years ago.

This stigma needs to be stopped and everyone should try to educate themselves to the advances in medical science and to regular STI testing.

The comment about not showing symptoms is the most worrying to me.

Then there is the situation that bare sex is somehow demonised yet most use no protection for oral sex at all.

The

Genuine question... Your comment...

"People live with HIV and are unable to pass the virus on if they are sensible and medicated properly."

What does being "sensible" actually mean? "

Taking their medication and attending their appointments of course.

If they are undetectable then they are just the same as anyine without the virus.

The stigma has to end.

If people are regularly tested then there will be fewer issues and fear.

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
12 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Never worth the risk if you don't know the people really well.

Safe sex all the time except with long term partner.

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By *londebiguyMan
12 weeks ago

Southport


"The best to keep it between safe friends."

Do friends tell you everything?

Always completely honest?

Friends can still pass on an infection just as anyobe else could.

Get tested regularly and take redponsibility.

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By *ackformore100Man
12 weeks ago

Tin town


"Regular testing is what is most important.

HIV can be protected agsinst now if you are tested regularly.

HIV is now a managed disease rather as diabetes is controlled. It is not a disaster or such a fear as in was years ago.

This stigma needs to be stopped and everyone should try to educate themselves to the advances in medical science and to regular STI testing.

The comment about not showing symptoms is the most worrying to me.

Then there is the situation that bare sex is somehow demonised yet most use no protection for oral sex at all.

The

Genuine question... Your comment...

"People live with HIV and are unable to pass the virus on if they are sensible and medicated properly."

What does being "sensible" actually mean?

Taking their medication and attending their appointments of course.

If they are undetectable then they are just the same as anyine without the virus.

The stigma has to end.

If people are regularly tested then there will be fewer issues and fear."

If there is misinformation out there agree. I'm still not clear though. If someone with HIV has sex with someone else. The fact they've attended an appointment stops them from passing it on? I'm not sure how?

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Lingfield

We are a bareback couple. We test every 3 months but in a staggered way, so it's only a month 1/2 before one of us is tested. We also take the medication Prep & Doxy Pep, these remove the risk from HIV and heavily reduce the risk from some other sti's.

There is still some risk but we are happy to take it and always ensure the people we meet are aware that we only bareback.

It's different for everyone, each person should make an informed choice x

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By *unkhouser72 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Gtr Manchester

Absolutely

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By *awpleasureMan
12 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Regular testing is what is most important.

HIV can be protected agsinst now if you are tested regularly.

HIV is now a managed disease rather as diabetes is controlled. It is not a disaster or such a fear as in was years ago.

This stigma needs to be stopped and everyone should try to educate themselves to the advances in medical science and to regular STI testing.

The comment about not showing symptoms is the most worrying to me.

Then there is the situation that bare sex is somehow demonised yet most use no protection for oral sex at all.

The

Genuine question... Your comment...

"People live with HIV and are unable to pass the virus on if they are sensible and medicated properly."

What does being "sensible" actually mean?

Taking their medication and attending their appointments of course.

If they are undetectable then they are just the same as anyine without the virus.

The stigma has to end.

If people are regularly tested then there will be fewer issues and fear."

This

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By *hilledExplorerMan
12 weeks ago

Colchester


"Regular testing is what is most important.

HIV can be protected agsinst now if you are tested regularly.

HIV is now a managed disease rather as diabetes is controlled. It is not a disaster or such a fear as in was years ago.

People live with HIV and are unable to pass the virus on if they are sensible and medicated properly.

This stigma needs to be stopped and everyone should try to educate themselves to the advances in medical science and to regular STI testing.

The comment about not showing symptoms is the most worrying to me.

Then there is the situation that bare sex is somehow demonised yet most use no protection for oral sex at all.

The "
that's because the risk of transmitting or catching an STI through oral sex is hugely higher in unprotected anal or vaginal sex than oral, where there is a risk but a small one.

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By *orkshirecouple69 returnCouple
12 weeks ago

doncaster

We only bare back with a regular trusted guy exclusive to us

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By *unkhouser72 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Gtr Manchester


"We only bare back with a regular trusted guy exclusive to us

"

Do you like him to cum inside you

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By *hilledExplorerMan
12 weeks ago

Colchester

My last post was a bit garbled because I was mid wank. I meant to say you you are much much more at risk of an STI through anal or vaginal sex than you are through oral.

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By *eahxocallumCouple
12 weeks ago

studley

We only do bareback group sex with guys we know and who we know well. I wouldn't do it in a club due to the risk of sti infections.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Not something I participate in but I've been to clubs watched females being fucked in sucession by lots of guys BB. I wonder do these people not worry about contracting or passing on serious STDs during these encounters "

Yeah... thats a nope from me.

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By *edbiker6Man
12 weeks ago

Scarborough

Would never take the risk only with a long term partner

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By *eechyweechyMan
12 weeks ago

Saltburn-by-the-Sea

Most couples say NO.....every couple i've met want it.

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By *unkhouser72 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Gtr Manchester


"We only do bareback group sex with guys we know and who we know well. I wouldn't do it in a club due to the risk of sti infections."

Do you let them cum inside you

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By *unkhouser72 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Gtr Manchester


"We only do bareback group sex with guys we know and who we know well. I wouldn't do it in a club due to the risk of sti infections."

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