FabSwingers.com forum: Extortion to not show pics

By *ottoooldyet62 OP Man
25 weeks ago

West midlands

Chatted lady today and exchanged pics..arranged meet and waited...she called said been in car crash and asked me pay for damages. When refused threatened post my pics on Internet and come to house show my family. Anyone else suffered this sort thing ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Central

Not heard of anything like it. Report the user to Admin here, with the details. They always investigate and she sounds like someone who shouldn't be here. But be willing to engage the police. I hope you get on without any further trouble!

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By *1newfunWoman
25 weeks ago

Eastleigh

Sounds like a scam to scare you into partying with money. Don’t engage further. Report to admins.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Does she know where you live to come to your house and show your family?

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By *ottoooldyet62 OP Man
25 weeks ago

West midlands

Thanks for all advice. Worried the crap out of me

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By *ottoooldyet62 OP Man
25 weeks ago

West midlands

Yes .gave her address as was coming for meet

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

This is why a social meet first is a good idea.

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By *ottoooldyet62 OP Man
25 weeks ago

West midlands

I know now ..just feel very silly

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By *lik and PaulCouple
25 weeks ago

cahoots

Straight to the police with any evidence OP

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By *ottoooldyet62 OP Man
25 weeks ago

West midlands

Hoping it's just a bluff ...

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By *ecret-strangerMan
25 weeks ago

Deeside

8 had a similar thing a couple of weeks ago, but they knew my first name and surname and where i worked!

I reported them, blocked them and had to hide my profile for a few weeks.

Onky came back on friday and so far so good, no more nonsense!

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By *ottoooldyet62 OP Man
25 weeks ago

West midlands

So they didn't come to your house ? You midlands based? Is it same people?

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By *ottoooldyet62 OP Man
25 weeks ago

West midlands

Should fab take some responsibility? Or I've just been very stupid?

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By *ackformore100Man
25 weeks ago

Tin town

"Chatted lady today and exchanged pics..arranged meet and waited...she called said been in car crash and asked me pay for damages. When refused threatened post my pics on Internet and come to house show my family. Anyone else suffered this sort thing ?"

Go to the police.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
25 weeks ago

Newmill

"Should fab take some responsibility? Or I've just been very stupid? "

What responsibility could they take? The onus is on you to ensure that any encounters you arrange are conducted with your safety in mind. Fab can't do that for you; you can report them for not meeting as arranged but beyond that they have no obligations to you.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"Should fab take some responsibility? Or I've just been very stupid? "

Responsibility for what?

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By * and BCouple
25 weeks ago

Durham

It's not a she, it's a scam. Well known scam threatening to publish photo's and engage with family. Fab is like any other social media site. Scammers everywhere. Like someone said report. However these scammers just set up new profiles so be vigilant everyone

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By *ikeSM23Man
25 weeks ago

Manchester

Ffs just report the bell end and be cautious in future giving your address!!!

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
25 weeks ago

Stoke

"Straight to the police with any evidence OP"

This!!

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By *esparate danMan
25 weeks ago

glasgow

I think on this occassion ypu might just be too old after all

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By *oxy jWoman
25 weeks ago

somerset

"Should fab take some responsibility? Or I've just been very stupid? "

fab provides the tools anything else is down to you ... report to admin if it goes any further get in touch with the police

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By *ecret-strangerMan
25 weeks ago

Deeside

No, i thibk it was someone from work in all honesty, i had not long met a couple before it and felt bad for kind of leaving them in the lurch almost by going dark, they understood but it wasnt the best of timings for that to happen.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
25 weeks ago

East Sussex

If the threats took place on fab report the messages. If off fab report on the platform on which they were made of to the police.

Fab gives advice here

https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ

Here

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/safer-meets.html

And here

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/getstarted

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

It probably wasn't even a woman, it was probably a man trying to scam you.

Don't rush to start communicating offsite

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By *ottoooldyet62 OP Man
25 weeks ago

West midlands

Thanks for all your advice..much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"This is why a social meet first is a good idea. "

100%

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By *odgerMan
25 weeks ago

Coventry(ish)London

"Thanks for all your advice..much appreciated "

Luckily for the scammer you still have your explicit pics on public view.

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By *ddfellowMan
25 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

Just remind them that b1ackmail carries a custodial sentence, and tell em to fuck off.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
25 weeks ago

Halifax

I had something similar last year,but this person had hacked my email & told me my password.

They said I had been accessing adult sites & would show my family etc.

They said if I sent £200 they wouldn't.

To be fair I'm worth more than £200

Though seriously I didn't engage with them, blocked them, changed all my passwords etc & nothing came about from it.

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By *egoMan
25 weeks ago

Preston

Upload the screenshots on the police website. Im having similar now.

This one didn’t even use a burner phone and registered it under their own name and has public social media pages…

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