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By *oralltherightreasons OP   Couple
26 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Had someone contact us with his profile proudly stating that he was a Professionl Male, what exactly is that, do you have to go through qualifications ?? Are you less of a man if your not Professional??

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By *ndebs47Couple
26 weeks ago

Bury

I always ask. “So you get paid to be a man ? How exactly does that work ?” Anyone who has a job is professional!! It a sure fire way of knowing they are a bit up themselves lololol….as a rough rule lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

East Sussex

He's just giving you a description of himself. If you feel you're not compatible because of it pass on by.

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By *oralltherightreasons OP   Couple
26 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

That's fine but I honestly don't know what he means by it, like if we arranged a meet would he turn up with a suit and briefcase??

Or will he turn up and the fucking will be on a level 11/10??

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By *obilebottomMan
26 weeks ago

All over

Traditionally that would mean white rather than blue collar I believe. Perhaps that sort of thing matters to them, who knows.🤷

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

East Sussex


"That's fine but I honestly don't know what he means by it, like if we arranged a meet would he turn up with a suit and briefcase??

Or will he turn up and the fucking will be on a level 11/10??"

Why don't you ask him?

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By *oralltherightreasons OP   Couple
26 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH


"That's fine but I honestly don't know what he means by it, like if we arranged a meet would he turn up with a suit and briefcase??

Or will he turn up and the fucking will be on a level 11/10??

Why don't you ask him?"

Have done looking forward to finding out

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By *andb69Couple
26 weeks ago

leeds


"That's fine but I honestly don't know what he means by it, like if we arranged a meet would he turn up with a suit and briefcase??

Or will he turn up and the fucking will be on a level 11/10??"

It isn't difficult to understand. If you go to a doctor, a dentist, a lawyer or an architect you want someone who is well educated to the point of gaining qualifications which are accepted by the governing body of that profession, ie a professional. If someone puts it in their profile they're usually suggesting that they are looking for others with a similar life experience. It's strange that on a site where people can state they're looking for BBWs, BBCs, mature women, people to piss on,etc, etc, that should be sneered at. To state it reflects a preference, not snobbery. To ridicule it reflects intolerance and inverted snobbery.

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By *iberius61Man
26 weeks ago

Pontefract

Traditionally it would mean that you are a member of a professional body...but it's seldom used that way now. I work in IT, which is often described as a profession, even though there is no professional body we have to belong to.

I think nowadays it's more likely to mean that your work involves mainly sitting on your arse

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By *oralltherightreasons OP   Couple
26 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Was in reference to his job and nothing more.

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By *olfandtazCouple
26 weeks ago

Bristol


"Was in reference to his job and nothing more."

We were getting curious... everyone who has a job is a professional though

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By *andb69Couple
26 weeks ago

leeds


"Was in reference to his job and nothing more.

We were getting curious... everyone who has a job is a professional though "

Professional means you have a profession not a job. You wouldn't let a bus driver give you a dental filling, you'd want a professional dentist to do it. They both have valuable jobs, but one is a qualified professional.

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
26 weeks ago

North West

It's hilarious... As if they are some step above you.

We always reply well we are unprofessional so might not be a good match

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
26 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't like the term on here because it's irrelevant - I think it's fairly easy to know what a professional is in every day life.

If your unsure ask him, if you aren't compatible because of that then that's that.

Mrs

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By *obilebottomMan
26 weeks ago

All over


"I don't like the term on here because it's irrelevant - I think it's fairly easy to know what a professional is in every day life.

If your unsure ask him, if you aren't compatible because of that then that's that.

Mrs "

That sounds like far too much common sense to me

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By *andb69Couple
26 weeks ago

leeds


"I don't like the term on here because it's irrelevant - I think it's fairly easy to know what a professional is in every day life.

If your unsure ask him, if you aren't compatible because of that then that's that.

Mrs "

Irrelevant to you, maybe, but not to those who use it. People use their profile as they want, and so they should. If we see a profile we don't like we don't question or criticise it, we just move on. Fab is a broad church and we should enjoy the diversity.

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By *obilebottomMan
26 weeks ago

All over


"I don't like the term on here because it's irrelevant - I think it's fairly easy to know what a professional is in every day life.

If your unsure ask him, if you aren't compatible because of that then that's that.

Mrs

Irrelevant to you, maybe, but not to those who use it. People use their profile as they want, and so they should. If we see a profile we don't like we don't question or criticise it, we just move on. Fab is a broad church and we should enjoy the diversity. "

Wow, whilst the message is right that did sound a little strong to be fair in response to someone's opinion and very non judgemental post. Just my opinion of course as I do agree about the diversity and all that. I leave you in peace

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
26 weeks ago

Leeds


"I don't like the term on here because it's irrelevant - I think it's fairly easy to know what a professional is in every day life.

If your unsure ask him, if you aren't compatible because of that then that's that.

Mrs

Irrelevant to you, maybe, but not to those who use it. People use their profile as they want, and so they should. If we see a profile we don't like we don't question or criticise it, we just move on. Fab is a broad church and we should enjoy the diversity. "

People can and should use it how they want & yes it's irrelevant to me hence the comment obviously.

I didn't say it had to be irrelevant to you.

What I like & what you like will be very different however I wouldn't pull you up on your dislikes.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
26 weeks ago

Leeds


"I don't like the term on here because it's irrelevant - I think it's fairly easy to know what a professional is in every day life.

If your unsure ask him, if you aren't compatible because of that then that's that.

Mrs

That sounds like far too much common sense to me "

Common sense on here 🧐😂

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
26 weeks ago

Leeds


"I don't like the term on here because it's irrelevant - I think it's fairly easy to know what a professional is in every day life.

If your unsure ask him, if you aren't compatible because of that then that's that.

Mrs

Irrelevant to you, maybe, but not to those who use it. People use their profile as they want, and so they should. If we see a profile we don't like we don't question or criticise it, we just move on. Fab is a broad church and we should enjoy the diversity.

Wow, whilst the message is right that did sound a little strong to be fair in response to someone's opinion and very non judgemental post. Just my opinion of course as I do agree about the diversity and all that. I leave you in peace "

Diversity, see a profile you don't like just move on, doesn't apply to comments on a forum though 😂

Mrs

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By *oxesMan
26 weeks ago

Southend, Essex


"Had someone contact us with his profile proudly stating that he was a Professionl Male, what exactly is that, do you have to go through qualifications ?? Are you less of a man if your not Professional??"

If he professional regarding sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"Had someone contact us with his profile proudly stating that he was a Professionl Male, what exactly is that, do you have to go through qualifications ?? Are you less of a man if your not Professional??"

Maybe he’s decided to give up in the amateur ranks and make a living professionally as a male?? The mind boggles

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
26 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

I’m extremely unprofessional these days.

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By *ymClassDropoutMan
26 weeks ago

Berkshire

I have ‘professional’ on my profile.

To me It’s clear and non ambiguous.

I can’t understand why people get so riled up about how others construct their profiles.

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By *oxesMan
26 weeks ago

Southend, Essex


"Had someone contact us with his profile proudly stating that he was a Professionl Male, what exactly is that, do you have to go through qualifications ?? Are you less of a man if your not Professional??

Maybe he’s decided to give up in the amateur ranks and make a living professionally as a male?? The mind boggles "

Daid like a true Olympian lol

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By *atandasmileMan
26 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Traditionally it would mean that you are a member of a professional body...but it's seldom used that way now. I work in IT, which is often described as a profession, even though there is no professional body we have to belong to.

I think nowadays it's more likely to mean that your work involves mainly sitting on your arse "

It's not something I would personally worry about. But I do like your modern definition 😀.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's just a word that people get het up over.

Same as 'genuine', 'real' or 'discreet'.

Means nothing to some and something to others. 🤷‍♂️

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By *hunky GentMan
26 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Someone who works for CI5

(You have to be of a certain age to understand that)

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By *iberius61Man
26 weeks ago

Pontefract


"Someone who works for CI5

(You have to be of a certain age to understand that)

"

Everyone wanted a ford capri mk1

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By *hunky GentMan
26 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Someone who works for CI5

(You have to be of a certain age to understand that)

Everyone wanted a ford capri mk1 "

Or an esc0rt RS (if I've got the right model).

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"Had someone contact us with his profile proudly stating that he was a Professionl Male, what exactly is that, do you have to go through qualifications ?? Are you less of a man if your not Professional??"

Not again...

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