FabSwingers.com forum: How does it feel

By *ipsSoSoft OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Rotherham

This post is more directed at women

As I feel it would benefit for they wife to see how they felt.

So we are new to this within reason and she did have a solo play very briefly with a friend but nothing substantial.

One of things we spoke about is how we would feel in aftermath of sex with another couple but inparticular how she may feel having just had sex with another man even more so we discussed specifics of that and wondered if there would be any unease.

So my question is

Women..

How did you feel first time you had sex with another man and how did it make you like in the immediate aftermath?

Also more specifically, although we will play safe, does it add any weirdness should you swallow a man or have a man cum inside you anywhere then for example cuddle your partner knowing you can feel it etc

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

East Sussex

I felt fine. We'd discussed it all beforehand.

The thing is women all feel differently and until it happens nobody knows how they will feel

By *mbernectorCouple
21 weeks ago

Doncaster

There was a twinge of guilt but getting the reassurance of my husband soon left me

The was taken over how naughty it feels and reliving this moment over and over again

How horny I was and couldn't wait for the next time xx

By *aGaGagging for itCouple
21 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Doing the full sex thing with others is probably the big barrier that a lot of couples deliberate over.

It's recognising that such a scenario is your joint play night, it's what you do together to be naughty, expand your joint sex life, go crazy together, allow each other to do this, turn each other on by seeing them with someone else, express how strong your relationship is by engaging in this without feeling that your relationship is threatened by it, etc.

Do lots of talking and get to the point where you are happy to give it a go and if it doesn't work out, you can park it without any detriment to your relationship saying 'we gave it a go, its not for us, no harm done, we'll move on'. If you're not at that stage yet, take a step back and revisit it when you are.

It may help your partner's nervousness if you engage with a single guy first, and this is encouraged by you (without being pushy), though be careful to pick the right guy. This way, you're dealing with one aspect at a tine rather than two, i.e., your partner only having to get her head around the fact that she is not 'being unfaithful to you', rather than you being unfaithful to her, at the same time if that makes sense. It may also help with her being the centre of attention from you and the other guy, which demonstrates your blessing of what is happening.