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"A little place for couples into chastity to chat and discuss this wonderful experience xx" Who is in chastity you or your fella? I bought a cage and tried to get it on but it was just arousing me and couldn't manage to get it on because I was hard. Then started panicking that I wouldn't be able to get it off so gave it up as a bad job. | |||
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"My wife locks me when I ask but I don’t think she understands the whole my being caged situation " My wife is the same, I almost alway have to initiate it and 95% of the time I have to fit the ring. Except she will offer to lock me up in I’m meeting a guy | |||
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"What cages are you all using I'm in ht nub at moment " The nub must be intense. Have used regular HT and cb3000. Hoping to try micro someday. Currently in a standard cobra. Anyone used the cellmate? | |||
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"My partner is(him), yeah definitely difficult to fit into he has to get the ring on go back floppy and lube it up otherwise it would never fit haha xx" Ah so there's a known proper technique to it then. I'm not sure I could manage it because even the thought gets me hard. I'll have to try again because I bet it fun. How long does he wear it for? | |||
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"Its intense but much more confident wearing it during day as totally can't be seen" Must make it my next move! | |||
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"What cages are you all using I'm in ht nub at moment " CB6000 Stub for the last couple of years but looking to try one with an integrated lock | |||
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"Not sure it's the proper way to do it but it's the only way he can haha, and only usually during meets or when I go on solo meets il lock him first come back and tease him in it xx" What cage do you use? What size cock does he have? I might have to invest just for abit of bdsm play more than cuck stuff. Do you let him out straight away after or do you carry on abit of denial? | |||
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"We use a blue line deluxe cage, his around 7.5in when hard so no chance of fitting until his back on flop haha, I play with him for awhile first.. anal toys, pegging, foot/pussy worship ect.. then I will usually release him for hand relief if it's ruined or not depends on how well the stuff mentioned earlier went xx" Hahaha. I googled it and it first come up with guinea pig cages. I thought jesus that's is some mad role play. OK so I'm about 7 so I should not OK in that. Love abut of anal play. And well into mrs feet also. You look gorgeous and sound like you have a great kinky streak. Fair play. Fella is lucky. Or could be unlucky dependant on how long you let him wait or if you ruin his orgasms | |||
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"We use a blue line deluxe cage, his around 7.5in when hard so no chance of fitting until his back on flop haha, I play with him for awhile first.. anal toys, pegging, foot/pussy worship ect.. then I will usually release him for hand relief if it's ruined or not depends on how well the stuff mentioned earlier went xx" Would love to see a pic of you teasing his locked up cock! | |||
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"What cages are you all using I'm in ht nub at moment CB6000 Stub for the last couple of years but looking to try one with an integrated lock " Having used both the CB6000 and the Holy Trainer V2. I can say that the Holy Trainer (with internal lock) wins hands down. The only downside is that the HT is a bit more difficult to fit as it doesn't have the split ring of the CB, but once on, job done. | |||
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"What cages are you all using I'm in ht nub at moment CB6000 Stub for the last couple of years but looking to try one with an integrated lock Having used both the CB6000 and the Holy Trainer V2. I can say that the Holy Trainer (with internal lock) wins hands down. The only downside is that the HT is a bit more difficult to fit as it doesn't have the split ring of the CB, but once on, job done." Appreciate that. Thank you! | |||
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"I've heard of keyholders posting the key to themselves so you don't have an unlock option for a few days. Except for an emergency key of course. Have done this in the past. Quite exciting posting it 2nd class tbh Freezing the key in the middle of a big block of ice is also good" Done both of these as a self locker . The post ones the best as knowing it's away is amazing O | |||
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"You are so lucky being in a couple. I’d love to have a partner that keeps me in chastity " I feel exactly the same. My ex once locked me for a day when I was meeting a group of guys. She wanted to make it clear that my cock was for her, but the guys could use my ass... | |||
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"Just made him put his on and send me proof, I've just popped him up for you all to see." he looks so pretty in it is his cock trying to rise as you display him? | |||
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"Just made him put his on and send me proof, I've just popped him up for you all to see. he looks so pretty in it is his cock trying to rise as you display him?" he is at home I'm having my eye lashes done, he will be sat wondering what I'm up to now. | |||
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"House of denial, trainer in pink with silver sparkles. After using a metal one she got the pink one, oh the shame." Ah the pink one always gives that extra twist of humiliation next up..the nub! | |||
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"Would love Nicky to do this to me" Nicky, give Adrian what he wants already, will ya? Life is short and he is gagging for it. | |||
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"Put myself in chastity , to stop me wanking, been wanking too much one key in a bottle of water in freezer the other in my car. It’s so erotic wearing one out" You can get a key box that locks and can be set on a timer or remotely locked/opened by an app. | |||
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"Any one got any recommendations for chastity devices with uncut cock?" It’s difficult! I’ve found the best result with Kink3D. They have lots of size options but aren’t cheap. They do have a UK dealer now that does sizing. | |||
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"We love the power exchange of chastity.. have enjoyed it for many years.. I have discovered Cherry Keeper locks, which have a huge number of options for both ring and cage sizing, so that you can get a really good fit. " Would love to see you in one | |||
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"What’s the longest any of you have been in chastity x" I've done three weeks | |||
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"I've been caging my hubby for 6 years. Difficult to find a good cage at the start. The ones with external padlocks we found were not for us, as he could not wear them long-term. Yes at the start he would get excited so the cage would not fit so a cold sponge or ice soon sorted that out. He now wears a mico metal cage, in built lock and can wear it 24/7 ( releasing for washing under supervision) So my advice is little and often and build up the time. My only regret is I wish I'd done it sooner " Totally agree. For anyone looking to buy a cage for the first time, I'd avoid any with an external padlock. The CB6000 series used to be considered great, but there's way better options these days. House of Denial are a good place to look with decent prices. C's had me locked for a couple of weeks now, and we both love how horny and desperate it makes me. The things I'll agree to whilst locked are quite a bit more than I would otherwise 🤭 We'd absolutely love to play with another Femdom couple. The fun the two ladies could have teasing the subs would be amazing! | |||
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"I've been caging my hubby for 6 years. Difficult to find a good cage at the start. The ones with external padlocks we found were not for us, as he could not wear them long-term. Yes at the start he would get excited so the cage would not fit so a cold sponge or ice soon sorted that out. He now wears a mico metal cage, in built lock and can wear it 24/7 ( releasing for washing under supervision) So my advice is little and often and build up the time. My only regret is I wish I'd done it sooner " why do you wish you done it sooner ? His attitude? | |||
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"We love the power exchange of chastity.. have enjoyed it for many years.. I have discovered Cherry Keeper locks, which have a huge number of options for both ring and cage sizing, so that you can get a really good fit. " The most incredible set of images! | |||
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"We love the power exchange of chastity.. have enjoyed it for many years.. I have discovered Cherry Keeper locks, which have a huge number of options for both ring and cage sizing, so that you can get a really good fit. The most incredible set of images! " Ahh thank you!! | |||
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"We are looking at getting our first metal chastity cage as just had a bad experience with a plastic one, only concern is with a metal one if the lock fails, base ring gets stuck and also where to get one from, Mrs likes idea of making me have to wear it for longer and at work with panties " There's a site called House of Denial that's decently-priced. Most of the cages these days have an internal locking mechanism which is really just a barrel lock that slides in. Never had an issue with one, but worst case scenario that's the week point you'd have to break to escape. My personal suggestion is to find one with a closed end, because as you get hard your cock will bulge out and the end otherwise which I find very uncomfortable. Other than that, wear the smallest you're comfortable with as it'll prevent you growing too much and straining the cage which can be sore. Have fun! | |||
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"Recently getting into this wife has me caged on meets now " You will love it. Enjoy xxx | |||
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"We love the power exchange of chastity.. have enjoyed it for many years.. I have discovered Cherry Keeper locks, which have a huge number of options for both ring and cage sizing, so that you can get a really good fit. " | |||
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"Whenever I have a meet and hubbies about insist he’s caged as prefer he doesn’t get any pleasure whilst I’m enjoying another guys cock" nice cutebum but i am sure that although he cant orgasm or get a proper erection he enjoys the sensations of your pleasure deep in his body and mind as you enjoy another man | |||
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"We started chastity a couple of years back only short spells locked. We have now progressed to 5mths continuous wearing and reduced size of cage. Cuck is very obedient when caged for long periods I really enjoy the control it gives me. Always looking new ideas to try. ?? " Presumably you've moved into edging and teasing. Making the fuck jealous is particularly tormenting and can drive him nuts. Chastity can do weird things to a man's brain and behaviours as I'm sure you've found out. You should look at e stim cages too and app controlled devices so he is reminded of his place when you're apart | |||
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"We started chastity a couple of years back only short spells locked. We have now progressed to 5mths continuous wearing and reduced size of cage. Cuck is very obedient when caged for long periods I really enjoy the control it gives me. Always looking new ideas to try. ?? " what a lovely comment springbok is so lucky do you tell your more intimate lady friends about his cage It is so sexy when they call round and they are amused by his condition and maybe ask to inspect his little caged specimen | |||
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"We started chastity a couple of years back only short spells locked. We have now progressed to 5mths continuous wearing and reduced size of cage. Cuck is very obedient when caged for long periods I really enjoy the control it gives me. Always looking new ideas to try. ?? Presumably you've moved into edging and teasing. Making the fuck jealous is particularly tormenting and can drive him nuts. Chastity can do weird things to a man's brain and behaviours as I'm sure you've found out. You should look at e stim cages too and app controlled devices so he is reminded of his place when you're apart " Edging is next on my to do list atm it's longterm chastity reduced size training with denial. Cuck has not had any release since caged. Yes I have looked at app control | |||
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"We started chastity a couple of years back only short spells locked. We have now progressed to 5mths continuous wearing and reduced size of cage. Cuck is very obedient when caged for long periods I really enjoy the control it gives me. Always looking new ideas to try. ?? what a lovely comment springbok is so lucky do you tell your more intimate lady friends about his cage It is so sexy when they call round and they are amused by his condition and maybe ask to inspect his little caged specimen" No I haven't spoken outside of fab | |||
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"A little place for couples into chastity to chat and discuss this wonderful experience xx" Hi cuckold couple here with caged cuck. In long-term training has been caged now 6mths reduced cage Size 3 times. Started with the one we have up I'm our profile then to the CB 3000 plastic niw a small steel nub type with internal lock looking to take him down in size to a micro cage. Really enjoy the buzz I get with the control over him. Started SPH. We are both enjoy the cuckold lifestyle | |||
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"I’ve spent, as an estimate, 98% of our married lives locked. 9 years now! The longest without removal has been 9 months … the release tends to be up to 4 hours. But is very rare. Feel lost without it ! " Same here, as a cuck I feel naked if my cock cage is removed. | |||
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"Just gone full time locked here" Lovely feeling I like it | |||
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"I’ve spent, as an estimate, 98% of our married lives locked. 9 years now! The longest without removal has been 9 months … the release tends to be up to 4 hours. But is very rare. Feel lost without it ! " Same with me | |||
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