FabSwingers.com forum: Is it true most men expect rimjob nowadays while getting sucked?

By *ro.blow OP TV/TS
13 weeks ago

Jarrow

Not sure if it’s the same if a woman’s servicing them but it seems whenever I’m arranging to meet a guy to suck his cock in the past 6 months, he’s either brought up he want his ass licked or guides my head towards his ass at the time while I’m sucking. Just seems expected these days whereas if was normally a bit taboo or they’d give plenty of notice.

Especially considering they’ll come straight from work in their work gear without popping home to shower first and just think nothing of it??? Is it just the expectation now?

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By *ornyone30Man
13 weeks ago

ABERDEEN

Couldn't think of anything worse. Not for me either giving or receiving

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By *ickedwillyCouple
13 weeks ago

Bangor

Not in our house either.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
13 weeks ago

South West London

Not sure where this statement came from but for me it's definitely a no giving or receiving

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By *oonbath89Man
13 weeks ago

radstock

Nowt wrong with a rim job either way but it’s certainly not expected

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By *arathonfire82Man
13 weeks ago

eversley

I think that word Expext is where it’s going wrong. No one should expect anything to happen. Even if pre arranged for something to happen on a meet, things happen. Nothing should be expected.

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By *cott14Man
13 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

What he said 👆

Suns up really well. Go with the flow and what you’re both comfortable with .

No different to any other sexual act

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By *oxy jWoman
13 weeks ago

somerset

ill lick no strangers asshole my training tells me that its a place thats never clean no matter how much you clean it your body functions dont stop just because you want a little anal/ or rim job so to lick a strangers ring piece yuk no chance you just as well stick a turd in yer mouth

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By *heelerMan
13 weeks ago

Northants

A female who I had sex with several times used to finger my ass when fucking her must admit felt great.

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By *ersona101Man
13 weeks ago

Letchworth

Don't expect it, but it's like when you get a little biscuit with the coffee you ordered, a lovely bonus

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By *cottyl1983Man
13 weeks ago

Tyne and Wear

No I don't expect to be rimmed while getting head but if she went further down to go for it I wouldn't say say no as long as they don't expect any kissing after that.

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By *londebiguyMan
13 weeks ago

Southport

No.

I hate that.

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By *londebiguyMan
13 weeks ago

Southport

"ill lick no strangers asshole my training tells me that its a place thats never clean no matter how much you clean it your body functions dont stop just because you want a little anal/ or rim job so to lick a strangers ring piece yuk no chance you just as well stick a turd in yer mouth

With that logic then nowhere on a body is clean.

Would you know want to receive oral sex because of the same reason?

All of our skin is covered in various microbes and bacterias.

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By *bboredguyMan
13 weeks ago

dundee

Nahhhh

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
13 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

Never expected it but it’s always nice.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
13 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

"No I don't expect to be rimmed while getting head but if she went further down to go for it I wouldn't say say no as long as they don't expect any kissing after that."

So it’s ok for her tongue to go in your arse but not for you.

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By *ornLordMan
13 weeks ago

Wiltshire and London

Yuk. Neither giving or receiving is attractive.

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By *ornLordMan
13 weeks ago

Wiltshire and London

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By *outhern77Man
13 weeks ago

Quinton

Nope, not giving or recieving

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By *lovetoowatchMan
13 weeks ago

Sheffield

Its not expected but appreciated

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
13 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

I'll play with and lick hers no worries but leave mine the fuck alone

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
13 weeks ago

Wolvo

Cleanliness and communication seem to be the important things here. If it’s not pre-discussed then it shouldn't be happening and if you cba to have a wash before meeting then thats just damn inconsiderate. I’d rather someone be late and go home for a shower than meet and play unwashed. Yuck.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
13 weeks ago

Stoke

Definitely not in our house!

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By *ack DawXXXMan
13 weeks ago

Addlestone

It's been passed by law now. Not rimming, during a blow job is a criminal offence.

Do the right thing.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Not a chance.

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By *parkle1974Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

🤮🤮🤮

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By *orlandaMan
13 weeks ago

Norwich

"Couldn't think of anything worse. Not for me either giving or receiving "

This.

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By *hat Couple Over ThereCouple
13 weeks ago

Doncaster

Mrs does it to me but I know for a fact she wouldn't be doing it for anyone else.

And if the expected they could do 1

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By *ongAndThick123Man
13 weeks ago

Leeds

If someone expected that from me without communicating first, I’d find it a total turn off.

It’s a sensitive area and people need to “prepare”. Bad hygiene and lack of understanding of hygiene makes me gip.

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By *ro.blow OP TV/TS
13 weeks ago

Jarrow

Interesting range of responses

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By *cousesurpriseMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

I don't expect it! If someone is not into it I get it move on. plenty more things I like

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By *ddfellowMan
13 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

not gonna happen certainly not with a stranger maybe with a long term partner, but if you realy want to catch an illness I reckon thats the place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Not at all. I never expect anything from anyone. Boundaries are always discussed beforehand and are always respected and even if someone said they like to do it, I wouldn't automatically assume it would happen. I just go with the flow and what happens happens and what doesn't doesn't.

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By *rettCoolMan
13 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Av never been rimed but am sure it would be a great experience along with being sucked .. but would definitely have to have a shower before hand .. I do like to rim a lady tho

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By *rNightMan
13 weeks ago

Coventry

Never had one, never asked for one

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By *utlongjohnMan
13 weeks ago

Wouldnt expect it but would be happy to recieve it

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
13 weeks ago

southam

"Wouldnt expect it but would be happy to recieve it"

If i was young enough to serve you, i would lick suck or probe wherever you directed me too sir

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By *efinitelymaybelookingWoman
13 weeks ago

fabulous land

Nope.. no chance

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By *ackformore100Man
13 weeks ago

Tin town

"Not sure if it’s the same if a woman’s servicing them but it seems whenever I’m arranging to meet a guy to suck his cock in the past 6 months, he’s either brought up he want his ass licked or guides my head towards his ass at the time while I’m sucking. Just seems expected these days whereas if was normally a bit taboo or they’d give plenty of notice.

Especially considering they’ll come straight from work in their work gear without popping home to shower first and just think nothing of it??? Is it just the expectation now? "

Think it's your selection process might need improving.

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By *ro.blow OP TV/TS
13 weeks ago

Jarrow

Especially considering they’ll come straight from work in their work gear without popping home to shower first and just think nothing of it??? Is it just the expectation now?

Think it's your selection process might need improving. "

Hahaha

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By *icolerobbieCouple
13 weeks ago

walsall

Sounds like a shitty job to me.

I’m out.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
13 weeks ago

near you...

No. Next idiot question.

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By *vana_SweetnessWoman
13 weeks ago

Derby

It's a no from me, giving or receiving.

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By *ymbunny79Woman
13 weeks ago

sheerness

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I’ve never (Mrs here) had it expected of me to rim during a bj. Any man that expected ANYTHING is a tw@t imo

Even if things are discussed in playful chat prior to a meet it doesn’t automatically guarantee the act of it upon an eventual meet.

Never heard of this being a ‘thing’ though in other couples or playing people’s circles on this scene. I really hope it’s not true because it’s awful if so

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By *olfandtazCouple
13 weeks ago

Bristol

It does nothing for me

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By *helamontsCouple
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Not expected here ...

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By *ian StephensTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

If all is freshly washed I love it, giving or receiving. xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Naaahhhhh

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By *ruman77Man
13 weeks ago

London

I've never requested it from anybody. A woman I dated once tried to rim me and the tickling sensation was too much and I was fighting urge to giggle hysterically. I've never thought of receiving a rim job from anyone before or since. But every couple has a unique dynamic, so anything's possible. I get the impression rim jobs are more popular with Gen Z.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
13 weeks ago

Where ever I lay my hat

No from me

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By *emboy AlexMan
13 weeks ago

Chadderton, Manchester

Not really my thing to give or receive. It tickles me and leaves me paranoid too much when receiving and I'd never give it because im worried about the taste/smell and little chocolate flakes getting in my mouth.

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By *ayd100Man
13 weeks ago

clitheroe

Who cares

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By *ink vixenCouple
13 weeks ago

Medway

NOPE!

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By *ieandteaseMan
13 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Revolting

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By *erri_kissesTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Islington

By the looks of some of the posts of abject horror there’s a few here who may find benefit from an informal, introductory, chat looking into the magical world of douching

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By *hesubtlegentMan
13 weeks ago

surrey

Only play with women but can say I do not want a finger or tongue anywhere near my ass. I’m a giver only

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By *as1373Couple
13 weeks ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

I think it’s a case of too many watching porn. It’s not something I’d want my wife to do, and she probably wouldn’t. Each to their own though.

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By *elkieWoman
13 weeks ago

Durham

I’ve had a couple of people try to get me to rim them on a casual meet, and neither of them cared if I wanted to or not.

And: I kind of agree with the poster who suggested you should change your selection processes, because unless this is your thing; people should be showering before meets.

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

I don't expect a rimming when a woman is getting to know me intimately, but I do enjoy it when it's freely given, and it is the first test of a new sub's obedience....

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By *inkyguyUKMan
12 weeks ago

worcester

I hope they don't unless the douche. Do you not realize poo is very very far from being sterile. Piss is sterile poo can kill you, I literally contains most of the pathogens your body is getting rid of

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By *inkyguyUKMan
12 weeks ago

worcester

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By *inkyguyUKMan
12 weeks ago

worcester

yup when I go to a subs funeral from strep and typhus combined that over run the body causing sepsis I think that was an obedient sub

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
12 weeks ago

Manchester

Expected?

Not at all. But very enjoyable - giving or receiving.

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By *eedsmale36Man
12 weeks ago

Leeds

I’m just happy to have a nice hot wife sucking my cock as hubby watches

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By *eedsmale36Man
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"Expected?

Not at all. But very enjoyable - giving or receiving. "

Need a voyeur tomorrow ?

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By *eedsmale36Man
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"It does nothing for me"

Oooooooh Vienna !

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I do enjoy receiving a rimjob but not if I've not showered first. Equally, it's nice to give but I'd expect the same attention to personal hygiene.

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By *ro.blow OP TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Jarrow

Interesting

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By *unning onCouple
12 weeks ago

leatherhead

Never expected but gratefully received and willingly given xx

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By *erfHerder74Man
12 weeks ago

Greenock

Most men do expect this

For me I don’t do that sorry

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By *ackformore100Man
12 weeks ago

Tin town

My rims been a bit kerbed over the years so if I can get my rims fixed and a bj at the same time that's a garage I'd go to.

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
12 weeks ago

Chislehurst

Never an expectation to receive this

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