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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yet another no show today, but at least this one replied when I text to say I was on my way ! 5 in a row, I must be doing something wrong lol !

gets a bit miff - making though !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yet another no show today, but at least this one replied when I text to say I was on my way ! 5 in a row, I must be doing something wrong lol !

gets a bit miff - making though !

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I am beginning to wonder if no shows are a self fulfilling prophesy?

Because people do not always turn up some people over book in anticipation and if there are two or more opportunities they drop one of them.

The people that got dropped start to make multiple bookings so as not to miss out and the circle starts again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yet another no show today, but at least this one replied when I text to say I was on my way ! 5 in a row, I must be doing something wrong lol !

gets a bit miff - making though !

I am beginning to wonder if no shows are a self fulfilling prophesy?

Because people do not always turn up some people over book in anticipation and if there are two or more opportunities they drop one of them.

The people that got dropped start to make multiple bookings so as not to miss out and the circle starts again.

You may indeed be right there !

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire

Sorry this happened to you. Thank goodness they at least had some manners and replied to your text, so you knew not to waste any more time.

I had a meet arranged recently and no message to say he'd changed his mind/ was busy/ had lost the use of his fingertips so couldn't text and he was online a couple of hours beforehand. If I arrange to meet someone and something happens or I get cold feet, I let them know, I couldn't just go quiet, that's so ignorant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep going, you are doing something right, loads of guys dont even get to the arranging a meet stage. maybe talking to them on the phone to confirm arrangements would help. good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"keep going, you are doing something right, loads of guys dont even get to the arranging a meet stage. maybe talking to them on the phone to confirm arrangements would help. good luck

Oh I'm not too bogged off, just having a slight public moan, all arranging done before hand including phone numbers. then no shows resultant, it's the loss of the rare free time that narks the most.

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