FabSwingers.com forum: What's your view?

By *bat OP Man
13 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I have a long distance relationship going on with a beautiful woman. Frankly, I'm punching well above my weight!!

We've been talking through some scenarios for when we meet in December.

She wants me to fuck her with a little audience watching, but she's very nervous about her personal security.

She likes the idea of dogging with the windows closed and doors locked, except that it will be December and fucking freezing!! Also, a car is not the most comfortable of venues!

Here's what I want from you people....

Here are a couple of possible scenarios, and I was hooping you could give me your thoughts on feasibility, pluses and minuses. ,

Scenario 1. We are staying in a hotel near Derby and we anticipate the bar being busy on the run up to Christmas. We thought we might try and pick up a guy in the bar and invite him back to our room. He is only allowed to watch us fucking. He can wank as much as he likes, but only watch, no touching.

Got to pick the right guy and no physical barrier.

Scenario 2. A visit to the attic cinema on the Saturday day time.

Guaranteed audience but no physical barrier.

Scenario 3. Arrange a watcher from here.

Again, got to pick the right guy and no physical barrier, but at least we can have a look at his veris etc.

Thoughts????

Gbat

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By *ife NinjaMan
13 weeks ago

Dunfermline

3. Seems safer and you can vet/chat beforehand

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By *andKCouple
13 weeks ago

Wrea Green

Why not go to a club and play together in a room where people can watch?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

When we tried that we went to a club in the day time.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

You people?

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By *bat OP Man
13 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"You people?"

as in ....

"Here's what I want from you people....

Here are a couple of possible scenarios, and I was hoping you could give me your thoughts on feasibility, pluses and minuses."

Gbat

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
13 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t think picking up a random guy from a bar is a good idea. Either go to a club or make a friend online here who can join you.

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By *bat OP Man
13 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"I don’t think picking up a random guy from a bar is a good idea. "

Okay, but why do you think that? I'm looking for anything I might have missed.

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By *andKCouple
13 weeks ago

Wrea Green

I wonder if OPs 'friend' knows that this discussion is taking place or is she oblivious to it. Hence the 'oh look a total stranger in a bar' approach?? 🤔 As against a club or meeting someone via Fab.

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By *parkle1974Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

I think even you know OP that the least safest option is picking just some random in a bar

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By *r SproutMan
13 weeks ago

the middle

If everyone involved is 100% aware of the situation, I would gladly sit there and watch you OP

I’ll even let you buy me a beer for the excellent verification I’d leave

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By *bat OP Man
13 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"I wonder if OPs 'friend' knows that this discussion is taking place or is she oblivious to it. Hence the 'oh look a total stranger in a bar' approach?? 🤔 As against a club or meeting someone via Fab. "

She knows. If that's what we are going to do, we will be doing it together. But I neither want nor care for your approval.

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By *bat OP Man
13 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

As people have said, a random is probably not the best way to go! Good to chuck a few options about though, thanks.

Mr Sprout, we could give you a very for good behaviour and maybe you'd buy us a beer instead?

Gbat

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By *r SproutMan
13 weeks ago

the middle

"As people have said, a random is probably not the best way to go! Good to chuck a few options about though, thanks.

Mr Sprout, we could give you a very for good behaviour and maybe you'd buy us a beer instead?

Gbat"

I’ve spent a lot more to get a good veri so 2 beers seems very reasonable! I’m always on my best behaviour when required

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By *olfandtazCouple
13 weeks ago

Bristol

I'd go with option 3.

Set up a couples profile and use it for that.

You will get plenty of messages from people who will be happy to watch and wank for her

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By *bat OP Man
13 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Yeah, I think we're leaning toward Scenario three.

The Attic club has the attraction of being more anonymous and less chance of being let down last minute, but some of the reviews talk about pushy men, poor hygiene and of course, there's no dress down code.

I just want her first experience to be fantastic!!

Gbat

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