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By *el_15 OP   Couple
13 weeks ago

Durham

Hi, we are a young fm couple looking for a unicorn for a threesome we've messaged loads of people and nothing seems to work out. We are verified and will send face and other pics once we know if we might meet the person we don't know what we can do any advice?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
13 weeks ago

Flagrante

You are looking for something which appears to be highly sought after on here and people tend to read/look at profiles before responding.

Nothing you can do about this but you are on the young side for this site which may work against you but on the positive side you have plenty of years ahead of you to explore.

What we've found over the years is being open to experiences has resulted in all sorts of fun when it's least expected.

Relax and enjoy the ride.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
13 weeks ago

Thurrock

It would help if you put some kind of pics up most people wouldn’t respond to a profile with nothing, doesn’t have to be your faces but some full length shots of you both. Finding a woman can be difficult just due to the percentages woman are far out numbered here and bi sexual women even more so. Maybe list your firm no’s aswell so anyone looking to chat with you has a better understanding. Keep engaging with people and be patient

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

You know your boundaries and what you want after years of discussing it, but don't express what any of those are?

Lack of pictures will usually mean an instant no. Women willing to play unicorn are absolutely drowned in messages from couples. Why would they even respond to one without any concept of what they look like when there's another 18 with pictures still to read in the inbox?

Your age and lack of experience will work against you at this stage. High risk of drama, unclear boundaries and a lack of knowing how to make the woman joining you feel like an actual human rather than a disposable sex toy.

Couples seeking women tend to do better at clubs or seeking cuck couples or similar rather than only trying to meet women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

You've been here for 2 weeks, no photos, pretty poor profile and not veri'd.

You are searching for what most of the site are also looking for. A 3-way connection is way harder than a 2-way, as all three need to be attracted.

Your age will definitely put older people off, who have children similar age or older.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
13 weeks ago

Sheffield

A profile would be a good start. You have to make an effort and stand out. Most women will look at your profile before even opening your messages. If you’ve no profile pic or any pics it’s probs a straight delete for most. X

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You have no pics at all op, so most women will delete your message.

Most couples on here are after an ffm,so bi women can afford to be very picky.

They need to fancy both people and to know what you'd be offering them.At the min you don't stand out at all, get some pics up, of both of you & write a bit about what a meet would get from you.

Or try a club.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
13 weeks ago

Leeds

You have no pics at all, I wouldn't respond to you from my singles profile.

I want to see if there's any initial attraction before I invest my time.

I'm not into blind date.

Mrs

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By *endalshaggersCouple
13 weeks ago

Kendal

You have zero pictures. Straight away that's a red flag - not having a profile picture is bad enough but having absolutely zero at all.... as others have said, even if you want to keep your faces out of it, upload some body shots or similar. Make a note on your profile your're willing to share more privately with the right people. But get something on there to draw people in, or you're just another anonymous profile amongst hundreds.

You don't list your boundaries - make it clear. The majority of couples on here seem to want MFF, so give a potential partner something to intrigue them and draw them in. You're fighting a battle against who knows, tens of other local couples who have messaged the same person vying for attention. Make your profile stand out.

I would also suggest get properly verified. Self photo verification is a start but even if you do some cam meets to start of with, people seem to respond more positively to verified accounts than none.

At the moment it's like you've turned up to fish with a broken rod and no bait - your intentions are there but you don't have the right equipment as such. Get some photos up, sort the profile text, and you may be able to get some bites.

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