FabSwingers.com forum: At what point do you stop classing/been classed as a ssbhm.

By *andsomeunit OP Man
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

So recently I've lost quite abit of weight (7 stone).

I'm 6ft and now weigh around 28 stone.

So my question is at what point do you think I should do classing myself as a SSBHM (super size Big Handsome Man) and just class myself as a BHM or just plane chunky?

Please no sarcastic comments or insults.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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20 weeks ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't dream of insulting you or being sarcastic, losing 7 stone is an incredible achievement.

I don't know at what point you stop classing yourself as that but I'd say you're getting close to it.

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By *andsomeunit OP Man
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I wouldn't dream of insulting you or being sarcastic, losing 7 stone is an incredible achievement.

I don't know at what point you stop classing yourself as that but I'd say you're getting close to it.

Thank you, I really appreciate that.

Obviously people are entitled to their own opinions, however I'd like to think it will remain respectful.

Also it may give other bigger gentleman a better insight on when they stop classing themselves as the same also. I suppose a bit of a confidence boost shell we say.

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By *andsomeunit OP Man
19 weeks ago

Birmingham

Still after some genuine opinions.

Please keep them respectful.

**Bump**

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
19 weeks ago

North West

I don’t think it’s defined at a certain weight.

Describe yourself however you wish. People will like you or they won’t, irrespective of the word you use to describe yourself.

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By *vaRose43Woman
19 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I don’t think there is a definitive answer here.

Everyone will have a different opinion.. for example I use the word fat on my profile, I don’t mind the word, I’m happy to own it and I’m happy in my skin. It seems to really ruffle feathers though and I get a lot of messages wanting to argue with me over it. Works quite well as a filter.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Congratulations on your weight loss

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By *illiam101000Man
19 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

The beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess.

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