FabSwingers.com forum: Asking for a verification

By *amantha_Nite OP TV/TS
14 weeks ago

The Lake District

How do you feel if your asked to leave a verification for someone you met.

Do you feel pressured for being asked rather than freely offering one.

And should you leave them a verification,how do you feel if they dont/wont reciprocate and leave a verification for you

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
14 weeks ago

Birmingham

Well, since this site really works off varifications, why wouldn't you leave one?

Unless the person was an idiot, pushed limits etc then there's no real reason not to leave one.

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By *ucka39Man
14 weeks ago

Newcastle

Don't get asked, and do it after the meeting

It's just a preference which I respect and don't mind because it remains between us

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
14 weeks ago

chichester

I find many people don’t want a verification from a tv/TS through fear of it affecting future meets. This us especially prevalent with male profiles in my experience

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By *amantha_Nite OP TV/TS
14 weeks ago

The Lake District

"Don't get asked,"

?? How does that work,you cant stop someone else asking in first instance

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford

I don't mind people asking for verification after we've met and don't mind too much for them not returning one. However, if I am going to an organised social, I do expect to get verified by the organisers even just to say I turned up. Had a situation recently when I went to an organised social with my partner, but we left after less than an hour due to the music being way too loud for us in that venue. The organisers ignored our verification for them (probably it wasn't as glowing as the other ones) and never verified us. I get that usually there is loads of people at those events and it takes a lot of Fabmin afterwards, but nobody forced them to organise the event. Rant over.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
14 weeks ago

Cannock

It’s always difficult asking for verifications on here without feeling like you are ‘stamp collecting’ !

We have met people on here over the years that haven’t verified us, from mostly club meets, disappointing but you can hardly really pester them to do so.

Just have to take things as they are, when dealing with other people as our mantra.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

It wouldn't bother us if someone asked for a veri. We normally leave one after we've met people because veris are a fundamental part of this site and helping people safely connect. The only instances where we wouldn't leave a veri would be if we really didn't get on with someone.

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By *aomilatteCouple
14 weeks ago

Midlands

We're more than happy to send someone a verification if we've met. If they didn't send one back (rare,but does happen) it's no big deal, we should have enough to show we're real.

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