FabSwingers.com forum: What puts you off a profile?

By *endalshaggers OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Kendal

We all will no doubt view several profiles a day. There's lots we'll like the look of but curious to know what puts you off?

Zero pictures?

Condescending tone and demand you jump through hoops just to hope you may get a message back?

Too many verifications or not enough?

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By *ensualgent38Man
23 weeks ago

London & Edinburgh

No pictures and/or a profile text which is longer than War & Peace.

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By *andPextraCouple
23 weeks ago

North West

Bad photo’s (too much genitalia, too many close up's, mess in the background, anything on the toilet)

“fill in later” (why not try filling it in now? Might be helpful to get you somewhere

“looking for exceptional”, who describes themselves that way, plus generally asked by people who are punching if they did…..

The fab warning (Sydney, photos, privacy etc- as much use as a wet through cardboard box)

Anyone who says “you’s”

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
23 weeks ago

Rushden

No pics & veris. Without either it's tough to get past

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By *asterMeliodasMan
23 weeks ago

Newmill

Nothing in the bio that tells me anything about who they are.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
23 weeks ago

Trowbridge

No bio, too much bio, Sydney university crap, dick pics, no pics

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Marlow

"Bad photo’s (too much genitalia, too many close up's, mess in the background, anything on the toilet)

“fill in later” (why not try filling it in now? Might be helpful to get you somewhere

“looking for exceptional”, who describes themselves that way, plus generally asked by people who are punching if they did…..

The fab warning (Sydney, photos, privacy etc- as much use as a wet through cardboard box)

Anyone who says “you’s”

Ha ha yes all of this, described perfectly.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

No pictures, no profile text, nothing to connect with.

Dick pics as profile pictures or taking up more than 60% of the gallery.

"Looking for like minded" with absolutely no indication of what their mind is like.

Professional. Discreet. Discrete. Up for anything. No limits. Anyone calling themselves an Alpha or Daddy.

Lack of effort. Lack of personality.

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By *opinovMan
23 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Preachy, aggressive, haughty or just empty profiles. No pictures, especially when accompanied by an insistence upon photos of others contacting them.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
23 weeks ago

Leicester

No pics, no veris, only been on Fab few weeks, "fill later" profile text, angry/irritable/complaining status updates etc etc

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By *bi HaiveMan
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23 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Bland, uninteresting photos and text.

Graphic porn style veris.

Negativity.

Huge pointless disclaimers cut and pasted from other profiles.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
23 weeks ago

Beverley

Hoops in a serious way. Some of them, however, are quite comic and you can tell the writer is just fed up, which I like.

Any pics that say 'fab for this/that'

Words like 'exceptional' wind me up as well. If someone describes themselves as that, how can you take them seriously

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By *aranelloMan
23 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

Nailing a good profile is quite difficult and looking at the comments, I get the dick pic ones, but that’s what I went with, if people are intrigued enough then I have full length and face pics in mine.

Personally I get out off by a lack of effort, if their profile lacks character then it’s likely they do as well ! So I like a profile that gives away just a little personality. Enough to intrigue me to write.

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By *oxy jWoman
23 weeks ago

somerset

lots but im not going to list them because to me they are part of my filter ...

people need to do there profile that show who they are and what the want just be you so others can make a honest decision ....

profile advice should be banned

that will stir a few goody goody's

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By *allipygousMan
23 weeks ago

Leicester

Spunk leaking out of a vagina. Spunk leaking out of a bum hole. Spunk plastered all over her face. Spunk dribbling out of her mouth.

I actually don't have an aversion to spunk.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

[Removed by poster at 08/08/24 02:59:04]

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

Evidently thoughtless about my potential needs as a prospective partner, so will likely repeat the pattern, should we meet. So I don't

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

Close up vag/cock/arsehole pics.

Dirty backgrounds.

Up yourself bios.

Ranty bios.

Mrs

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
23 weeks ago

Tamworth

No text or lazy text that tells me nothing useful.

Endless action shots or genital shots.

Angry people who rant on about how people should use Fab or put others down .

Arrogance.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
23 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Unhealthy body type

Spotty bums

Pictures taken with no aesthetic thought whatsoever

Text speak Profiles or clearly hard of thinking

“Last meet 5 years ago”

Negative attitude/ moaning

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By *olfandtazCouple
23 weeks ago

Bristol

No pics

No text

Been on here for a period of time and not even self verified.

Arrogance in text

There's alot which puts us off

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By *lack beauty 35Woman
23 weeks ago

West midlands

Arrogance

Profiles with the name milf hunter in

Anything goes

Expert at massages

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By *eyond PurityCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Profiles that say ‘I read your profile and I align with everything you say’ and they have no profile pic, no or hardly any pics or mostly dick pics and a basic bio 🤦🏻‍♂️

Crude/rude or one line messages.

Discrete - I will always think they have a partner - always.

Any profile with bull/VWE/hung in

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By *WANDTGCouple
23 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Anyone who has " we are a professional couple " on their profile.

Also any woman who says they are " sapiosexual " , yeah right.

So Albert Einstein or Steven Hawkings gets first dibs over Brad Pitt or George Clooney !!!

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
23 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

" curious to know what puts you off?

Racism, including fetishisation.

Blank/one liner profile text.

Nowt but zoomed in genital and/or action shots.

Negging.

Sydney university/publically traded entity nonsense.

Big long list of requirements.

Big long list of things they hate about this site.

Think that'll do for now .....

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By *HUSH-Man
23 weeks ago

London

Lack of a bio - I can’t be arsed to message you if you don’t say anything about yourself.

Rants - save it for the forums

Arrogance - Sure, you might be good looking but you’re not gods gift to humanity. No one is.

Verifications - I don’t care how many you have but I don’t need to know that you’ve been air tight all weekend and taken multiple loads from guys while your hubby (who doesn’t know you’re on this site) is away.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
23 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Tons of pictures that contain 90% of the different people they're fucking and maybe 5-10% of themselves, especially when there are clearly loads of bareback pictures with different partners and their profile says "safe sex".

No information on profile.

Gaping arseholes or vaginas, spunk dribble pictures or nothing but dick pics.

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By *ucka39Man
23 weeks ago

Newcastle

Disclaimer, limited bio Will fill in later

which later missed the last train

No photos but requested photos otherwise message doesn't get a response 🙄

Using photos taken from the web, it's creepy behaviour 🤔

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By *yreGuy99Man
23 weeks ago

Somewhere in Moria

The only things that really bother me are.

Anyone demanding payment to have a conversation with them. Like they deserve it.

And the majority of men not knowing the definition of the word straight.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
23 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

A check list of criteria

Overly graphic pics

Rants

And many many more

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By *histle do nicelyMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow South

Bad speling

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By *orthern BeardMan
23 weeks ago

Preston

‘Fill in later’ FFS stop being lazy and just fill it in already!

Bad spelling is also a turn off

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By *ounmacCouple
23 weeks ago

Market Harborough

No info

Info doesn’t match age etc

No pics due to professional job

Pics with all conquests

Up there own ass

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By *oxesMan
23 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"We all will no doubt view several profiles a day. There's lots we'll like the look of but curious to know what puts you off?

Zero pictures?

Condescending tone and demand you jump through hoops just to hope you may get a message back?

Too many verifications or not enough?

Discuss!

One sentance profiles.

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By *adiesamanthaCouple
23 weeks ago

Telford

I agree. Just a hi is better than nothing. X

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By *ittlebirdWoman
23 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Crocs 💯

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By *ellroseWoman
23 weeks ago

Brum

Too many dick pics …..why do they have to do different angels 🙄🥱🥱

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By *usbandandktCouple
23 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Seeing “will fill in later” on a profile that’s been around weeks, months, years.

Unsurprisingly it’s an instant block

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By *londebiguyMan
23 weeks ago

Southport

Sydney university stuff for starters

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
23 weeks ago

essex

Photos of men with nothing on but socks

Photos with boxers pulled down

Toilet pics

Too many pubes

Photos of guys sticking their tongues out

Will fill in later on profile

Super short profiles

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
23 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Might need to redo our profile

We'll avoid new profiles, ones where mobile GPS says they are 1200 miles away when they should be 30 (yes I know holidays) no profile pics, lack of bio, messy dirty looking photos and bad spelling and grammar (even though we just as guilty)

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Is mine ok any advice welcome

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

Blank profiles

Profiles that only contain dick pics.

Couple profiles which only show the female half....

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By *ensman100Man
23 weeks ago

Hounslow

"Blank profiles

Profiles that only contain dick pics.

Couple profiles which only show the female half...."

Or couples profile with just the M pics!

Makes you wonder!

Feel.free to pick my profile apart!

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"Blank profiles

Profiles that only contain dick pics.

Couple profiles which only show the female half....

Or couples profile with just the M pics!

Makes you wonder!

Feel.free to pick my profile apart!"

2 many dick pics for me and action pics with a female. Always wonder on a singles account if consent has been given for the pics to be shown.

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By *ussle SproutMan
23 weeks ago

the middle

“Not looking for single men”

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By *ussle SproutMan
23 weeks ago

the middle

"“Not looking for single men” "

Or guys, whatever it is

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester

Lots:

- no effort in their text: either one vague sentence or the good old "ask me".

- just having cock pictures

- action shots (usually bare!) Which shows more of the female than the guy

- messy backgrounds

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By *ensman100Man
23 weeks ago

Hounslow

"Blank profiles

Profiles that only contain dick pics.

Couple profiles which only show the female half....

Or couples profile with just the M pics!

Makes you wonder!

Feel.free to pick my profile apart!

2 many dick pics for me and action pics with a female. Always wonder on a singles account if consent has been given for the pics to be shown."

Fair comments!

I guess the same goes for couples who show pics playing with others... we'll never know!

In my case yes consent has been given... hence me showing them.

As for the number of cock pics.. I could reduce them !

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"Blank profiles

Profiles that only contain dick pics.

Couple profiles which only show the female half....

Or couples profile with just the M pics!

Makes you wonder!

Feel.free to pick my profile apart!

2 many dick pics for me and action pics with a female. Always wonder on a singles account if consent has been given for the pics to be shown.

Fair comments!

I guess the same goes for couples who show pics playing with others... we'll never know!

In my case yes consent has been given... hence me showing them.

As for the number of cock pics.. I could reduce them !

Let's be honest, no-one is going to admit to not having consent.

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By *ensman100Man
23 weeks ago

Hounslow

"Blank profiles

Profiles that only contain dick pics.

Couple profiles which only show the female half....

Or couples profile with just the M pics!

Makes you wonder!

Feel.free to pick my profile apart!

2 many dick pics for me and action pics with a female. Always wonder on a singles account if consent has been given for the pics to be shown.

Fair comments!

I guess the same goes for couples who show pics playing with others... we'll never know!

In my case yes consent has been given... hence me showing them.

As for the number of cock pics.. I could reduce them !

Let's be honest, no-one is going to admit to not having consent."

That's true!

Loved your pics before you hid them

Thanks for the feedback BTW! Very much appreciated 🙏

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By *usbandandktCouple
23 weeks ago

Basingstoke

When a person has messaged you and their profile is set to hidden.

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
23 weeks ago

Stourbridge

There's some good tips here that I have picked up. I really struggle to write a profile that is positive. I think partly it stems from growing up with a low opinion of myself.

I say this hesitantly, but absolutely happy for *constructive* critiques.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
23 weeks ago

chichester

When it says not interest in TS

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By *ocksareoffMan
23 weeks ago

Out n About

Anything snow/420 related.

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By *R coupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Croydon

Each to their own but close ups of your bits (male or female) is usually a bit of a red flag for us. Or if you’ve got a messy house behind you.

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By *evil-AngelWoman
23 weeks ago

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This is more off a Tinder/dating site thing I think although I have seen it in here occasionally - sticking their tongue out in photos

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

The pointless “disclaimer” which is basically an old school chain mail.

It’s so cringe. Holds zero weight and frankly embarrassing to read !

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By *R coupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Croydon

Oh and another one would be telling people in your bio how incredibly good looking and sexy you’re other half is and how lucky you’ll be if you get to play with them.

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By *oiluvfunMan
23 weeks ago

Penrith

“Club meets only”…..

Profile pics with mostly black guys in….

Any profile which demands a face pic with your first message….

Shouty, negative profile text, with the likes of “You must do this, you must do that, I don’t do this, I don’t do that” etc……

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
23 weeks ago

Always on the move

No photos at all with a demanding "you muat send a face pic before I even consider responding" type message.

Or, "I don't have a type" and the veris show an extremely common theme which chunky bucko here does not fall into haha

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

The one that really confuses me is “not looking for single guys”” but still have men listed on there…

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By *eyeYCouple
23 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

A whole manner of things.. 🤣

Main one's would be close up gyno shots, followed by no pictures. A lack of or very dictatorial bio. Oh, and witnessing crap attitudes in the forums..

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By *oiluvfunMan
23 weeks ago

Penrith

"The one that really confuses me is “not looking for single guys”” but still have men listed on there…"

That’s to prevent meltdown in their inbox mate

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By *londebiguyMan
23 weeks ago

Southport

"Facebook is a publicly traded ..."

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By *ynamicnatureMan
23 weeks ago

Doncaster

One line or negative bio's are not very enticing.

Poor selection of pics, so you don't really good idea of who you are trying to connect with.

I'm not overly fussed if they don't have veri's, everyone needs to start somewhere right?

I'll give anyone the time if day if they float my boat.😊

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"We all will no doubt view several profiles a day. There's lots we'll like the look of but curious to know what puts you off?

Zero pictures?

Too many verifications or not enough?

Discuss!

Condescending tone and demand you jump through hoops just to hope you may get a message back?

This!

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By *randMrsLPCouple
23 weeks ago

london

Bull, cheeky, willing to try anyhting

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By *issmorganWoman
23 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No public pics and one line of text ie ask or fill in later

Profiles that are full of cock or action shots.

Anyone cheating on a partner.

Constant updates like balls need emptying or horny who is sucking etc.

Having a meet request up everyday.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
23 weeks ago

chichester

"Anything snow/420 related. "

ugh yes there are so many druggies on here its quite sad indeed

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By *s2walesCouple
23 weeks ago

Gwent...

Fill in later....really

Only genital pic in friends pics

Family pics in backgrounds

Untidy backgrounds to pic

Must be more but don't want to go on too muck lol

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
23 weeks ago

Reading

"Looking for like minded" with absolutely no indication of what their mind is like.

This is my biggest pet peeve right here.

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By *orcester-guyMan
23 weeks ago

Worcester

Any advice for my profile 😉😜🤔

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By *neeyedwillieMan
23 weeks ago

Darlington

Couldn't care less about a person's profile. I gave up approaching people on fab ages ago because its all moot.

My wife and I do most of our thing through clubs and socials. Learned a long time ago you can meet the most amazing of people who have barely anything of intrest on their fab profiles just as we met some people who where not what their profiles made out...or not even the people in the profile at all.

Best advice i can give is...nothing beats real world interactions.

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By *llie AssMan
23 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

Emphasis on unsafe sex.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
23 weeks ago

Preston

No pics, no meet veris, no content xx

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By *wosmilersCouple
23 weeks ago

Heathrowish

Perhaps when someone contacts us asking if we want to meet and has a hidden profile altogether.

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By *WB85Man
23 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Graphic pictures and a massive turn off for me.

Keep it classy.

Also profiles that have no pictures or profile picture that say your first message must contain a face pic

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By *implynaughty1Couple
23 weeks ago

stockport

The list can go on and on really can't it but I would say black profile not being verified for over 12 months pics of you bits everywhere can not accommodate can not travel verifications are webcam

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By *ybermanMan
23 weeks ago

Comberton

Woman with horses or men holding fish

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By *iren_66Couple
23 weeks ago

stoke on trent

A Dick picture as the pfp x

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By *ptimusFineMan
23 weeks ago

Bristol

"No pics & veris. Without either it's tough to get past"

The irony there being that it's impossible to get veris if everyone discounts those without.

I get your point, but everyone has to start somewhere, and there are jus as many time-wasting/terrible people on here as there are those without.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester

"No pics & veris. Without either it's tough to get past

The irony there being that it's impossible to get veris if everyone discounts those without.

I get your point, but everyone has to start somewhere, and there are jus as many time-wasting/terrible people on here as there are those without."

I used to think that but there are big socials and clubs where men can get verifications from.

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By *emboy AlexMan
23 weeks ago

Chadderton, Manchester

People that say "no timewasters" or that random Sydney university crap. It's a bit like saying "No Bullies Allowed", it's just cringe and isn't going to accomplish anything.

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By *tella AsteriaWoman
23 weeks ago

South West

I always look for a flag for photo verified, profile photos and veris ideally. Love a torso shot, always nice to see a face once messaging starts and do really live cock pics…. I mean that’s what I wanna suck and fuck do let’s see the goods! Love a bit of imagination and always looking for young with stamina and a bit more than just naughty. Humour but not a comedian!

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By *he 1 2 watchWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

For me has to be dick picks. We all no what one looks like so why do some guys have just a dick pick on every one

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
23 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Bad photo’s (too much genitalia, too many close up's, mess in the background, anything on the toilet)

“fill in later” (why not try filling it in now? Might be helpful to get you somewhere

“looking for exceptional”, who describes themselves that way, plus generally asked by people who are punching if they did…..

The fab warning (Sydney, photos, privacy etc- as much use as a wet through cardboard box)

Anyone who says “you’s”

Exactly this ☝️

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By *iscreetMan_UKMan
23 weeks ago

nearby

Loads of pictures of the exact same set up and angle.

The same two pictures posted repeatedly so they clearly just want to show up in the “new pictures” feed.

Men in lady’s underwear.

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