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NUDIST SWINGERS - how to recognise?

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By *rtist with muse OP   Couple
20 weeks ago

Eastbourne

Hiya All, We are nudist, kink swingers but when at regular nudist clubs and events its not easy to pick out those who are fellow naked travellers so to speak unless you have met elsewhere.

How do you spot each other when naked with causing offence, we often drop into conversation if it feels right; "you guys on Fab?" - how do others do it?

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By *DW1983Man
20 weeks ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield


"Hiya All, We are nudist, kink swingers but when at regular nudist clubs and events its not easy to pick out those who are fellow naked travellers so to speak unless you have met elsewhere.

How do you spot each other when naked with causing offence, we often drop into conversation if it feels right; "you guys on Fab?" - how do others do it?"

Why should it be easier at a nudist/naturist event to 'spot' a swinger than anywhere else unless you're confusing nudity with sex? Some people there might be. Many won't be. You could apply the same logic to a concert, football match or the local pub.

"How can we tell if anyone else watching the match is a swinger?" If the answer "we just ask 'are you on Fab' feels awkward or inappropriate in that context (and unless you're getting strong hints then it probably is) then it's not really any different at a nudist venue.

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By *rtist with muse OP   Couple
20 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"Hiya All, We are nudist, kink swingers but when at regular nudist clubs and events its not easy to pick out those who are fellow naked travellers so to speak unless you have met elsewhere.

How do you spot each other when naked with causing offence, we often drop into conversation if it feels right; "you guys on Fab?" - how do others do it?

Why should it be easier at a nudist/naturist event to 'spot' a swinger than anywhere else unless you're confusing nudity with sex? Some people there might be. Many won't be. You could apply the same logic to a concert, football match or the local pub.

"How can we tell if anyone else watching the match is a swinger?" If the answer "we just ask 'are you on Fab' feels awkward or inappropriate in that context (and unless you're getting strong hints then it probably is) then it's not really any different at a nudist venue. "

Interesting but not quite the same, naturism and nudism are not directly connected to sexual activity, however there is a higher percentage of cross over than in the general community, and yes if you have your fabdar up you can find like minded others anywhere - its just easier where the odds are more balanced. xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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20 weeks ago

East Sussex

enable 'who's near' on your phone.

Other than that I know of no way to ask if someone is a swinger without the potential to cause offence.

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By *rtist with muse OP   Couple
20 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"enable 'who's near' on your phone.

Other than that I know of no way to ask if someone is a swinger without the potential to cause offence.

Top tip - we have done that at beach but never thought to do it at nudist club DOH!

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By *olfandtazCouple
20 weeks ago

Bristol

We have recently came back from a holiday where we saw a woman with an upside down pineapple tattoo... that's a good way to spot a swinger

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
20 weeks ago

Scarborogh

I have a very distinctive pineapple 🍍 bucket hat. We look on who’s near and if we get chatting and they wish to come over to find us I say look for the above hat and sit up.

Had some great chats and met some fantastic friends😉

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By *rtist with muse OP   Couple
20 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"We have recently came back from a holiday where we saw a woman with an upside down pineapple tattoo... that's a good way to spot a swinger "

Any other "flags" - by the way you guys look deeeelicious xx

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By *earmegrowlMan
20 weeks ago

wolves

It's an old one but anklet chain sometimes is a sign, and u tend to notice the more of an exhibitionist feel with some that leads to more risky chats at camps and beaches

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
20 weeks ago

London

This might sound a bit silly but in our experience it can become quite obvious within a 15 minute conversation or so if they're interested in you

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By *osh bitch n hornyCouple
20 weeks ago

Warrington

On our recent naturist holiday there was one one couple that was nearby but they were not for us. K had he HW anklet on all the time and didn’t get any comments

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By *rtist with muse OP   Couple
20 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"This might sound a bit silly but in our experience it can become quite obvious within a 15 minute conversation or so if they're interested in you "

This has been our rule of thumb too, but just interested in other perspectives x

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I would love to do a bit of naturism

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By *r decoratorMan
20 weeks ago

Bournemouth


"Hiya All, We are nudist, kink swingers but when at regular nudist clubs and events its not easy to pick out those who are fellow naked travellers so to speak unless you have met elsewhere.

How do you spot each other when naked with causing offence, we often drop into conversation if it feels right; "you guys on Fab?" - how do others do it?"

I think we need to introduce a new way we can spot a swinger. Maybe two round circles on thumbs or something similar when looking

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By *afe and shavenCouple
20 weeks ago

Ipswich


"Hiya All, We are nudist, kink swingers but when at regular nudist clubs and events its not easy to pick out those who are fellow naked travellers so to speak unless you have met elsewhere.

How do you spot each other when naked with causing offence, we often drop into conversation if it feels right; "you guys on Fab?" - how do others do it?"

We're keen naturists and we quite understand. It can be difficult at naturist venues when swinging is frowned upon. We tend to have a lengthy chat and usually we know whether they are or not or we include a couple of gentle hints. Communication is the key and usually you'll find out.

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
20 weeks ago

coventry

general conversation usually brings out enoughhints. if you talk about where they / you go it can become obvious if they attend strictly naturist clubs or also attend ones where swinging is acceptable. take it from there

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By *luecarpyMan
20 weeks ago

rowtown

Used to have a lovely garden to sun bathe naked since I’ve moved it’s overlooked from so many positions don’t really get the chance now I need to borrow someone’s garden lol

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By *achelnMarkCouple
20 weeks ago

Mid Wiltshire

Who is near.

"Like your hat, its fab" with a glint lol

Where else have you been? Cap d'agde?

Stand up and twirl your cock around, see if they smile or run

etc

Or like us, wait till they've gone and say "they were cute, bet they were swingers, should've have asked, damnit".

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By *heelerMan
20 weeks ago

Northants


"enable 'who's near' on your phone.

Other than that I know of no way to ask if someone is a swinger without the potential to cause offence.

"

It'd be great when a swinger was near a sound notification rang on your phone.

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By *ocksareoffMan
20 weeks ago

Out n About

Suck on a fab lolly or place a pineapple upside down next to you?

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
20 weeks ago

Norwich

Like in other potential fabbers meeting places, just say it's a fab day and see if you get indication

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By *heelerMan
20 weeks ago

Northants


"Suck on a fab lolly or place a pineapple upside down next to you? "

Not all swingers are on fab

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By *enuinebiMan
20 weeks ago

Wellingborough

I've never been good at picking up on hints or signs but my wife seems to know in an instant by conversation or glances.

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By *rpeggioCouple
20 weeks ago

Baughurst


"This might sound a bit silly but in our experience it can become quite obvious within a 15 minute conversation or so if they're interested in you "

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Not silly at all.

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By *rpeggioCouple
20 weeks ago

Baughurst

Even if a couple had a neon sign saying they are swingers or on Fab... So what? They may not be into you, they may not be into couples, they may be relaxing that day and not in the mood for hooking up with anyone etc etc. Same as if they were at a club.

If however, you engage in normal social conversation, you can ask where else they go for their naturist/nudist lifestyle, you can flirt a bit by paying them respectful compliments, and after a few minutes you should get the idea if they are or are not into any further things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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20 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I've never been good at picking up on hints or signs but my wife seems to know in an instant by conversation or glances. "

It's the other way round with us. I don't pick up on it until we're walking away and Mr N points it out. I'm oblivious and just think people are friendly. 😶

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By *hipdaleCouple
20 weeks ago

Greenhithe

Pineapple ankle chain

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By *rchitectMan
20 weeks ago

Dorchester

If the guy has an erection it’s a good indicator.

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By *olfandtazCouple
20 weeks ago

Bristol


"We have recently came back from a holiday where we saw a woman with an upside down pineapple tattoo... that's a good way to spot a swinger

Any other "flags" - by the way you guys look deeeelicious xx"

There was another tattoo which said

"Submissive" and "punish me"

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By *oomerangbobMan
20 weeks ago

stanhope

A stem of Pampas grass behind your right ear perhaps

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
20 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Would they be in the nuddy?

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By *izandpaulCouple
20 weeks ago

merseyside

We tend to ask what other places they visit.

Their reply is usually a give away, if not we say we enjoy Cap D'Agde and Gran Canaria.

Most people we have met are quite open to their likes and dislikes.

Just because we swing doesn't mean we are not happy spending social time with non swingers.

We don't make a big deal out of it and we use see who's near.

If this site only had see who's near, it's worth the fee just for that.

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