FabSwingers.com forum: Which is a more intimate act?

By *uriousBristolCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Kissing/Snogging or giving/receiving oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snogging whilst giving oral to a third party!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Kissing/Snogging or giving/receiving oral? "

Kissing for me. Others will disagree.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snogging whilst both receiving oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing def

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows thro with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing definitely. All other sex acts don't have to be done face to face, so kissing has a far greater level of familiarity and therefore intimacy.

And nothing turns me on more than a good kisser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows thro with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck

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By *uriousBristolCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows through with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck

Quite shocked as I thought most would say this!! We're obviously very detached special cases.

Obi you're a wrong un

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Definitely kissing mmmmmm if its good it usually leads to more mmmm! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about the kissing, I do enjoy a good smooch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing. It's why I don't do it with many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think giving or recieving oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A joint bank account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing without a doubt

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Deffinate kissing , we don't partake in that intimate act lol , Curiously tho what's difference with a snog or a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd refer to a kiss as simply being lip contact, whereas a full blown snog would be prolonged mouth to mouth with plenty of tongue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing... You can't beat it!!! Hard and fast or slow and sensual or a mixture of both!!! Bliss XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing for sure!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Oral.....I kiss people all the time although not snog so the act of kissing is something that is 'normal' for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing definitely for me

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Kissing for me also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 08/04/13 20:52:02]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A joint bank account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing/Snogging or giving/receiving oral? "

I'd say kissing and Anal although the latter is not in your list.

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Maybe why certain people don't kiss when they swap...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without hesitation for me it's kissing... To look in to someone's eyes as you draw slowly nearer to one another knowing the intesity and passion that is to come blows me away..

It's so underestimated by some....

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Oral for me. Whilst if I find someone attractive I can kiss most people, it takes me really liking someone to consider having their cock in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing by far. Sex is sex and so is cucking but kissing is far more personal.

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

"For me kissing x"

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over a year ago

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Kissing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral!! 100%

I'd never dream of opening my legs for someone to taste me, without them kissing me?! The whole kissing thing I find very bizarre

Seems I'm in a minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, mind me at x-mas to just drop to my knees to thank my nan for the jumper. Not so intimate that way.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I do agree with this....

BUT I really dont kiss the guys I meet from here much.....

So will stick with saying kissing is by far the more intimate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, mind me at x-mas to just drop to my knees to thank my nan for the jumper. Not so intimate that way.

sick!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Might have helped if I had actually read it all....lol

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

I think kissing is more intimate

Mrs

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Kissing, for me.

I could snog the face off Mr X all day every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is perceived as intimacy, but for me, sex without intimacy is completely unfulfilling.

I find it exceptionally difficult to 'perform' without sensual / passionate kissing being part of the meet.

Someone just going down on me for example doesn't do anything for me, but kiss me and run your hands / fingers over my chest and belly and by the time you get a bit further south my undies will be straining

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I do laugh at some people on here.....

Some couples are happy for us to fuck/suck them anyway possible but will state "No Kissing"!!!!

We (or should i say I) avoid them.....

I dont go in for much kissing on meets, esp with couple, but to be told I cant!!!.....

Not for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, mind me at x-mas to just drop to my knees to thank my nan for the jumper. Not so intimate that way.

sick!

Nope, just sarcastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So has things changed so drastically since the days i was dating? I remember when, at the end of the date you escorted the lass home and kissed her goodnight.

I didn't whip my cock out for a goodnight suck!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"So has things changed so drastically since the days i was dating? I remember when, at the end of the date you escorted the lass home and kissed her goodnight.

I didn't whip my cock out for a goodnight suck!"

Oh things have deffo changed since then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So has things changed so drastically since the days i was dating? I remember when, at the end of the date you escorted the lass home and kissed her goodnight.

I didn't whip my cock out for a goodnight suck!

Oh things have deffo changed since then

Woohoo. Now i just need a date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe how many people don't kiss?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't believe how many people don't kiss?!

Although i'd like to think i'm a liberal kind of guy, how anal sex is LESS intimate than kissing, i'll never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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totally agree xxx]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty woman has a lot to answer for. .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing "

Yeah, but its cocks you snog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing/Snogging or giving/receiving oral? "

Kissing/snogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for us. We've snogged up against a DJ booth in a club and got so lost in it we forget where we where. You don't get that from oral. Plus you get the added anticipation and a feel for each others Desire towards ypurself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be kissing/snogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a mixture of all of the above for me as I am quite a Dom woman in meets I find them more of a submissive act and something I only really do with silk.

MissD x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snogging naked without touching each other just one laying on the other while the tension builds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing/snogging !

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By *essex1Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

definitely kissing

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

For me , David, kissing.........soozy says letting someone suck her fluff is pretty intimate for her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing. Done sensually and intimately is such a turn on which leads to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing...by miles. If the kissing is hot, everything else just happens. That is why there is so much poetry and music inspired by kisses.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

"Maybe why certain people don't kiss when they swap..."

That is the reason we didn't kiss when meeting, that has recently changed though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intimate as to be Oral

Wheras

Passion as to be Kissing

both together just mean "Fantabydozy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for us but both are intimate in their own ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing...by miles. If the kissing is hot, everything else just happens. That is why there is so much poetry and music inspired by kisses."

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.

do we think kissing some on a swinging date can be passionate ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.

do we think kissing some on a swinging date can be passionate ?

Well the words swinging and date do not go together and very different thing but no on a meet I do not believe you can kiss passionately or intimately compared to a person you have an emotional and mental connection with.

Lust and love are two very different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nor me

if no kissing is stated on profile then i wont meet as kissing is such a turn on for me

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By *exy-honey n mr honeyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow way

Defo kissing

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By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton

Kissing all the time,we only kiss each other, its that personal to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

giving and receiving oral..ive always had a kiss/snag with someone before it gets to that stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"A joint bank account

As you brought it up Don't you really mean access to his bank account! lol

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Kissing.....as some of you may well know, I view kissing as part of love ie I'd kiss my partner, parents, children, grandchildren, close friends ....all at different intensity and levels of course

....and as Vinnie says "you only kiss your mrs on the lips, right!"

Mrs BB x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great answer! Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A joint bank account

I've reported this to the moderator. This is absolutely going too far...

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.

do we think kissing some on a swinging date can be passionate ?

Lust and love are two very different things.

Interesting, I find that intimacy is more down to one particular organ and thats the brain, how you use it to suit the situation depends on the connection between 2 or more people.

For me the act of kissing takes passionate/erotic/ lustful sex to a whole new level and should always be indulged in by all those taking part, although as far as I'm concerned poor mouth hygiene puts a stop to any form of sex as does dirty nails or BO!

I do prefer a pussy to have natural scent as intimate body sprays and wipes taste awful and those important pheromones are essential!

For me sex without kissing is just mutual masterbation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So has things changed so drastically since the days i was dating? I remember when, at the end of the date you escorted the lass home and kissed her goodnight.

I didn't whip my cock out for a goodnight suck!

Oh things have deffo changed since then

Woohoo. Now i just need a date!

How about the 4th may

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing and having your body caressed slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing definitely with someone you love. .and I would say oral with someone you meet off here ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But anal sex is the most intimate thing imo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol...I'd say both are very intimate, but I think snogging is more personal because of the extremely close eye contact combined with being able to feel the intensity of their passion on one of the most sensitive area's on yer body...the lips and tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely both are intimate but it would depsnd on where you are and who you are doing either of them to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.

do we think kissing some on a swinging date can be passionate ?

Lust and love are two very different things.

Interesting, I find that intimacy is more down to one particular organ and thats the brain, how you use it to suit the situation depends on the connection between 2 or more people.

I do prefer a pussy to have natural scent as intimate body sprays and wipes taste awful and those important pheromones are essential!

For me sex without kissing is just mutual masterbation.."

Good post big man...with you nearly all the way on this one.

Connections of the mind has resulted in me having some of the best sex and friends i've ever had in my life, but i think love and lust are the same, just with varying levels of mental connection!

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

"Kissing...by miles. If the kissing is hot, everything else just happens. That is why there is so much poetry and music inspired by kisses.

Couldn't agree more

Can't recall any poems about oral or anal sex - bound to be some though, probably on a toilet wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for sure ..

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By *ounggun432Man
over a year ago

east mids

love a good snog

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By *oebloggsagainMan
over a year ago

Near Ballymena

yeh kissing is good , but for me its that moment when she is about to orgasm and time sorta stands still for a second or two as you look into each others eyes.

Its like the soul is layed bare.For that split second there is a unique connection.

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