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By *urious n OP   Couple
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

We as a couple try to always reply to messages, however, it really bugs us that a selected few do not want to hear a polite no thankyou, it then carries on by the person asking, " can i ask why?" Or a " wowwwwww! Some get really quite upset, so glad there is a block button! Moan over

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By *asstabMan
47 weeks ago

Manchester

To be fair, I would be happy with your response as most people won’t even do that.

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By *eyeYCouple
47 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"We as a couple try to always reply to messages, however, it really bugs us that a selected few do not want to hear a polite no thankyou, it then carries on by the person asking, " can i ask why?" Or a " wowwwwww! Some get really quite upset, so glad there is a block button! Moan over "

Yup!! We have not experienced the passive, aggressive follow up messages as honestly we now block any we're not interested in to save both parties the time..

Our current bugbear is guy's insisting they've got a partner and couples who's wife seems 'missing' conversation starts well till the red flags appear and funnily enough when asked they tend to go quiet 🤷😁 Just tedious!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
47 weeks ago

Leeds

I used to send a polite no thank you, now I don't.

Many don't take well to the no thank you and proceed to try and explain why they should get the sex or just turn nasty.

Mrs

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By *vaRoseWoman
47 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Unless it’s a really lovely message I’ve stopped sending a polite decline. It’s only ever led to getting abusive messages back

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By *ShyButNotShyCouple
47 weeks ago

Stoke-on-trent

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

My reply to a " no thank you " is a have fun xx . No more after. Find it refreshing to receive a reply in this world of , I don't need to .

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By *ShyButNotShyCouple
47 weeks ago

Stoke-on-trent

Yup!! We have not experienced the passive, aggressive follow up messages as honestly we now block any we're not interested in to save both parties the time..

Our current bugbear is guy's insisting they've got a partner and couples who's wife seems 'missing' conversation starts well till the red flags appear and funnily enough when asked they tend to go quiet 🤷😁 Just tedious!"

I agree. So many fake profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Unless it’s a really lovely message I’ve stopped sending a polite decline. It’s only ever led to getting abusive messages back"

Unfortunately the detritus on here (as usual) spoil it for the genuine guys. Getting a reply is rare enough.

I appreciate how many messages ladies and couples must get, so if I do get a ‘no thank you’ of any form, I’ll always acknowledge that with a brief ‘thanks for replying’ and move on.

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By *urious n OP   Couple
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

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