FabSwingers.com forum: Unsolicited friend requests

By *endalshaggers OP Couple
28 weeks ago

Lake District

Anything more annoying?

No wink, no message, sometimes not even sure if they've viewed your profile (maybe in stealth mode) and whack, here you go, we want to be friends.

Er....no?!

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By *9naughtyfun69Couple
28 weeks ago

torbay

Get that alot on here

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
28 weeks ago

Wolvo

Yes annoying but ignore them they can’t send another for 30 days. Block repeat offenders. X

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

We get this a lot, I’m sure it’s just picture collecting but very annoying.

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By *ilverSwordMan
28 weeks ago

Belfast-ish

I always accept when they go offline. Have a snoop then remove lol. Or forget to remove if iv had a cheeky wank to their pics

Its so weird. Like if they wanna see the friends only pics just ask. I'd rather the actual question than the random request

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By *r SproutMan
28 weeks ago

the middle

I’d like to say this happens all the time, but it doesn’t. I can’t understand why

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
28 weeks ago

Leicester

It happens all the time to us but we just ignore them - as someone else said if you don't delete it,they are stopped from sending another one

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By *emptusboth777Couple
28 weeks ago

oxford

Happens far too often

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Why are you even bothering to look at friends request? Just ignore them the same goes for winks.

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By *aizyWoman
28 weeks ago

west midlands

I just bulk delete them without even looking at them.

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By *ccasional_LoversCouple
28 weeks ago

Peterborough

We delete and block.

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By *avexxMan
28 weeks ago

cheshire

the crazy world of fab

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By *ony MannMan
28 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

"Why are you even bothering to look at friends request? Just ignore them the same goes for winks.

I have got a few, but I do not except unless I have met or may plan to meet.

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By *endalshaggers OP Couple
28 weeks ago

Lake District

"Why are you even bothering to look at friends request? Just ignore them the same goes for winks.

Some of us do look at both.... you do you 🤷

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
28 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I block anyone who sends unsolicited friends requests, I state this on my profile so it just proves people haven't read it

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Why are you even bothering to look at friends request? Just ignore them the same goes for winks.

Some of us do look at both.... you do you 🤷"

No I don't unless I bulk delete them at the end of the week.

If I want to be friends with anyone I send an invite after talking.

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By *ucka39Man
27 weeks ago

Newcastle

The trick is wait until they've gone offline then add them and unfriend them 😂🤣 or block them

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By *eekingfwbWoman
27 weeks ago

kent

"The trick is wait until they've gone offline then add them and unfriend them 😂🤣 or block them "

👌👌this especially if I notice they have been looking at my profile for ages and aren’t brave enough to come say hi!

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By *ealitybitesMan
27 weeks ago

Belfast

I used to get a couple of these every week mostly from women competing in hotpics as they were battling to keep their numbers up. I ignored them all.

I rarely look at friend requests and if I do some of them have been there for up to 6 months.

I don't accept any from people I've never spoken to.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
27 weeks ago

oxford

We got rid of friends only photos and it’s got a lot less since

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
27 weeks ago

Gloucester

As soon as we get a friend request without a wink or message we know they clearly haven’t bothered to read even the first lines of our profile so we block.

Kink (mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Get that alot on here "

Ohhh that BUM

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
27 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

All get sent to blockville

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
27 weeks ago

Birmingham

We instantly block them without even viewing thier profile as they didn't bother to read ours 🤣🤣

So they only want to see friends only photos.

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By *xkritTV/TS
27 weeks ago

High Wycombe (ish)

I generally 'wink' as a "hello, not sure I fully match what you're looking for" but....

.... The friend button is just below wink. So especially if you browse fab on a tablet you can occasionally hit the wrong button. So I have, inadvertently, sent random friend requests.

So whilst a lot of these you go they're looking for pictures, so evare genuine mistakes!!

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By *oxy jWoman
27 weeks ago

somerset

they want access to you private pics mainly i just block and delete ...

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
27 weeks ago

Portstewart

They just want to see your friends only pics unfortunately everyone gets unwanted friend requests just ignore them and they can't resend it again

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By *ralextacyMan
27 weeks ago

Cardiff

Never send an unsolicited friend request. Profiles have privacy for a reason!

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By *dventuresofLandSCouple
27 weeks ago

Lincoln

Not a fan at all.

Sometimes when declined we get a message which says "Sorry just wanted to see your Friends only pics"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
27 weeks ago

Leeds

The Mr blocks the unsolicited friends, sometimes if I'm curious I'll wait until their offline accept, nosey at the pics then remove as friends.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
27 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"The trick is wait until they've gone offline then add them and unfriend them 😂🤣 or block them "

I do this and if I'm feeling sassy I fab a friend's pic so they know

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By *RcoupleCouple
27 weeks ago

Manchester

They do no harm, we just ignore them if we’re not interested

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By *andb13Couple
27 weeks ago

Bradford

Seems the men that do those ruin it for other genuine guys.

Personally I think there should be a hard and fast rule of you atleast have to have messaged and had a reply to be able to even request a friends invite.

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
27 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

"The trick is wait until they've gone offline then add them and unfriend them 😂🤣 or block them

I do this and if I'm feeling sassy I fab a friend's pic so they know

What does add and unfriend do??

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By *issmorganWoman
27 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"The trick is wait until they've gone offline then add them and unfriend them 😂🤣 or block them

I do this and if I'm feeling sassy I fab a friend's pic so they know

What does add and unfriend do??"

You accept so you can see their pics, then unfriend afterwards.

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
27 weeks ago

RCT/South Wales

It is really annoying, people only do it to see your friends pictures. My request list is huge, I ignore them so they can't resend 🙂

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By *asycouple1971Couple
27 weeks ago

midlands

We never accept.

Either ignore, decline, decline and block or just block.

It's rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

It’s rude at least msg and talk 1st and if not interested politely say no thanks

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By *cunnylassCouple
27 weeks ago

Exeter

We just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"We just block them."
best thing to do x

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