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It was my thoughts on the 'hot husband' bit.. | |||
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What a delightfully, erotic and sensual profile
Stunning - the pair of you 💋
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"Hypothetically, a recent chat regards playing separately, he said "unsure I'd be of interest to many" Told him he was being ridiculous, a hot guy, verified as such and without the potential risks we feel that surrounds meeting single guy's.. He'd be very popular.. So who is right? "And to answer your question - he would be extremely popular in my eyes
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"Hypothetically, a recent chat regards playing separately, he said "unsure I'd be of interest to many" Told him he was being ridiculous, a hot guy, verified as such and without the potential risks we feel that surrounds meeting single guy's.. He'd be very popular.. So who is right?
And to answer your question - he would be extremely popular in my eyes
S xxx"A fantastic response from a hot couple he's already added to our 🔥 list I know see! Only not sure I'd just lend him.. I'd want to go too 😈😁 | |||
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"We are starting to look at hot husbands as single guys aren’t being reliable now. There’s definitely a market for them. We enjoy overnight meets so it’s not a rushed couple of hours, so maybe that’s where hot husbands wouldn’t work for us. K" I wouldn't necessarily enforce a time limit.. Just he returns.. 😉😁 | |||
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"I see threads on here every now and again from gorgeous, horny women asking where all the hot husbands are. Next time, offer D up. With a big neon sign saying ‘HOT HUSBAND HERE COME GET HIM’. What? It might work!" Searching NOW!! I'll get on with the sign.. 😜😂 | |||
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"Hypothetically, a recent chat regards playing separately, he said "unsure I'd be of interest to many" Told him he was being ridiculous, a hot guy, verified as such and without the potential risks we feel that surrounds meeting single guy's.. He'd be very popular.. So who is right?
And to answer your question - he would be extremely popular in my eyes
S xxx
A fantastic response from a hot couple he's already added to our 🔥 list I know see!
Only not sure I'd just lend him.. I'd want to go too 😈😁"Whoop whoop we're on your hotlist 🥳🎉🥳🎉🥳 You guys are firmly on ours too
Haha we'd most definitely want you to come along too
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"I've friends where the hot husband enjoys a night away or two, and has the verifications to support and differentiate the couples meets. As others have hinted, a hot husband with a pass is a more reliable potential meet. Maybe if he has a few independent meetings he organises (I'd suggest a club to start off), the verifications will do the trick." We've 80 odd veri's and he's mentioned in everyone.. Would that not suffice? 🤷👍 | |||
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"We are starting to look at hot husbands as single guys aren’t being reliable now. There’s definitely a market for them. We enjoy overnight meets so it’s not a rushed couple of hours, so maybe that’s where hot husbands wouldn’t work for us. K I wouldn't necessarily enforce a time limit.. Just he returns.. 😉😁" Well that’s good to know 😉 Ideally we’d actually love to meet a couple where we meet the husband one week and then the wife the next 😛 I would say he’d be better having his own account and linking it to your couples one so people can refer to that one too. K | |||
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"We are starting to look at hot husbands as single guys aren’t being reliable now. There’s definitely a market for them. We enjoy overnight meets so it’s not a rushed couple of hours, so maybe that’s where hot husbands wouldn’t work for us. K" Yeah that's what I'd be looking for. Overnight and send him on his way the next morning, with a smile on both faces. | |||
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"Great thread and we have often talked about the hot husband type of meet. Hapoy to loan out Mike as long as I get him back "Thank you! Hot husbands do seem to play second fiddle a touch 😉 | |||
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"Great thread and we have often talked about the hot husband type of meet. Hapoy to loan out Mike as long as I get him back
Thank you! Hot husbands do seem to play second fiddle a touch 😉
"Indeed, and you have a very hot hubby too. | |||
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"I've friends where the hot husband enjoys a night away or two, and has the verifications to support and differentiate the couples meets. As others have hinted, a hot husband with a pass is a more reliable potential meet. Maybe if he has a few independent meetings he organises (I'd suggest a club to start off), the verifications will do the trick. We've 80 odd veri's and he's mentioned in everyone.. Would that not suffice? 🤷👍" Clearly Mr is mentioned in your meetings... But the emphasis for those excellent meetings might be different. You're moving from playing as a couple for him to play as a hot husband. As I said, my Welsh friends have done very well with this transition and I'm sure you could also be successful in this. Might also be worth for Mr to have a hot hubby profile to reflect this dynamic for his solo meets. | |||
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"A hothusband definitely appeals especially as you know that no one is going behind someone's back. Me offering out B earned me a very special nickname. 🫣😆😘 J" You can't leave it there. Please do share!! 😉😁 | |||
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"A hothusband definitely appeals especially as you know that no one is going behind someone's back. Me offering out B earned me a very special nickname. 🫣😆😘 J You can't leave it there. Please do share!! 😉😁" Meli christened me Pimpo 🤣 J | |||
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"A hothusband definitely appeals especially as you know that no one is going behind someone's back. Me offering out B earned me a very special nickname. 🫣😆😘 J You can't leave it there. Please do share!! 😉😁 Meli christened me Pimpo 🤣 J" Kinda guessed.. 😉😂👍 | |||
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"I've friends where the hot husband enjoys a night away or two, and has the verifications to support and differentiate the couples meets. As others have hinted, a hot husband with a pass is a more reliable potential meet. Maybe if he has a few independent meetings he organises (I'd suggest a club to start off), the verifications will do the trick. We've 80 odd veri's and he's mentioned in everyone.. Would that not suffice? 🤷👍 Clearly Mr is mentioned in your meetings... But the emphasis for those excellent meetings might be different. You're moving from playing as a couple for him to play as a hot husband. As I said, my Welsh friends have done very well with this transition and I'm sure you could also be successful in this. Might also be worth for Mr to have a hot hubby profile to reflect this dynamic for his solo meets." Fair 👍 | |||
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"That was my concern when we decided to try solo ENM. So whilst meets are infrequent, there are couples and single women that prefer to "borrow" an ethical hubby. W" Utterly! They couldn't find a more gentlemanly deviant.. But of course I'm biased x | |||
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"Looks pretty cool in a wetsuit " Even better out of it! 😈🔥 | |||
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"That was my concern when we decided to try solo ENM. So whilst meets are infrequent, there are couples and single women that prefer to "borrow" an ethical hubby. W Utterly! They couldn't find a more gentlemanly deviant.. But of course I'm biased x" Haha! Your profile exudes class, beautiful couple | |||
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"That was my concern when we decided to try solo ENM. So whilst meets are infrequent, there are couples and single women that prefer to "borrow" an ethical hubby. W Utterly! They couldn't find a more gentlemanly deviant.. But of course I'm biased x Haha! Your profile exudes class, beautiful couple" Thank you! 😘 | |||
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"The only issue I've found is when the Mrs really isn't in to it despite saying she is numerous times... and wants to control/dictate exactly how it goes and blows hot and cold with it. Very mixed messages. If you're a couple where the Mrs genuinely gets pleasure from it and won't be a headfuck? Yep, he'd be popular." Have to agree here. Reasons like this are why I stopped meeting couples. He's attractive from what I can see but it isn't just about how he looks it's the whole dynamic between you, the rules that you are going to impose as a couple and how much control you would want. A lot of couples make their rules forgetting that the other person isn't just there for their pleasure and can have their own rules too. | |||
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"The only issue I've found is when the Mrs really isn't in to it despite saying she is numerous times... and wants to control/dictate exactly how it goes and blows hot and cold with it. Very mixed messages. If you're a couple where the Mrs genuinely gets pleasure from it and won't be a headfuck? Yep, he'd be popular. Have to agree here. Reasons like this are why I stopped meeting couples. He's attractive from what I can see but it isn't just about how he looks it's the whole dynamic between you, the rules that you are going to impose as a couple and how much control you would want. A lot of couples make their rules forgetting that the other person isn't just there for their pleasure and can have their own rules too. " Totally not us and have had bare faced liers, initiating play with me and trying to exclude him.. Trust me D is not all about looks, he's the most engaging, enigmatic and humourous gentleman I have ever met. Yes I'm biased and why I want him to enjoy himself. Too many time's have I witnessed a guy pull his partner away as she's displaying every signal of wanting to get closer with him. So with all due respect, please don't assume we're 'that couple' we've experienced them.. | |||
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"I think being realistic your husband is right certainly in relation to a couple, his chances fall exponentially operating as a single male" Not what I want him to hear, but valid! He was a single guy before we met, hence we're here.. So I guess it'd be no surprise for him 😕 | |||
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"Screams single male pretending to be a couple when people as us this. " With absolutely no judgement, really intrigued how you came to that conclusion.. 🤔 | |||
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"Hypothetically, a recent chat regards playing separately, he said "unsure I'd be of interest to many" Told him he was being ridiculous, a hot guy, verified as such and without the potential risks we feel that surrounds meeting single guy's.. He'd be very popular.. So who is right? "He would be of interest to us  | |||
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"Hypothetically, a recent chat regards playing separately, he said "unsure I'd be of interest to many" Told him he was being ridiculous, a hot guy, verified as such and without the potential risks we feel that surrounds meeting single guy's.. He'd be very popular.. So who is right? "There are probably more risks with meeting an attached guy. What people don't see on Fab is the drama that goes on with couples, we've known many couples that have had it with some splitting up. That seems to be the reason most women would rather meet a genuinely single guy. | |||
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"Screams single male pretending to be a couple when people as us this. With absolutely no judgement, really intrigued how you came to that conclusion.. 🤔" Because it's so easy for couples accounts to be created by a single male and they think they'll get an easy shag from it. | |||
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"A club night with a couple. She was taking us both in her mouth. Lots of kissing. I bent him over between her open legs and kept eye contact with her whilst I took him. When finished, I rolled him out the way to taste her. Round 2 was with her. We carried on and stayed in the private room for a couple of hours. I have no idea what their names are " 😂😆 | |||
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"Hypothetically, a recent chat regards playing separately, he said "unsure I'd be of interest to many" Told him he was being ridiculous, a hot guy, verified as such and without the potential risks we feel that surrounds meeting single guy's.. He'd be very popular.. So who is right?
There are probably more risks with meeting an attached guy. What people don't see on Fab is the drama that goes on with couples, we've known many couples that have had it with some splitting up. That seems to be the reason most women would rather meet a genuinely single guy."A fair point, we've witnessed first hand in club's 😲 | |||
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"Screams single male pretending to be a couple when people as us this. With absolutely no judgement, really intrigued how you came to that conclusion.. 🤔 Because it's so easy for couples accounts to be created by a single male and they think they'll get an easy shag from it. " Yes, we've had a glut of those recently 🤷 | |||
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"Hypothetically, a recent chat regards playing separately, he said "unsure I'd be of interest to many" Told him he was being ridiculous, a hot guy, verified as such and without the potential risks we feel that surrounds meeting single guy's.. He'd be very popular.. Yes of course (Mrs) So who is right? " | |||
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"The only issue I've found is when the Mrs really isn't in to it despite saying she is numerous times... and wants to control/dictate exactly how it goes and blows hot and cold with it. Very mixed messages. If you're a couple where the Mrs genuinely gets pleasure from it and won't be a headfuck? Yep, he'd be popular." This is a very relevant point. No one wants complications, awkwardness and/or bad vibes. Especially as a single woman it can be tightrope with attached guys on the scene. Because sometimes as said words and vibes are different. Also no one wants to overstep the boundary or the boundaries are too many or too limiting. And of course there can be a fear over overstepping a boundary that the guy said was OK but wasn't with the Mrs. It can just all seem a bit prone to drama. And many have first hand experience of this and are naturally wary. It really is a different dynamic for a male. I think this is why it's important for Mrs to be very much involved. Clear communication and involvement to give everyone that warm fuzzy feeling she is totally cool and check that everone has agreed boundaries and they are understood. Then it should all be fun. Of course for some this process adds an extra layer of complication that you don't get with single guys. | |||
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"Screams single male pretending to be a couple when people as us this. With absolutely no judgement, really intrigued how you came to that conclusion.. 🤔 Because it's so easy for couples accounts to be created by a single male and they think they'll get an easy shag from it. " Errr, are you suggesting we are not a couple? 🤔 | |||
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"In a couple it's a very different experience going lone for a male V's female. All the privileges a male gets when he couples up pretty much go out of the window when thrown lone into the pool. Forget the male/female ratios for now. And yes let's say Mr is attractive and great material (which seems safe to say is true). I think you still have a predominant disadvantage on the scene. That is a lot of women just aren't too intrested in attached lone men even with permission deep down. I think many see the possibility of complications (which can be quite credible as a concern especially for those who have experienced this). Or they just don't like the feeling you belonging to someone else. Or there's just something deep down they don't like about it. I would go as far as saying a lot of women/couples prefer the easiness of cheating men over attached with permission. Obviously that is a generalisation. For some the very notion of borrowing another woman's man hot. But I think that's not the majority. So sadly it can still be difficult if not harder even as a good catch. However quality guys always do ok. Obviously this is great advertising for Mr (but I assume that's the plan ).
Best of luck finding him the solo adventures you desire."A few very indepth post's, your thoughts are those he's fully aware of. As the initial post said but minus fact he fact he was a single guy within the LS before we met. There's a few assumptions regards my intention on the post, which are incorrect, he has no single profile and no intention to make one. It was merely he's had a hard time recently and I wanted to make him smile with hopefully a mostly positive reaction. No one posting has been pm'd, only those who have messaged directly have been contacted with thanks. Many threads are attention seeking bait. This one was not. | |||
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"In a couple it's a very different experience going lone for a male V's female. All the privileges a male gets when he couples up pretty much go out of the window when thrown lone into the pool. Forget the male/female ratios for now. And yes let's say Mr is attractive and great material (which seems safe to say is true). I think you still have a predominant disadvantage on the scene. That is a lot of women just aren't too intrested in attached lone men even with permission deep down. I think many see the possibility of complications (which can be quite credible as a concern especially for those who have experienced this). Or they just don't like the feeling you belonging to someone else. Or there's just something deep down they don't like about it. I would go as far as saying a lot of women/couples prefer the easiness of cheating men over attached with permission. Obviously that is a generalisation. For some the very notion of borrowing another woman's man hot. But I think that's not the majority. So sadly it can still be difficult if not harder even as a good catch. However quality guys always do ok. Obviously this is great advertising for Mr (but I assume that's the plan ).
Best of luck finding him the solo adventures you desire.
A few very indepth post's, your thoughts are those he's fully aware of. As the initial post said but minus fact he fact he was a single guy within the LS before we met.
There's a few assumptions regards my intention on the post, which are incorrect, he has no single profile and no intention to make one. It was merely he's had a hard time recently and I wanted to make him smile with hopefully a mostly positive reaction.
No one posting has been pm'd, only those who have messaged directly have been contacted with thanks.
Many threads are attention seeking bait.
This one was not."Well put  😘✨️
I see the true honesty of your post and think it's such a lovely thing to do for your man ❤️
D is gorgeous, you're a very lucky lady as he's a lucky man
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"In a couple it's a very different experience going lone for a male V's female. All the privileges a male gets when he couples up pretty much go out of the window when thrown lone into the pool. Forget the male/female ratios for now. And yes let's say Mr is attractive and great material (which seems safe to say is true). I think you still have a predominant disadvantage on the scene. That is a lot of women just aren't too intrested in attached lone men even with permission deep down. I think many see the possibility of complications (which can be quite credible as a concern especially for those who have experienced this). Or they just don't like the feeling you belonging to someone else. Or there's just something deep down they don't like about it. I would go as far as saying a lot of women/couples prefer the easiness of cheating men over attached with permission. Obviously that is a generalisation. For some the very notion of borrowing another woman's man hot. But I think that's not the majority. So sadly it can still be difficult if not harder even as a good catch. However quality guys always do ok. Obviously this is great advertising for Mr (but I assume that's the plan ).
Best of luck finding him the solo adventures you desire.
A few very indepth post's, your thoughts are those he's fully aware of. As the initial post said but minus fact he fact he was a single guy within the LS before we met.
There's a few assumptions regards my intention on the post, which are incorrect, he has no single profile and no intention to make one. It was merely he's had a hard time recently and I wanted to make him smile with hopefully a mostly positive reaction.
No one posting has been pm'd, only those who have messaged directly have been contacted with thanks.
Many threads are attention seeking bait.
This one was not."That's cleared up the intent. A light hearted hypothetical thread in honour of your man. Sorry, I misjudged the vibe as a more serious conversation. It's really nice to see the male half get some positive attention on here. We tend not to have much focus put on us (unless it's negative) and/or we can seem a little bit invisible (although sometimes that is partly down to the bio wording and photo selection of a couples profile). Yet good men single or attached are vital to the success of the scene and making awesome memories happen. So it's just nice to see a thread where the male is shown off with pride and value. I know there are lots of great guys on here. I know many have proud women behind them but guys tend to not get the same attention or positive visibility. It's really nice to see as a guy. | |||
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".It's really nice to see the male half get some positive attention on here. We tend not to have much focus put on us (unless it's negative) and/or we can seem a little bit invisible (although sometimes that is partly down to the bio wording and photo selection of a couples profile). Yet good men single or attached are vital to the success of the scene and making awesome memories happen. So it's just nice to see a thread where the male is shown off with pride and value. I know there are lots of great guys on here. I know many have proud women behind them but guys tend to not get the same attention or positive visibility. It's really nice to see as a guy." Exactly, no need to apologise, you said nothing to take offense at. 👍 | |||
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