FabSwingers.com forum: Arrogant profiles

By *ndianchocolate OP Man
28 weeks ago

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How many do you come across when you ask politely about something, which doesn’t mention anything they are not open to a message on their profile and then get blocked.

Wonder why that’s the case

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By *woWayWorshipMan
28 weeks ago

Angus

I'd say arrogance is more believing that you're entitled to a response or that someone else doesn't have the right to block you for any reason or no reason at all

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By *ndianchocolate OP Man
28 weeks ago

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When you are polite and you get a reply saying “yep bro” and then get blocked.

Granted people get 100s of messages a day but if they don’t want them from single males… there is an option for that not to happen.

But also goes back to my point that as they hold the cards they can pick and choose (and quite rightly) but are we at a stage where you have to be rude when the initial message wasn’t being derogatory or rude.

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By *woWayWorshipMan
28 weeks ago

Angus

Sounds like you got an answer to your question though. I wouldn't get too wound up over whether a stranger has been rude to you or not

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By *ndianchocolate OP Man
28 weeks ago

Pinner

That’s fair. There was another thread on this forum about being blocked for no reason and was just wondering if these experiences are encountered by other people also, assuming more single males than couples

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By *MCMan
28 weeks ago

London/EA

Don’t take it personally, just forget about it and move on.

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By *4bimMan
28 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"Don’t take it personally, just forget about it and move on."

This.

People get irritated by such little things that have no impact on your life whatsoever.

Dump it, forget move on

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
28 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Hey OP

No one owes you a response, no matter how 'nice' you feel your message may be.

Being blocked in itself is a response that you are not what they are looking for.

It's not arrogant, it's just choices.

I know it may sting a little but honestly just accept and move on like the majority of us do

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By *issmorganWoman
28 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

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By *aizyWoman
28 weeks ago

west midlands

"When you are polite and you get a reply saying “yep bro” and then get blocked.

Granted people get 100s of messages a day but if they don’t want them from single males… there is an option for that not to happen.

I'd say on here you're on a winner, you got a reply before the blocking, most people just get a straight blocking, silver linings OP!

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By *issmorganWoman
28 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Sorry my sausage fingers deleted that. What type of messages get you blocked up?

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
28 weeks ago

Birmingham

So you asked a question and they blocked you?

So, you weren't for them and they blocked you. It's easier to block than to go into exchanging messages explaining why you're not for them.

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By *ilentrunningMan
28 weeks ago

Cardiff/Reading/Liverpool &more

It’s when you send a face pic and then they block you, that’s the kicker lol.

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By *ndianchocolate OP Man
28 weeks ago

Pinner

Seems like there’s no arrogant people on fab and everyone is nice to everyone.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
28 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"Seems like there’s no arrogant people on fab and everyone is nice to everyone.

There you go......bingo

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By *issmorganWoman
28 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Seems like there’s no arrogant people on fab and everyone is nice to everyone.

Of course there are arrogant people, but some ask intrusive questions too and I have blocked because of that. That's why I asked you what questions you ask so I can see.

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
28 weeks ago

Chislehurst

"It’s when you send a face pic and then they block you, that’s the kicker lol."

Lol I’d never send a face pic unless they’ve sent it first for this reason exactly

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By *naswingdressWoman
28 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

A block on Fab is "I don't want to talk to you"

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

It is not arrogance. The truth is, we get loads of messages. Some are vulgar, some just one or two words, others just not bothered to read our profile and are either the other side of the country, or completely not what we are looking for. After that there are all the unsolicited friend requests.

People ignore you because you are not what they are looking for and they really don’t have the will to “thanks but no thanks” to everyone. Single guys seem to think it’s easy for couples, but it is not easy at all, we struggle to find the guys we are looking for.

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By *luefire2Couple
28 weeks ago

just somewhere around here

"Hey OP

No one owes you a response, no matter how 'nice' you feel your message may be.

Being blocked in itself is a response that you are not what they are looking for.

It's not arrogant, it's just choices.

I know it may sting a little but honestly just accept and move on like the majority of us do

Exactly this! No one owes anyone anything on here. We block people without replying if they are not what we want. We aren't arrogant, just choosy lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"That’s fair. There was another thread on this forum about being blocked for no reason and was just wondering if these experiences are encountered by other people also, assuming more single males than couples "

There will be always be a reason for blocking and that's because, for whatever the reason, the recipient isn't interested in engaging further.

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
28 weeks ago

North West

"Hey OP

No one owes you a response, no matter how 'nice' you feel your message may be.

Being blocked in itself is a response that you are not what they are looking for.

It's not arrogant, it's just choices.

I know it may sting a little but honestly just accept and move on like the majority of us do

Bang on

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
28 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Wait.

Why is it arrogant to filter out the people you decide aren't for you?

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By *andPextraCouple
28 weeks ago

North West

"It is not arrogance. The truth is, we get loads of messages. Some are vulgar, some just one or two words, others just not bothered to read our profile and are either the other side of the country, or completely not what we are looking for. After that there are all the unsolicited friend requests.

This pretty much sums it up.

Whilst we aren't looking for single guys (replace with girls or couples) it is still accurate in our experience

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