FabSwingers.com forum: I didn’t think it would be so difficult

By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

I can’t believe how difficult it has been to find a single/solo lady to join us for some MFF fun.

We are decent, discreet and friendly, almost every lady tries to introduce their other half after chatting, rather than being upfront about their situation.

Or it’s a guy pretending to be a girl and chancing his luck.

Are we alone here or is it really difficult to find someone who wants to play with a couple?

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By *ubikslongswordMan
22 weeks ago

Rubiksville

Unfortunately people call them unicorns for a reason, they're rare and on top of that when you do find a lady you like she has to like both of you which makes things harder.

Good luck

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
22 weeks ago

Somewhere

It's difficult... Add to that your own difficult dynamic, and it'll be doubly difficult. Good luck though ☺️

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

I think you might find it more difficult because you're both in relationships with others.

Are clubs a big no no for you?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
22 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I am in a couple but I do enjoy meeting couples by myself. I appreciate you being honest about your relationship status however it would put me off. I have no interest in meeting someone behind a partner's back.

I also feel your photos are more of others than yourselves.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I’m really confused by your post OPs as you’ve already met with a lady. So it can’t be that difficult 🤷‍♂️

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By *asterMeliodasMan
22 weeks ago

Newmill

"I’m really confused by your post OPs as you’ve already met with a lady. So it can’t be that difficult 🤷‍♂️"

Yes yes, they've met lady

But what about second lady?

[/obscure Lord of the Rings reference]

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
22 weeks ago

Next Door

"I’m really confused by your post OPs as you’ve already met with a lady. So it can’t be that difficult 🤷‍♂️"

I was thinking the same.

Also OP, many may be put off by your relationship. If know I am.

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By *he KakapoMan
22 weeks ago

A nice rock

This isn't a dial a ride sex site, you've only been here 3 months etc.. etc.. basically go look up any single man's it's hard to get a meet thread.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
22 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"I’m really confused by your post OPs as you’ve already met with a lady. So it can’t be that difficult 🤷‍♂️

Yes yes, they've met lady

But what about second lady?

[/obscure Lord of the Rings reference]"

I don't think he knows about second lady.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
22 weeks ago

Newmill

"I’m really confused by your post OPs as you’ve already met with a lady. So it can’t be that difficult 🤷‍♂️

Yes yes, they've met lady

But what about second lady?

[/obscure Lord of the Rings reference]

I don't think he knows about second lady.

See, this is why I like you. :D

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
22 weeks ago

Tamworth

You’ve deselected in an already really small field - two people with unaware partners, no one too active on the scene and your name suggests daytimes only.

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By *anilla switchWoman
22 weeks ago

Hampshire

Clubs and socials are a good way to meet genuine people. Good luck

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
22 weeks ago

Wherever

As much as I appreciate you being upfront about your situation, I hope you can see the irony in your OP.

I was also going to suggest you visit a club but I guess there’s too much risk involved with being spotted and recognised, which makes the whole scenario even more difficult than it already is.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
22 weeks ago

Leeds

I wouldn't meet cheats on my singles profile.

Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"I am in a couple but I do enjoy meeting couples by myself. I appreciate you being honest about your relationship status however it would put me off. I have no interest in meeting someone behind a partner's back.

I also feel your photos are more of others than yourselves.

Thank you for that, it’s really helpful feedback and I appreciate that our circumstances are difficult, and the comment on the photos too.

We are new to fab and learning all the time x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
22 weeks ago

chichester

clubs are the better way to meet people OP tbh on here

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
22 weeks ago

Stoke

We've been here 6 years and only successfully met one single female, we've given up looking!!

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By *issmorganWoman
22 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's hard for any couple to meet bi ladies,because that's what most couples are after on here and they can be choosy.

It will doubly hard for you guys because you're in other relationships away from here.

Many women would prefer to meet a couple who are married to each other or in a long term secure relationship.

As someone else suggested, you could try a club as people have had success meeting ladies there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

Thank you all for the input much appreciated xx

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
22 weeks ago

Sheffield

I’m always miffed when people think it’s easy to find what you’re looking for when it comes to anything sexual related. We all have different wants and needs. Clubs are your best option.

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By *ayo45Man
22 weeks ago

Derby

By far your best bet would be a club, probably a bi night. Northwich Sauna is close (ish) to you. It's a nice venue, it normally operates as a gay sauna but they have a bi-day / evening about once a month. Not tried the bi day so no idea how busy it gets but be prepared for there to be many more couples and single guys than single females. Chameleons at Darlaston, West Mids, would be another good option, again good facilities, bi day every Monday. Not particularly busy any more most of the time but bank holiday Mondays still are.

Best of luck - you'll need it!

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