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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey Swingers,

I have messaged quite a few people on here trying new ways to interact but dont get much luck with responses.

I understand that it can be overwhelming for women and couples on here with the amount of messages they receive however the response rate is still very low.

So to the guys, what usually gets you a response and to the ladies, what gets a response from you?

Thanks for reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no magic formula. Each and every person on here is different and what gets ignored by one could get a response from another.

Read the profile of the people you are messaging and use the information given to build your message. You still may not get a response but at least you have made an effort.

Good luck in your quest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s no magic formula. Each and every person on here is different and what gets ignored by one could get a response from another.

Read the profile of the people you are messaging and use the information given to build your message. You still may not get a response but at least you have made an effort.

Good luck in your quest

Do as the Emminent Sprout says above..

over the Years (and Profiles) I've had, I've tried Both being Polite and straight up rude as hell.. Sometimes You'll get a response and others You won't ..

But good luck Chap

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By *irwanksalot69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hey... you look just like my mum/sister!

That's guaranteed to get a reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a quick Look at your profile and it’s refreshing to see something other than dick pics. Not the greatest pics, but that’s OK, you can see roughly who you are, which is better than 75% of male profiles. Personally I don’t like the jogger bottom look.

Messages. Don’t be vulgar, rude, too nice, dull and boring. A couple of lines that shows you have read the profile. Respect peoples desires and if you don’t fit the bill don’t message. Be selective in who you message.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Honestly the 1st message unless it's a cock pic 🤮 doesn't bother me if I like the profile I'll reply if I don't I won't.

The only ones that put me off are sex talk, faf and a cock pic 🤮

Mrs

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

You'll get a response from those that are attracted to you... Unless they dislike your approach lol... Give it time

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By *asterMeliodasMan
over a year ago

Newmill

My new thing is that I send my initial messages as rhyming couplets. Haven't had any responses to that yet, but it's too early to declare it a failure. :P

The main response I've had so far specifically said she replied to me because I sent an interesting message that showed I'd read her profile and invited further conversation.

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By *irwanksalot69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"My new thing is that I send my initial messages as rhyming couplets. Haven't had any responses to that yet, but it's too early to declare it a failure. :P

The main response I've had so far specifically said she replied to me because I sent an interesting message that showed I'd read her profile and invited further conversation."

Go for full on iambic pentameter next time. That gets the ladies wet. Verily.

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