FabSwingers.com forum: Help

By *weeteat OP Man
9 weeks ago

sutton coldfield

Sexless relationship been together 10 years now it’s just dead sex wise , over 12 months it’s been ,

I don’t know what to do . Tried everything

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

You should talk to the other half in the relationship.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Clearly someone in the relationship has been getting some sex 💜

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By *ensualandblackMan
9 weeks ago

Luton

Sorry to hear about your dilemma.If it helps its very common and as the other said.You should ask to sit down and discuss it.There is no guarantee that she will want to as we (Human) prefer to run away from.the truth rather than confront it and move on.I wish you all the best whatever happens.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

See if she will agree to open the relationship up then you can be on here guilt free

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Being cheated on strangely enough doesn't turn us on or make us wanna drop our knickers for you.

Knowing your probably getting it elsewhere doesn't make us want to please you.

Partners notice changes in behaviour.

If your not happy leave it at least be honest and let her know your sticking your cock elsewhere.

Mrs

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By *ucka39Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

Maybe start by asking her if everything is ok with her, people can drift apart for many reasons but unless spoken about will never know or understand, a relationship isn't just about sex. And sex shouldn't matter more than the actual relationship x

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By *he 1 2 watchWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

Daft question but why are you asking advice on here…. Do you meet and the partner doesn’t? Maybe you should not be on this site when clearly your relationship is struggling. Talk to her, go to a doctor or try therapy. I’m just curious as to where does your partner stand when it comes to being on fab

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By *weeteat OP Man
9 weeks ago

sutton coldfield

I just look on here

Not met anyone

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I just look on here

Not met anyone "

Your verifications say you have met people

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By *weeteat OP Man
9 weeks ago

sutton coldfield

Phone

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I just look on here

Not met anyone "

But your profile says you're looking to meet though op.

If you are absolutely sure you've tried everything ie counselling, talking etc. The only other thing you can do is ask her if she'd be prepared to let you seek sex elsewhere, if she isn't interested in it.

Sit and explain how it makes you feel and that you'd still like a sex life.

If she says no, you have some thinking to do. Can you stay with her and not have a sex life or do you need to think about moving on from your relationship?.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You're very young to be in a sexless relationship for the rest of your life op.

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Phone "

Ah so the 2 verifications where they both say they have met you are a lie and a false verification.

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By *imply DeeWoman
9 weeks ago

Wherever

As yourself, she’s probably getting it elsewhere.

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By *uliette500Woman
9 weeks ago

Hull

"I just look on here

Not met anyone "

Your veris tell us you met a couple and a man in person. Someones not being very honest.

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By *uliette500Woman
9 weeks ago

Hull

"Phone

Ah so the 2 verifications where they both say they have met you are a lie and a false verification.

He sent a veri back for the man he met......

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Phone

Ah so the 2 verifications where they both say they have met you are a lie and a false verification.

He sent a veri back for the man he met...... "

On the phone ☎️🤣

I’ll probably get a ban for talking about his profile when he didn’t ask it yet false verifications and admittance of them is allowed

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By *weeteat OP Man
9 weeks ago

sutton coldfield

Asking for advice not to be questioned . Only ever had phone fun

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Asking for advice not to be questioned . Only ever had phone fun "

But it’s all part of the advice that you seek

If your verifications don’t make sense then people will pick up on it.

As a single male we are a minority so anything that gives anyone a sense of doubt may stop them responding to you

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By *uenevereWoman
9 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Sexless relationship been together 10 years now it’s just dead sex wise , over 12 months it’s been ,

I don’t know what to do . Tried everything "

Step one...

If you genuinely care about your partner get off Fab and stop looking for sex elsewhere.

Step two...

Sit down together and have a proper discussion about your sex life and relationship. If you have children, the dynamics of the relationship may mean she's too tired to want sex. Can you help out more? Make her feel loved and wanted for more than just sex.

If necessary go for counselling.

Step 3...

If all else fails, have the guts to get out of the relationship if it's not working.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Get off fab, glow a pair and talk to her. If it can be fixed, do everything you can to fix it.

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