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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Irwin

Swinger couples do you fuck on the first meet or do you wait till you meet a second time would you fuck us on the first date if you do

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By *ust want fun 888Man
21 weeks ago

nearby

I would, might be the last one I get for a Long while

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

If there is a connection there, then why not

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By *parkle1974Woman
21 weeks ago

Leeds

No, never have, never will x

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By *exyScientistsCouple
21 weeks ago

Castlebar

Sometimes but generally prefer to arrange a second meet. It depends on the connection and situation. It isn't always possible!

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By *izzy99Couple
21 weeks ago

TAMWORTH

Yes and yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not any more. Which is funny because both of us used to in our younger days.

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By *emptme1993Man
21 weeks ago

manchester

If we both wanted to and the connection was there, yeah definitely

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By *ucka39Man
21 weeks ago

Newcastle

Depending upon the level of communication, because that's where it's lead us and discussed prior

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

We fuck on the first date xx

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
21 weeks ago

Home

Depends on the person

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
21 weeks ago

Scarborogh

Depends on where we are and the situation. Club more than likely yes. Private meet have done.

All depends on the other couple and how we get on.

Singles we don’t have to see how SW and him get on.

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By *ickawitchCouple
21 weeks ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

If we’ve arranged a play date then we’ve already established wether we’re comfortable with them or not . So it would have to be something serious to stop play

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By *oy.2022Man
21 weeks ago

Dublin

"Swinger couples do you fuck on the first meet or do you wait till you meet a second time would you fuck us on the first date if you do "

If I have to do the effort, I'll try my best

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Generally, I don’t plan to on a first date. It’s a chance to meet someone, get to know them. Have I on a first date though - yes, I have. If a connection is there, then what happens happens. Likewise I’ve had foreplay but no sex. Whilst I have morals. I try to live with not too many rules and like to go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

People go on dates? I just dip in, dip out and on my bike

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"We fuck on the first date xx"

And rightly so!

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By *mcheshireMan
21 weeks ago

Cheshire

Yeah have done and never regretted it

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By *cedGemWoman
21 weeks ago

your dreams

Nope always a social first

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By *va1001Woman
21 weeks ago

darlington

It’s not tinder!! If I am meeting I am fucking

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By *orphia2003Woman
21 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Sometimes, if it feels right

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By *4bimMan
21 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"It’s not tinder!! If I am meeting I am fucking"

you go girl!

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By *razymindMan
21 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

If good connection then yes

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

No beating around the bush. Time comes at a premium when juggling work and home life. If we meet we fuck. 😉

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By *andb69Couple
21 weeks ago

leeds

I don't consider a swinging meet to be a date, and sometimes on a meet I like a guy to fuck and go just for the excitement of it. If I was in the unlikely situation of really dating, in the vanilla sense, I wouldn't fuck on the first, second or even the tenth date.

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By *igballs35Man
21 weeks ago

maidstone

I don’t see why not if everyone happy and I. The mood why not

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By *erry2020888Man
21 weeks ago

stockport

yes and have

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
21 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Swinger couples do you fuck on the first meet or do you wait till you meet a second time would you fuck us on the first date if you do "
we mostly meet at clubs.. so it's often the first meet. We have rarely done repeat meets ..although with some it's just as times have never matched

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By *uxom redCouple
21 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

We have and we've become really good friends after .

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
21 weeks ago

Hyde

Seems that we ONLY fuck on the first date haha.

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By *aughtyTwosomeCouple
21 weeks ago

Kent

Depends on who, where and how well we all getting on

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By *s SWoman
21 weeks ago

north yorks

Love this, couldn't agree more x

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By *s SWoman
21 weeks ago

north yorks

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By *elshnewbies69Couple
21 weeks ago

cardiff

If there's a connection then yeah, but then again if there wasn't a connection there wouldn't be any sex ever lol

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By *azzler2Man
21 weeks ago

halifax

Yes if that’s what we all wanted why not

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By *eparated_galWoman
21 weeks ago

Salford

I would and have, depends on if we get on and sometimes how much alcohol lol

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By *armandwet50Couple
21 weeks ago

Far far away

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By *armandwet50Couple
21 weeks ago

Far far away

"Swinger couples do you fuck on the first meet or do you wait till you meet a second time would you fuck us on the first date if you do "

yes and yes

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By *ivpoolmanMan
21 weeks ago

Liverpool

Yeah of course.. we’re grown adults!

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
21 weeks ago

Hyde

"I would and have, depends on if we get on and sometimes how much alcohol lol"

Can always get really fun with a little alcohol ha ha

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By *ll 4 herCouple
21 weeks ago

Bury/Bolton

"No beating around the bush. Time comes at a premium when juggling work and home life. If we meet we fuck. 😉"

Pretty much this, as long as who we meet is who and what they said. If we agree to meet we've already established an attraction so why not?

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By *oxy jWoman
21 weeks ago

taunton somerset

if the connection is right then yes and at a guess that would be about 75% of meets where the person is new i dp a pretty strict checks via the messaging plus im ;looking fo fun not a persons life story and ins n outs as long as the sexual attraction is there and they feel the same the great lets get it on ...

not all swingers are social minded most of the couples i know are not unless its a club or private party a;ot on these forums like socials but on the wider scene is very 50/50 ... do what you want not what others want

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
21 weeks ago

Cornwall/Devon

We Iove the excitement of fucking on a first date. Meet for a coffee on neutral ground then if all good straight to ours for fun. We also enjoy cum and go meets where our guest comes to ours and dives straight in with no awkward small talk or preamble.

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By *ccasional_LoversCouple
21 weeks ago

Peterborough

Yes we do. That’s why we enjoy hosting house parties.

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
21 weeks ago

Somewhere

If its a 'meet', lost a social. Then yes

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
21 weeks ago

Somewhere

"We Iove the excitement of fucking on a first date. Meet for a coffee on neutral ground then if all good straight to ours for fun. We also enjoy cum and go meets where our guest comes to ours and dives straight in with no awkward small talk or preamble. "

Lovely!... Are you ever in Newcastle?

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By *atgirlknobinCouple
21 weeks ago

ish

First...lifes too short ..lol x

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By *illxxMan
21 weeks ago

motherwell

Yeah definitely why waste time taking when we know what we’re are looking for just do it

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Depending on the situation I would. Meeting at a club isn't really a date so not sure that counts but probably would there.

If there had been a lot of build up and the meet was just a social to see if we clicked in person I would there too.

If it was just a social, with no expectation then maybe not but again, it depends on the connection.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
21 weeks ago

Leeds

We have done & probably will again, they all start as socials but sometimes it just heads that way.

Mrs

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By *ecky and justCouple
21 weeks ago

Godalming

Sometimes we do, sometimes we don’t..

The plan is always for a social first.. but you know, things happen..

Some of our best friends were a social, their first swinging meet, that became an all nighter..

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
21 weeks ago

Manchester

It’s depends on the person and situation. I do prefer a social

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By *9Karm69Man
21 weeks ago

plymouth/chesterfield

I have and haven't.

Have: There's a connection and we both want feel it's right, as the song goes "it started with a kiss"

Haven't: Met a couple of ladies upon there nothing like there profile, made polite conversation and then left

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By *eckard2019Man
21 weeks ago

North West Durham

Yes, but not always

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By *CExeCouple
21 weeks ago

Lincoln/Exeter

We did on our first date

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
21 weeks ago

Rochester, Kent

Yes I have, and yes I would.

If the vibe is there, just go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

It all depends we have done on the odd occasion quick social then straight into fucking mmmm why wait if everyone is happy about it

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

When I meet alone or with my partner, we always have a social first.

It would be a no from me, sorry. I'm straight so not your target audience anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I have had a few one night stands in my youth

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By *illie fitMan
21 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I have once but the waitress in Starbucks threw us out

It would be silly not to

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By *luebell888Woman
21 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Always do a social first but the socials have sometimes ended up between the sheets.

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By *umblefunMan
21 weeks ago

London/ South East

Wouldn’t meet with the intention of doing so, but if all goes well why wouldn’t you.

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
21 weeks ago

Hyde

We have a good amount of communication before hand though to be honest. We know what they want and we want and discuss this before hand, so the social doesn't exist for us or it lasts 5 minutes 😅

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Social first and then arrange to meet on a different day. That way we are never put on the spot to make a decision or face a nasty situation.

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By *as0046Man
21 weeks ago

stourbridge

With a single female yes I have but have chatted first.

Couples definitely social first as had one bad experience and like to know about the pair of them.

Fab for you, you win some you loose some

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By *eliWoman
21 weeks ago

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I can count on a few fingers the number of times I have. When it's incredibly hot and there's that passion, then yes I have. Most of the time I'm a social first, possibly kissing and a bit of dryhumping and that's it.

It works for me.

And yes, I know I'm not a swinger. I'm really comfortable with that.

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By *ilyandronCouple
21 weeks ago

Bristol

Absolutely

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By *andydan69Man
21 weeks ago

south west nr you mmm

Sure mmmmm

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By *rpeggioCouple
21 weeks ago

Baughurst

Can't see why it should be any different from meeting a couple at a club or party and play there and then if everyone is happy with it.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
21 weeks ago

Southampton

We have done, sometimes it just pure attraction/lust between us and other couples.

It's a really nice experience.

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By *.S..Man
21 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Yes

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By *.hrisMan
21 weeks ago

Bath

Of course

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By *ikesEmBigMan
21 weeks ago

Herts

Well I fucked literally minutes into meeting her right at the front door

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By *oublefun0401Couple
21 weeks ago

Basingstoke

We would it’s why we are here right

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By *ornLordMan
21 weeks ago

Wiltshire and London

Yes, have done and would do.

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By *in and bare itCouple
21 weeks ago

kent

Normally yes

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By *od ThrusterMan
21 weeks ago

Newport Pagnell

I've had meets with no sex, but most have been sex on first meeting.

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