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Meeting a planned meets son beforehand

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By *ature BBW Lover 69 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

exeter

I’m trying to plan a meet , but the woman has a 20 year old son who lives with her and has said that he wants to meet any men that come into the house , knowing full well why they are there ? Also for him to still be in the house . For me I find it very odd and off putting and have said I won’t meet under those circumstances. What’s peoples opinions on this ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think you're right to refuse to meet.

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By *LiamMan
22 weeks ago

Midlands

Strange that

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By *lackdowndaveMan
22 weeks ago

up on the hills

So many red flags. 🚩

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By *londebiguyMan
22 weeks ago

Southport


"I’m trying to plan a meet , but the woman has a 20 year old son who lives with her and has said that he wants to meet any men that come into the house , knowing full well why they are there ? Also for him to still be in the house . For me I find it very odd and off putting and have said I won’t meet under those circumstances. What’s peoples opinions on this ? "

Tha is just plain weird to me.

Quite worrying.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
22 weeks ago

Wirral.

That's beyond weird.

Also, pretty controlling of her son.

AVOID

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By *amesy8519Man
22 weeks ago

Hampshire

Yeah I’d be giving this one the swerve for sure.

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By *ayd100Man
22 weeks ago

clitheroe

No go

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
22 weeks ago

Wherever

It’s probably not a son.

I’d refuse to meet under that circumstances.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
22 weeks ago

Darlington

Run Forrest Run!

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By *ust want fun 888Man
22 weeks ago

nearby

Call joking aside, DO NOT MEET this sounds so disturbing, if it’s not her son, bad vibes, if it is her son, very very weird indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

If it’s really her son, that’s very concerning. It’s not typical for a 20 year old to be that invested in their parent’s sex life. It would be a no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Very norman bates

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By *iss DevilWoman
22 weeks ago

Bedford

On one hand, I can understand the son wanting to meet any men coming to the house to see his mother. As I'm guessing that's only going to be a quick social, to make sure you are who you say you are? I can also understand why he wants to be in the house during, as a safety measure. On the other hand though, it is definitely a very strange arrangement and I would pass. But up to you, OP. Just make sure you have the correct brain switched on when you are considering all the pros and cons.

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By *aomilatteCouple
22 weeks ago

Midlands


"I’m trying to plan a meet , but the woman has a 20 year old son who lives with her and has said that he wants to meet any men that come into the house , knowing full well why they are there ? Also for him to still be in the house . For me I find it very odd and off putting and have said I won’t meet under those circumstances. What’s peoples opinions on this ? "

This sounds like someone is winding you up. Don't believe everything you read on Fab and in messages as there's a lot of fiction.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
22 weeks ago

Scarborogh


"I’m trying to plan a meet , but the woman has a 20 year old son who lives with her and has said that he wants to meet any men that come into the house , knowing full well why they are there ? Also for him to still be in the house . For me I find it very odd and off putting and have said I won’t meet under those circumstances. What’s peoples opinions on this ?

This sounds like someone is winding you up. Don't believe everything you read on Fab and in messages as there's a lot of fiction. "

Maybe it’s a reverse mother and daughter situation 🫣🤣🤣

On a serious note, I thought security for her, as someone else mentioned.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
22 weeks ago

somewhere

I would decline, I mean it all sounded very noble of the son up until being in the house when the shenanigans happened, that is just a little weird x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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22 weeks ago

East Sussex

Are you absolutely sure the woman will be there op and that the son is actually 20 not much older.

This could either be 100% genuine or a horrible set up. Either way I think it's best to avoid it.

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By *ieandteaseMan
22 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I doubt you're dealing with a woman at all OP.

Block them and forget.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
22 weeks ago

St Austell

It's unusual, certainly, but if she's 'single' - as in divorced/widowed - it's really not any different from a husband/partner who doesn't get involved, but 'vets' the men who his wife/partner is going to play with, and is somewhere in the house during the meet, for her safety...

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By *espectfulSilverFoxMan
22 weeks ago

sunbury


"I think you're right to refuse to meet.

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Utterly concur with this concurrence.....what madness!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex


"It's unusual, certainly, but if she's 'single' - as in divorced/widowed - it's really not any different from a husband/partner who doesn't get involved, but 'vets' the men who his wife/partner is going to play with, and is somewhere in the house during the meet, for her safety..."

I'd say it's very different to a husband or partner being somewhere in the house.

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By *exxxoMan
22 weeks ago

Solihull

Sounds very wrong to me. Avoid.

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By *uckurcumMan
22 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

One very big red flag....Avoid...

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
22 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Are you sure it's a woman op?

If be suspicious it's actually a man pretending to be a woman with a son. Then you show up and it's a big bloke, maybe I'm just cynical.

You're doing right to avoid this meet in my opinion.

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
22 weeks ago

Southend


"It's unusual, certainly, but if she's 'single' - as in divorced/widowed - it's really not any different from a husband/partner who doesn't get involved, but 'vets' the men who his wife/partner is going to play with, and is somewhere in the house during the meet, for her safety..."

If it's her son then it's *very* different.

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By *ature BBW Lover 69 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

exeter

Thanks everyone for you opinions and messages , it seems just how I was thinking that it’s just all a bit odd, i seems like a few red flags . Apparently she has spoken to a friend about it and she has told her the same as everyone else and the son shouldn’t have anything to do with it . Will have to see what happens now but still not sure about it all . You be o have to feel 100% comfortable with it

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By *ornycougaWoman
22 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"It's unusual, certainly, but if she's 'single' - as in divorced/widowed - it's really not any different from a husband/partner who doesn't get involved, but 'vets' the men who his wife/partner is going to play with, and is somewhere in the house during the meet, for her safety..."

I'd say it's completely different! A son wanting to listen to randos shagging his mum is all kinds of weird

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By *andG2024Couple
22 weeks ago

Hurley


"It's unusual, certainly, but if she's 'single' - as in divorced/widowed - it's really not any different from a husband/partner who doesn't get involved, but 'vets' the men who his wife/partner is going to play with, and is somewhere in the house during the meet, for her safety...

I'd say it's completely different! A son wanting to listen to randos shagging his mum is all kinds of weird"

Get hotel or watch Rita bob and sue

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Had a fuck buddie a while back, she had her son living with her. He was like 17/18... he knew what I was coming around for and would take the piss out of us. It was pretty bizzare tbh, but funny also. He didnt seem to care, but she was an extraordinarily horny one, that needed her fix.

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By *ony MannMan
22 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura


"I’m trying to plan a meet , but the woman has a 20 year old son who lives with her and has said that he wants to meet any men that come into the house , knowing full well why they are there ? Also for him to still be in the house . For me I find it very odd and off putting and have said I won’t meet under those circumstances. What’s peoples opinions on this ? "

Perhaps he is protective. After all who would trust a stranger?

I had something similar, she wanted someone close by,but she never turned up, so went on to another meet.

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By *amanthabWoman
22 weeks ago

Somewhere

We were messaging for a while with a female who when it came for the time to meet wanted to bring her son with her as it was the school holidays. We were told he’d be okay playing in the garden

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By *itygamesMan
22 weeks ago

UK

book a hotel

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