FabSwingers.com forum: Attracted

By *avidbanks OP Man
23 weeks ago

leeds

Do you have to be attracted to someone to sleep with them or can you just do it?

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By *rlowslungMan
23 weeks ago

Warwick

Depends on the person but I’m thinking most guys can “step up” even if the mood isn’t quite right. I can’t speak for our lady friends though….

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By *WB85Man
23 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Absolutely. I've a wife and a very active sex life, so I'm not desperate for that release.

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By *avidbanks OP Man
23 weeks ago

leeds

I really can’t I need something to be there

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By *antricSeeker60Man
23 weeks ago

Durham

Totally has to be a mutual attraction as otherwise it’s just rubbish sex

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By *rpeggioCouple
23 weeks ago

Baughurst

Mr here. Need to be attracted but, most importantly, need to feel the woman is attracted to me, Otherwise it's a turn off

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By *avidbanks OP Man
23 weeks ago

leeds

"Mr here. Need to be attracted but, most importantly, need to feel the woman is attracted to me, Otherwise it's a turn off "
very true

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By *neeyedwillieMan
23 weeks ago

Darlington

"Do you have to be attracted to someone to sleep with them or can you just do it?"

Its muti faceted. Gotta have some level of attraction and not find things that are off putting....which I'm sure extends for women to me as well.

She could be a stunner but her personality is abrasive so I just nope out. In exactly the same breath she could be completely average but have an amazing personality which does it for me.

Point is, it's not what just what you look like for me but who you are as a person as well.

Having standards is a good thing. I'll only have sex with someone because I legitimately want to and I learnt that a long time ago.

I, like many others, like being desired and not being a "you're the only option so you'll do" kinda man so I extend that courtesy to women as well.

Gotta to both want each other in that moment fully or its not.goimg to be a good experiance.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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23 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yeah, I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Absolutely. I couldn’t even kiss someone I didn’t fancy 😅

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
23 weeks ago

Sheffield

Yes..wouldn’t be able to even kiss someone I wasn’t attracted to.

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By *ellroseWoman
23 weeks ago

Brum

"Do you have to be attracted to someone to sleep with them or can you just do it?"

Hell no, there has to be attraction

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By *LiamMan
23 weeks ago

Midlands

Yes.

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By *ensman100Man
23 weeks ago

Hounslow

Yeah.. has to be something that makes me go mmmm

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By *avidbanks OP Man
23 weeks ago

leeds

"Yeah, I do. "
good

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By *avidbanks OP Man
23 weeks ago

leeds

"Absolutely. I couldn’t even kiss someone I didn’t fancy 😅"
I no the feeling lol

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By *avidbanks OP Man
23 weeks ago

leeds

"Yes..wouldn’t be able to even kiss someone I wasn’t attracted to. "

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By *avidbanks OP Man
23 weeks ago

leeds

"Do you have to be attracted to someone to sleep with them or can you just do it?

Hell no, there has to be attraction "
always

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By *he Silver FuxMan
23 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

The word I like to use is ‘fuckable’ because it means many things to many people. Some of the best fucks I’ve had are from the ‘very fuckable’ pool whereas conventionally attractive have been… m’eh…

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
23 weeks ago

Scarborogh

Yes there has to be an attraction for me, but as previously mentioned, personally is a massive part for me too. Just can’t do with high maintenance, down to earth and great banter will win every time.

Mrs is all about personality.

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By *ou only live onceMan
23 weeks ago

London

Yeah, I'll need to fancy them. I'm not really one for "taking one for the team"...

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By *ositiveVibesJBxMan
23 weeks ago

Birmingham/Wigan

Yea has to be attraction. Plus if I didn’t find them attractive I wouldn’t be in a situation where I will be having a play.

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