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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP   Woman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

I've got a meet later today and it's been ages. What's your pre-meet routine and what do you take?

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By *exy studMan
11 weeks ago

Derby

I would shower shave smell nice and just relax and be yourself good luck hope you enjoy your date xx

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP   Woman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Thanks

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By *haz46Woman
11 weeks ago

Stockport

shower and shave

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By *umblefunMan
11 weeks ago

London/ South East

Shower, shave, relax and smile. The rest will come naturally.

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By *illxxMan
11 weeks ago

motherwell

Shower , shave wear something nice and put on nice aftershave and remember to take condoms if required

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By *d mirerMan
11 weeks ago

lost

Take yourself

Be yourself

Be good (ish )

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By *evonrobMan
11 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

Definitely shower, bit of personal grooming, e.g. fingernails, shaving.

Clean clothes, especially pants.

Not sure if use aftershave, given the circumstances of lots on here I don’t think suspicious smells, no matter how nice, are the way forward!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
11 weeks ago

Coventry

First of all give myself plenty of time so I'm not rushing (very useful if you suffer from time blindness).

Put on some music. Sort what I'm wearing and iron what I need. Lay it out. Nice shower, good brush of the teeth. Some good antiperspirant for under the pits (nerves can make you a little moist) and splash of a tried and tested Aftershave. Double check you have the location and your transport plans sorted. Get dressed, a little inspection in the mirror and set off.

What to take? Obviously phone, wallet and keys. In addition a pack of mints and some protection (by that I mean condoms, not a cosh or a knuckle duster). Because from experience even when a meet is supposed to be strictly a social it doesn't end up purely social.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP   Woman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Oh it's not meant to just be a social so I'm definitely taking condoms.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
11 weeks ago

Coventry


"Oh it's not meant to just be a social so I'm definitely taking condoms. "

In that you can take a bag. Is it a first time with them or someone you have experience with? If its going to be a long session maybe take a few bits you enjoy to use or be used on you? Maybe a few snacks and supplies? Also possibly appropriate to take your Toothbrush and some overnight items?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
11 weeks ago

chichester

Just shower and get changed

I don’t take gifts or accept gifts. Think it’s abit creepy tbh

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP   Woman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

I've never talked about gifts! I just meant toys, snacks, my tripod to take some footage potentially.

Not the first time I meet them, no

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
11 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've never talked about gifts! I just meant toys, snacks, my tripod to take some footage potentially.

Not the first time I meet them, no "

It sounds like you have it all in hand. The reason I asked about first time with that person is maybe you have some shared intrests or in jokes you could take something round relevant that you'd both appreciate.

I'm excited for you, such fun.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP   Woman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm very very excited. My pussy needs to calm down lol.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
11 weeks ago

Coventry


"I'm very very excited. My pussy needs to calm down lol."

Hope you have an amazing night. Let us know how it goes

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP   Woman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

I will

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By *ldbutable1Man
11 weeks ago

hewish

let a friend know the detail of where , when and who with, even if just someone you trust on here , tell someone,emergency contact etc

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP   Woman
11 weeks ago

Manchester


"let a friend know the detail of where , when and who with, even if just someone you trust on here , tell someone,emergency contact etc"

Absolutely!

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By *rispyDuckMan
11 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I do some stretching

Have a nap

Sort my outfit

Have a nap

Shower & nervous p__ haha

Have a nap

Then look at my self in the mirror for a prep talk

Don’t have a nap get in car and go sell myself like a whore needing money for crack hahaha

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By *rispyDuckMan
11 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

By well myself haha before you fuckers get any wrong ideas

I mean be charming, with the charisma and enthusiasm of a w__ needing money for c___ haha

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By *entleman JayMan
11 weeks ago

Wakefield

I always call at the petrol station for extra strong mints. It’s kind of a tradition. Lol.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
11 weeks ago

near you...

Depends on the kind of meet but usually we both shower and shave and dress and get the toys ready. If the people we are meeting are coming over, we usually prepare a surprise

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By *xfordjohnMan
11 weeks ago

Oxford

As I usually seem to meet at mine, there's plenty of work in cleaning the house, specially bedroom (throw on top of duvet cover to absorb strange stains, clean pillow cases, etc) and the bathroom, then setting up refreshments, video kit if using, lube, towels. Then for myself, shower, shave, change into minimal clothes, then it's wait and wonder what will happen......

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