FabSwingers.com forum: Polite replies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am puzzled as to why guys (and probably women) put on their profiles that they would like a polite reply even if it's a no thaks and then continue to message asking the why's and wherefore's.

I always reply but get frustrated and usually end up blocking them anyway so I do begin to think the people that just block straight away save temselves a lot of time.

Your thoughts please?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expectancy often results in disappointment!

Better to expect no reply and be pleasantly surprised when one arrives than stress about no reply and have a pointless argument in your head as to the reasons why!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a thanks but no thanks then that's it , I block so I know that person isn't interested and I don't make the mistake of bothering them again

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and reply to the nice thought out messages but delete the ones not suitable or say fancy a fuck.

Carry on doing what you want OP

By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I am puzzled as to why guys (and probably women) put on their profiles that they would like a polite reply even if it's a no thaks and then continue to message asking the why's and wherefore's.

I always reply but get frustrated and usually end up blocking them anyway so I do begin to think the people that just block straight away save temselves a lot of time.

Your thoughts please?

xx"

Morning

I reply and just say 'you are not what I am looking for at the moment. Good luck.'

On the whole they just come back and say thanks and good luck ...If they try to start a conversation I ignore

If they message me again a few weeks later I automatically block...