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"Delete. Block. Move on. I was going to make a post about also using the search function, but i'll refrain......" exactly once there blocked thats it | |||
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"Delete. Block. Move on. I was going to make a post about also using the search function, but i'll refrain......exactly once there blocked thats it " Until their new profile next week | |||
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"having a partner automatically changes a single guy into some sort of respectful saint lol...FACT! " looooool i wouldnt exactly say that | |||
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"Its not just single guys who send those messages but I will except they send the majority of them. Its part of being the site im afraid." I've never had that sort of message from a female.. Male half of a couple maybe.. But never a woman | |||
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"Its not just single guys who send those messages but I will except they send the majority of them. Its part of being the site im afraid. I've never had that sort of message from a female.. Male half of a couple maybe.. But never a woman" I've had it from 2 women this week and one couple. So statistics and all that..... | |||
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"Its not just single guys who send those messages but I will except they send the majority of them. Its part of being the site im afraid. I've never had that sort of message from a female.. Male half of a couple maybe.. But never a woman" I have | |||
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"yes if it was to work.but most of them .if not all have been on the site for over a year and still no meets.AND donot start me on the people asking to be friends .with out as much of an email.that is so fucking sad . SAYS A LOT ABOUT THEM.if someone come up to you on a night out and first thing out of them was can I be your friend.I WOULD LMFUCKINX ASS OFF. SAD REALLY SAD " You aren't unique to the situation. There are robust site tools to help improve your experience. I suggest using them better. As for idiots, we've all been there, done that and got multiple t-shirts. | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. " It's actually couples that I get more messages like that from than single guys.. And I'll bet there's females around who send messages like that out too lol | |||
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"Its not just single guys who send those messages but I will except they send the majority of them. Its part of being the site im afraid. I've never had that sort of message from a female.. Male half of a couple maybe.. But never a woman I've had it from 2 women this week and one couple. So statistics and all that....." But are you sure they were really women? | |||
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"Its not just single guys who send those messages but I will except they send the majority of them. Its part of being the site im afraid. I've never had that sort of message from a female.. Male half of a couple maybe.. But never a woman" I have had them from everyone like I said single guys send the majority but don't think it doesnt happen to us as well. | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. It's actually couples that I get more messages like that from than single guys.. And I'll bet there's females around who send messages like that out too lol" still cant believe that msg u sent asking for a cracklick..I was like, steady on ffs..I dont even know u | |||
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"Its not just single guys who send those messages but I will except they send the majority of them. Its part of being the site im afraid. I've never had that sort of message from a female.. Male half of a couple maybe.. But never a woman I've had it from 2 women this week and one couple. So statistics and all that..... But are you sure they were really women? " Well, i'm 100% sure one of them was anyway | |||
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"Its not just single guys who send those messages but I will except they send the majority of them. Its part of being the site im afraid. I've never had that sort of message from a female.. Male half of a couple maybe.. But never a woman I've had it from 2 women this week and one couple. So statistics and all that..... But are you sure they were really women? Well, i'm 100% sure one of them was anyway " Naughty boy | |||
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"yes if it was to work.but most of them .if not all have been on the site for over a year and still no meets.AND donot start me on the people asking to be friends .with out as much of an email.that is so fucking sad . SAYS A LOT ABOUT THEM.if someone come up to you on a night out and first thing out of them was can I be your friend.I WOULD LMFUCKINX ASS OFF. SAD REALLY SAD You aren't unique to the situation. There are robust site tools to help improve your experience. I suggest using them better. As for idiots, we've all been there, done that and got multiple t-shirts." its like they think we are 16 and never had sex .And Not swingers and seen and done more things they could only come up with in there best wanks. | |||
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" Well, i'm 100% sure one of them was anyway Naughty boy " Always | |||
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"Its not just single guys who send those messages but I will except they send the majority of them. Its part of being the site im afraid. I've never had that sort of message from a female.. Male half of a couple maybe.. But never a woman I've had it from 2 women this week and one couple. So statistics and all that....." Maybe its cos ur a male? Or maybe its there is a difference in the way your profile comes across to mine? But can honestly say in 3 years never had that from a female.. So yh stastics | |||
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" I've had it from 2 women this week and one couple. So statistics and all that..... Maybe its cos ur a male? Or maybe its there is a difference in the way your profile comes across to mine? But can honestly say in 3 years never had that from a female.. So yh stastics " My being male should have nothing to do with it. Users from every available group on here send shitty messages, my post was to point out that us single males get one liners and "wanna fuck" type messages from women too. And couples. Some in those groups send them regardless of the gender or sexual orientation of the receipient. Like we said....statistics. | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. It's actually couples that I get more messages like that from than single guys.. And I'll bet there's females around who send messages like that out too lol still cant believe that msg u sent asking for a cracklick..I was like, steady on ffs..I dont even know u " I don't have time to answer you just now... I'm awaiting replies to the mountain of "wanna fuk" messages I sent out | |||
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" I've had it from 2 women this week and one couple. So statistics and all that..... Maybe its cos ur a male? Or maybe its there is a difference in the way your profile comes across to mine? But can honestly say in 3 years never had that from a female.. So yh stastics My being male should have nothing to do with it. Users from every available group on here send shitty messages, my post was to point out that us single males get one liners and "wanna fuck" type messages from women too. And couples. Some in those groups send them regardless of the gender or sexual orientation of the receipient. Like we said....statistics." The fact ur male and I'm female has a lot to do with it.. Exactly how many messages have u received from men and overall compared to a female on here Also people naturally treat a male differently to a woman.. | |||
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" The fact ur male and I'm female has a lot to do with it.. Exactly how many messages have u received from men and overall compared to a female on here Also people naturally treat a male differently to a woman.. " I've had way more messages from women on here than i have had from men. And a good number of them have been simply "wanna fuck" or "nice cock, can i suck it?" Doesn't mean i paint every female on here with the same brush. The majority of those messages come from a place of laziness. Either in the knowledge that they don't need to try (due to numbers) or because that is truly their site M.O. The point i was making earlier was twofold: 1) There doesn't need to be a new thread everytime someone gets a shitty message. It happens to all of us at some point. The OP isn't the first, nor will they be the last to get a message from a lazy site user. Moaning threads like this one almost always end up the same way. 2) Following on from point 1, the sweeping generalisations help no one. SOME men send crappy messages. SOME women do the same. SOME couples lie. SOME TVs can't read profiles. etc etc. 3) If the distinction can be made using point 2, then less of these encounters on the forums would devolve into single male bashing threads that happen so often now, you can set your clocks to them. If i had made a thread for both the crappy messages i got this week from women, moaning about single women sending crappy messages, i'd have a forum mob convince me that i should be grateful i even get messages at all. C'est la vie. | |||
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"I can imagine that is frustrating BUT I find it also very frustrating when I take the time to read, yes actually read a girl or couples profile, seem to be everything they are looking for, attach face pics, verified, site supporter etc etc write a polite informative email just to have it deleted straight away with no repky. Even if it were to say thanks but no thanks! Literally happened to me thousands of times! " but your profile says you have met 5 people so .that is my poin .a good email that stands out from all the shit ones and you get the meets good luck.BUT THINK YOU ARE NOT GOING TO NEED IT. | |||
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" The fact ur male and I'm female has a lot to do with it.. Exactly how many messages have u received from men and overall compared to a female on here Also people naturally treat a male differently to a woman.. I've had way more messages from women on here than i have had from men. And a good number of them have been simply "wanna fuck" or "nice cock, can i suck it?" Doesn't mean i paint every female on here with the same brush. The majority of those messages come from a place of laziness. Either in the knowledge that they don't need to try (due to numbers) or because that is truly their site M.O. The point i was making earlier was twofold: 1) There doesn't need to be a new thread everytime someone gets a shitty message. It happens to all of us at some point. The OP isn't the first, nor will they be the last to get a message from a lazy site user. Moaning threads like this one almost always end up the same way. 2) Following on from point 1, the sweeping generalisations help no one. SOME men send crappy messages. SOME women do the same. SOME couples lie. SOME TVs can't read profiles. etc etc. 3) If the distinction can be made using point 2, then less of these encounters on the forums would devolve into single male bashing threads that happen so often now, you can set your clocks to them. If i had made a thread for both the crappy messages i got this week from women, moaning about single women sending crappy messages, i'd have a forum mob convince me that i should be grateful i even get messages at all. C'est la vie." I don't understand why just cos someone starts a thread with 'why do single males' some people take as the person meaning all males.. It just means the males who do it.. Not the ones who don't Also maybe the op only has mails from men and therefore can't comment or have experience on other groups Don't take it so personally.. I don't when men say about woman do this or that, mainly cos I don't care if they don't like it | |||
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"I can imagine that is frustrating BUT I find it also very frustrating when I take the time to read, yes actually read a girl or couples profile, seem to be everything they are looking for, attach face pics, verified, site supporter etc etc write a polite informative email just to have it deleted straight away with no repky. Even if it were to say thanks but no thanks! Literally happened to me thousands of times! " I've not had one from you, I'd remember mind you, you might get the thanks but no thanks reply :-! | |||
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"Its not just single guys who send those messages but I will except they send the majority of them. Its part of being the site im afraid." Very true. | |||
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"Cos we are no longer woman, we are an object for them to fuck.. " Silly reply | |||
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"giving us all a bad name" Not me! I'm grateful to them as it makes it easier for others to differentiate between lazy fucktards and those capable of intelligent interaction! I never buy the argument that anyone else's actions affect others just because we share a gender! | |||
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"Sadly a lot of the single guys on here think us women will fuck anything with a pulse!! " | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. " If its a problem block all single males then go search for the ones you like and message them thats if you have the confidence to do so but don't expect all to take you up on your hi love your profile would love to fuck you message some are selective lol. | |||
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"Sadly a lot of the single guys on here think us women will fuck anything with a pulse!! " What is even sader is a lot of the other groups on the site think the same thing about single guys and they are right. | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. If its a problem block all single males then go search for the ones you like and message them thats if you have the confidence to do so but don't expect all to take you up on your hi love your profile would love to fuck you message some are selective lol." LOL Look at it like this after two years of shit one liners and maybe 1%ok why would I take the time to look for them . I am no having a go at all the single men JUST 99% OF THE ONES THATemail us. if your not that type of man .you should be thinking why would any one do that .if not you must be like them. | |||
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"I'm thinking back to a recent thread on men who 'fuck and go'....a good number of female and couples responses indicated this was how they like it which is fair enough, everyone has their choice however, think it might be a tad confusing for some single guys when they read things like that then get blasted for basically offering a 'fuck and go'. Just an alternative viewpoint." | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. " Take control, do not allow them access to your inbox and only contact those you want to...I do! | |||
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"I can imagine that is frustrating BUT I find it also very frustrating when I take the time to read, yes actually read a girl or couples profile, seem to be everything they are looking for, attach face pics, verified, site supporter etc etc write a polite informative email just to have it deleted straight away with no repky. Even if it were to say thanks but no thanks! Literally happened to me thousands of times! " Yes, it happens to me, but at times some peeps reply, and others would contact me out of the blue. We have to accept that this is the nature of the 'game' we are in. I still insist that the best way to get meets is to attend socials, etc, then you become 'real' so much faster to potential meets. | |||
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"I do get this kind of message for woman and couples.With a site with thousands of users this thing can happen and it's not ONLY from singles" | |||
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"still getting about 10 a day sad wankers" What do you expect? Your profile pic is a fully nude shot. The blood has rushed, caveman biology has taken over and The men are not typing with their fingers, or minds, but with their dicks... If you market yourself in this way you cannot complain about the responses you get. | |||
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"still getting about 10 a day sad wankers What do you expect? Your profile pic is a fully nude shot. The blood has rushed, caveman biology has taken over and The men are not typing with their fingers, or minds, but with their dicks... If you market yourself in this way you cannot complain about the responses you get." LOL but on the site to meet people not just get emails .like how are you today. should we put a none sexy pic as a profile is that what you are say.your right we would get less emails | |||
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"LOL but on the site to meet people not just get emails .like how are you today. should we put a none sexy pic as a profile is that what you are say.your right we would get less emails" You're right! I'm also on this site to meet people, and get my fair share of rubbish one liners. However, I maintain that there is a huge difference between classy, clothed pics, which can still be sexy and seductive to overtly sexual/ naked which are more likely to titilate and appeal to the not so nice/eloquent element on here. It's just my theory.... | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. " It's not just some single guys that send messages like that. We get similar from couples and it's usually the ones that state on their profiles that they don't want those type of messages. | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. " So Fab invented the delete button; and it was good! | |||
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"LOL but on the site to meet people not just get emails .like how are you today. should we put a none sexy pic as a profile is that what you are say.your right we would get less emails You're right! I'm also on this site to meet people, and get my fair share of rubbish one liners. However, I maintain that there is a huge difference between classy, clothed pics, which can still be sexy and seductive to overtly sexual/ naked which are more likely to titilate and appeal to the not so nice/eloquent element on here. It's just my theory...." will give it a try and change it now thanks | |||
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"LOL but on the site to meet people not just get emails .like how are you today. should we put a none sexy pic as a profile is that what you are say.your right we would get less emails You're right! I'm also on this site to meet people, and get my fair share of rubbish one liners. However, I maintain that there is a huge difference between classy, clothed pics, which can still be sexy and seductive to overtly sexual/ naked which are more likely to titilate and appeal to the not so nice/eloquent element on here. It's just my theory...." | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. " Not just single men.... I get messages like that almost daily from couples too | |||
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"do single men think if they send an message like .hi love your profile would love to fuck you. ITS GOING to work if you was to do that in a night club or pub . you would have a drink over you. I can only think that must be why they are single. sad really sad. It's not just some single guys that send messages like that. We get similar from couples and it's usually the ones that state on their profiles that they don't want those type of messages. " Ditto. Couldn't have put it better myself. I do get one line messages like "what size is your cock?" etc. from single women and couples. So it's not restricted to single men. It's funny how the same couples that say they don't respond to friend invites without knowing you, then go on to send a friend invite without knowing you cos they want to perv on my pics! Bottom line is there are a lot of people who do the same things they hate or accuse others of doing. But like it has been previously said, there's not much you can do about it but delete delete delete. It's part of this site now so try not take it too serious.. | |||
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