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"I totally get what you're saying about fancying them. It might be different for Fab Swingers women as opposed to men on here as I'm guessing women get a lot more offers than men and so can exercise more choice." I said this on another thread. Women don't have more choice, of the thousands of men on here once you've eliminated the ones whose filters exclude you, the ones you don't find attractive or who don't find you attractive, the ones that distance excludes etc women are left with a fairly limited choice. We are however constantly exhorted to stop being so picky, just give men a chance or be less choosy. However I agree mutual enthusiasm is lovely everyone wants to feel wanted | |||
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"I totally get what you're saying about fancying them. It might be different for Fab Swingers women as opposed to men on here as I'm guessing women get a lot more offers than men and so can exercise more choice. I said this on another thread. Women don't have more choice, of the thousands of men on here once you've eliminated the ones whose filters exclude you, the ones you don't find attractive or who don't find you attractive, the ones that distance excludes etc women are left with a fairly limited choice. We are however constantly exhorted to stop being so picky, just give men a chance or be less choosy. However I agree mutual enthusiasm is lovely everyone wants to feel wanted" This Is spot on Mrs N I'm not meeting just now and use quite a few filters, so J don't get so much mail. When they're not as tight, I get so many of the people I'm not looking for ie miles away, smokers, people playing away or too young. Just being a woman on here doesn't mean you are always meeting, even when I was, I didn't find someone who I found attractive and connected to that often tbh. | |||
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"You're right, I'm sure there are guys on here who take the any hole's a goal attitude, which is highly disrespectful. I just hope there are also guys on here who find women very attractive purely on attiude and their sense of fun and sexual enthusiasm. I guess what I'm getting at is that great sex, especially on first meets, doesn't have to be determined on looks alone. " But how do you about someone's attitude, sense of fun and srxual enthusiasm until you've meet them? Surely you make decisions to meet someone initially from an attraction, you must fancy them. We've made some mistakes, not many thankfully, and had horrible meets. It's difficult to judge the 'intangibles that make for a great meet, but it starts with attraction. Mrs x | |||
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"You're right, I'm sure there are guys on here who take the any hole's a goal attitude, which is highly disrespectful. I just hope there are also guys on here who find women very attractive purely on attiude and their sense of fun and sexual enthusiasm. I guess what I'm getting at is that great sex, especially on first meets, doesn't have to be determined on looks alone. " If you press the quote button under the thread you're responding to we can see who you're talking to | |||
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"You're right, I'm sure there are guys on here who take the any hole's a goal attitude, which is highly disrespectful. I just hope there are also guys on here who find women very attractive purely on attiude and their sense of fun and sexual enthusiasm. I guess what I'm getting at is that great sex, especially on first meets, doesn't have to be determined on looks alone. " I think the point is that you find certain aspects of women attractive that aren't necessarily physical. | |||
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