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Helping my partner Squirt

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By *lattank OP   Man
11 weeks ago

pontypridd

Possibly a bit random, but a few times lately when my partner has been close to cuming she says it feels like she's going to pee, now she knows this is a sign that she's going to cum, but she never does, bear with me on this but from watching porn, it always seems the bloke pulls out allowing the female to squirt, is this just porn, or does it actually help?

is there anything I can do to help her along?

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By *andG2024Couple
11 weeks ago

Atherstone


"Possibly a bit random, but a few times lately when my partner has been close to cuming she says it feels like she's going to pee, now she knows this is a sign that she's going to cum, but she never does, bear with me on this but from watching porn, it always seems the bloke pulls out allowing the female to squirt, is this just porn, or does it actually help?

is there anything I can do to help her along?

"

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

Porn, every woman squirts, surprise surprise shock horror.

Real life, not all women can squirt.

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By *andG2024Couple
11 weeks ago

Atherstone


"Possibly a bit random, but a few times lately when my partner has been close to cuming she says it feels like she's going to pee, now she knows this is a sign that she's going to cum, but she never does, bear with me on this but from watching porn, it always seems the bloke pulls out allowing the female to squirt, is this just porn, or does it actually help?

Believe me it happens I tend to smack her with my hopefully erect penis on her pussy as she ready then next second the floor is soaked thankfully wooden however outdoors is not a issue apart from rug

is there anything I can do to help her along?

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By *ocksareoffMan
11 weeks ago

Out n About

From what I have learnt from porn is that vigorous finger blasting works 70% of everytime.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
11 weeks ago

andover

Wifey squirts from my hands to begin with, not easy to get it started, but once the flood gates are open anything brings it on!

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By *he 1 2 watchWoman
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

Not all women can squirt….dont try forcing it by finger blasting!! as that can hurt if not done right. It’s certainly no big deal

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
11 weeks ago

SouthEast


"Not all women can squirt….dont try forcing it by finger blasting!! as that can hurt if not done right. It’s certainly no big deal"

This

Don't rely on porn for sex education.

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
11 weeks ago

SouthEast


"Possibly a bit random, but a few times lately when my partner has been close to cuming she says it feels like she's going to pee, now she knows this is a sign that she's going to cum, but she never does, bear with me on this but from watching porn, it always seems the bloke pulls out allowing the female to squirt, is this just porn, or does it actually help?

is there anything I can do to help her along?

"

First of all, ditch porn as a source of reliable info point . It isn't . It's acting . Just like Mission Impossible isn't what we encounter in our daily lives.

Squirting in porn is usually full blown pee. The actresses drink water with gallons behind the scene. How do I know that? It's easy to deduce but I happen to know a few working in the adult industry.

Some women do squirting but it's a miniscule amount of fluid . Anything more, gushing is practically involuntary incontinence, coital incontinence .

Don't ram fingers in, don't try to act as a porn star with pulling out, don't injure your woman. Be gentle, caring. Caress her with love, not with force.

Find her g-spot, massage carefully, apply light pressure, play with her clitoris at the sahd time, lightly push on her public bone from outside, suck her nipples, kiss her passionately ...

When she feels like about to pee, she will orgasm and may even squirt a bit. Or... Just pee herself ,??

Regardless, you'll have fun.

I can show you. If you are interested, see my profile .

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
11 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


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is there anything I can do to help her along?

"

Pull out and fist her.....works 11 times out of 10....

Mr

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex

Does she want to?

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By *punk n gushCouple
11 weeks ago

walmer

We find most men actually enjoy a woman squirting over there fingers or cock which ever is in there

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By *lattank OP   Man
11 weeks ago

pontypridd

Awesome thank you, I do most of the above, but will try the pushing gently on the pubic bone.

Thanks all.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
11 weeks ago

Norwichish


"Awesome thank you, I do most of the above, but will try the pushing gently on the pubic bone.

Thanks all. "

If you can watch videos have a look at some of ours. There are a couple showing the hand positions I normally rely on.

Very rare to get the actual jettison of fluid normally more a gush, but once it starts very hard to stop it happening again and again.

The times it has squirted out has been from me removing something after I’ve felt a build up, so either my hands, cock or a toy (although harder to feel that build up with a toy, more it gets clenched tight!)

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By *usbandandktCouple
11 weeks ago

Basingstoke

We found Hardest part is the mental hurdle, once you can get her to have that feeling of wanting to pee, not panic or hold on/back, and just let whatever happens happen this will help massively, and also not feel self conscious about it and be distracted by an audience

first few times she will probably do it only a little bit, again it’s getting over that holding back hurdle again when it happens, with time and getting used to it she will relax more and just let go,

I’d recommend something like a waterproof mattress topper, puppy pads under the top sheet etc so if she does go for it she’s not going to hold back because she doesn’t want to ruin the mattress etc lol

A bit descriptive I know but When my wife first started it there were just a few splashes then it would feel too much, now she can get it happening in under a minute with a toy on her own and repeatedly, she knows where that spot is to target with a toy and she goes at it until she’s finished, none of that porn film going off like a fire hydrant stuff

I do think however, what you see in porn is pretty rare when a woman goes off like a fire hose and can hit a target 2 meters away so don’t set this as your expectation

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Speed not girth is mostly what makes me squirt by hand, 1 finger at lightening speed in and out…guaranteed soaking.

I tried this on another woman with a very slim toy and as soon as I turned up the pace and went as fast as I physically could she squirted everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I've never met a woman that cant

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By *punk n gushCouple
11 weeks ago

walmer


"Speed not girth is mostly what makes me squirt by hand, 1 finger at lightening speed in and out…guaranteed soaking.

I tried this on another woman with a very slim toy and as soon as I turned up the pace and went as fast as I physically could she squirted everywhere "

Love a sqwirter or gusher but isn't essential so ladies just enjoy how ever u like it done x mr

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By *lattank OP   Man
11 weeks ago

pontypridd

She wants to cum yes, she's never cum from penetration, been close a number of times but not quite got there.

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By *lattank OP   Man
11 weeks ago

pontypridd

Yeah I tried that but she doesn't like it. she defiantly doesn't like any form of toy inside her..

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By *lattank OP   Man
11 weeks ago

pontypridd

Yeah I think that's the case, its defiantly a mind over matter thing, she's a tad worried about what will happen. I'm as supportive as I can be reassuring here that what ever happens happens. I think the first time will be the hardest but as you say in time she will know what it feels like and hoe to let go.

I think she's worried she's going to pee the bed! I guess its a case of relaxing and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"From what I have learnt from porn is that vigorous finger blasting works 70% of everytime. "

You absolutely do not need to even insert anything inside at all! 90% of men have no clue what they are doing in bed

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By *wointo1Couple (MM)
11 weeks ago

Manchester

All women are different mate.

Take time to explore and communicate.

Try different techniques.

Ensure she's fully relaxed and happy to let go.

The important thing is - have hours of fun trying ????

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By *lattank OP   Man
11 weeks ago

pontypridd

Thank fully my veris demonstrate I'm not one of the 99%

Just looking for a bit of guidance on how to help my other half out.

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