FabSwingers.com forum: My shy wife...

By *ricd321 OP Man
25 weeks ago

Carlisle

I've always had a fantasy of my wife fucking other guys...

At last years xmas party, both d*unk I told her my fantasy was to watch her and another guy, as surprised as she was, she went quiet & told me that it won't happen as she "couldn't do that to me".

The conversation stopped.

A few month later I mentioned it again, with silence.

Whilst on holiday a few week ago the subject was raised again with my wife saying " if it did happen" I'd prefer an older guy.

This might not sound like progress to the normal person but I found it so hot as she's normal the shy/vanilla type.

I'm not sure how to continue the subject without putting her off....

All advice welcome.....

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By *oupleLookingToExploreCouple
25 weeks ago

Liverpool

Hi, this is how it kind of started with us. He mentioned out the blue one night that he love to see me get fucked by another man. At first I would be like don't be silly. Forgot about it for a while. We then would took about our fantasies while playing. One night while he was sleeping I looked online at clubs. Told him the next day and he was made up. We booked our first club night and joined this.

My advice would be no pressure. Let her take lead and make decisions on who what where when. Maybe try bringing it up whilst playing and see if it turns her on more. It sounds like she's already starting to come round to the idea. X

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Im in the same boat, unsure how to raise the subject without pushing it or being forceful

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By *icecouple561Couple
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25 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I've always had a fantasy of my wife fucking other guys...

At last years xmas party, both d*unk I told her my fantasy was to watch her and another guy, as surprised as she was, she went quiet & told me that it won't happen as she "couldn't do that to me".

The conversation stopped.

A few month later I mentioned it again, with silence.

Whilst on holiday a few week ago the subject was raised again with my wife saying " if it did happen" I'd prefer an older guy.

This might not sound like progress to the normal person but I found it so hot as she's normal the shy/vanilla type.

I'm not sure how to continue the subject without putting her off....

All advice welcome....."

Ask her if she was serious in what she said and would she like to continue the conversation.

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By *anJenny 181Couple
25 weeks ago

Preston

probably took 4 or more years of me going on about this to Jenny & I had all but given up. But she agreed in the end I had just about given up on the idea.

She could be giggly and turned on when I said this during sex, however it often pissed her off

We did go out having sex in the car a lot & we did get watched from afar a few times

Jenny dressed down a few times particularly at a music festival and this made her feel sexy & desirable

It was only after a combination of all of the above that helped along with a really solid relationship & bags full of trust

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By *ayd100Man
25 weeks ago

clitheroe

You could create a monster

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"I've always had a fantasy of my wife fucking other guys...

At last years xmas party, both d*unk I told her my fantasy was to watch her and another guy, as surprised as she was, she went quiet & told me that it won't happen as she "couldn't do that to me".

The conversation stopped.

A few month later I mentioned it again, with silence.

Whilst on holiday a few week ago the subject was raised again with my wife saying " if it did happen" I'd prefer an older guy.

This might not sound like progress to the normal person but I found it so hot as she's normal the shy/vanilla type.

I'm not sure how to continue the subject without putting her off....

All advice welcome....."

Share your fab profile with her?

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By *4funXXXMan
25 weeks ago

cheshire

My late wife was very shy which is why she was a virgin when we got together. After a few years of good sex I wanted to see her get fucked by another guy but she wasn’t really up for it but she did watch some swinging porn and made odd comments about what it would be like to try a different cock. One day she said she fancied going to a club and to watch others. I’d told her about a club so she said she would go. We went a good few times where she got a lot of attention but didn’t take it any further till one day a guy chatting to her seemed to get her interest. He asked her if she would wank him but she said no as there where to many people round. Her being shy as ever so I suggested we went to a private room and just let him watch us play. She agreed and in the room she chatted to him but again was shy and didn’t reach out to touch his cock. So I told him to lick her she let him but to begin with she struggled to open her legs but once he had lick her a few times that was it she started to encourage him. He made her cum and as she was moaning and cuming she pulled him up to kiss him and his cock rubbed over her pussy. Next thing she has hold of his cock guiding him into her where he fucked good and proper. After that night she was hooked and enjoyed many good times

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By *anJenny 181Couple
25 weeks ago

Preston

"You could create a monster "

This is something you really need think about

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By *ellinever70Woman
25 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Stop badgering her about it

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By *ricd321 OP Man
25 weeks ago

Carlisle

Thanks for all advice...

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By *oxy jWoman
25 weeks ago

somerset

"Im in the same boat, unsure how to raise the subject without pushing it or being forceful"

playfully its your partner you know her the best make it fun playful dont push dont keep on and you never know where that road may lead you and thats all you can do ...you cant make anyone want this it has to be you 2 make it fun make her laugh make her think with sexy soft ideas make your sex life a little more spicy some times small things like visting a ann summers buying sexy underwear and a toy ah dont for get the toy thats a threesome in the making gight there ....simple fun steps open up slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Im in the same boat, unsure how to raise the subject without pushing it or being forceful

Thanks for the advice

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