FabSwingers.com forum: A post for bicurious men in a couple

By *wingyDingDing OP Couple
30 weeks ago

Cheshire

Just wondered if there are any other similar men out there...

I don't class myself as bi as I don't find men attractive and I wouldn't want to be fucked by a guy.

Saying that... I do find some cocks and chatting to other men about our wives or whatever while wanking hot

Obviously, then there's seeing men in action during meets is a turn on too

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By *imfucktwoMan
30 weeks ago

here and there

I think there needs to be a box to tick for this sort of thing. In a similar boat, not attracted to guys but don’t mind a fiddle with a cock in the right situation. I blame watching too much porn!

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By *rsteveMan
30 weeks ago

sheffield

I’m the exact same.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

This might sound odd, but even as a crossdresser I feel like this. I don't look at guys and think 'he's sexy' - I do look at women all the time, and also think 'I like her shoes...top...skirt'! However, I do love a hard cock, and have found that I do enjoy sucking a lot. There is a huge thrill in getting a cock hard and making it cum.

But it is a women's body shape that excites me and that desire makes me want to look more feminine because I find females sexually attractive, not because I want to look like a sexy woman to attract men. That said, I do like the attention (most of the time) and that's probably because it boosts my ego.

Confused? Yes...so am I!

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By *ootyfruityCouple
30 weeks ago

andover

I’m pansexual, but I’m very fussy with guys, I’m attracted to a lot more women

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By *ongjonsliver555Man
30 weeks ago

London

Same as…. I do like seeing a cock as we chat about our wives

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By *un4two888Couple
30 weeks ago

north west

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By *un4two888Couple
30 weeks ago

north west

"I think there needs to be a box to tick for this sort of thing. In a similar boat, not attracted to guys but don’t mind a fiddle with a cock in the right situation. I blame watching too much porn!"
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Completely Agree

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By *ever2old4toysCouple
30 weeks ago

Abingdon

I think sometimes there's a simplified view of what a bi/pan guy is.

Not all straight people are into all straight sex. It's the same with bi/pan/gay/etc.

If you like watching a guy work a cock or wanking with a male mate and seeing each other than that's what you like. Labels are only suggested shortcuts to getting to know you. No one identity fits all.

Be you and enjoy the stuff you enjoy.

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By *orkshire 123Man
30 weeks ago

Bradford

I'm not attracted to men but love horny bi fun with a guy

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By *eogeo123Man
30 weeks ago

hamilton

I agree with all this.

I can get really intimate with women but with guys it tends to be more functional.

Having said that I do have a soft spot for particular look in a guy but then I've never been lucky enough to meet such a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Definitely the cock I'm attracted to rather than the guy!

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By *oxy jWoman
30 weeks ago

somerset

your still bi ... just accept it theirs no in-between theres no one way of being bi neither your no longer str8 if you play with your own sex there no confusing that

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

You can still fuck a cock and be straight though, just feels good, not into the guy.

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By *oxy jWoman
30 weeks ago

somerset

"You can still fuck a cock and be straight though, just feels good, not into the guy."

you cant change what a person thinks or feels but others will see you as bi because if you just fucked a person of the same sex then you 100% no doubt about it bi

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By *issy_named_cTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"your still bi ... just accept it theirs no in-between theres no one way of being bi neither your no longer str8 if you play with your own sex there no confusing that "

Love these kind of hard and fast opinions!

I'm curious to know where your line is of "playing" though.

Does that need to be physical? What about a... Well, there's thousands of whatabouts to be fair.

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By *hapLeedsMan
30 weeks ago

Leeds

"Just wondered if there are any other similar men out there...

I don't class myself as bi as I don't find men attractive and I wouldn't want to be fucked by a guy.

Saying that... I do find some cocks and chatting to other men about our wives or whatever while wanking hot

Obviously, then there's seeing men in action during meets is a turn on too"

Just do whatever you’re comfortable with… go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"You can still fuck a cock and be straight though, just feels good, not into the guy.

you cant change what a person thinks or feels but others will see you as bi because if you just fucked a person of the same sex then you 100% no doubt about it bi

So... do you wanna have sex?

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By *imfucktwoMan
30 weeks ago

here and there

People seem to have an obsession with being labelled into a group. Perhaps it makes you feel part of something. But if you enjoy it who cares. Some people like fucking plastic toys! What’s that make them. I say ditch the labels and just do what you enjoy with other consenting people.

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By *rmrs95Couple
30 weeks ago

Chester

"I think sometimes there's a simplified view of what a bi/pan guy is.

Not all straight people are into all straight sex. It's the same with bi/pan/gay/etc.

Be you and enjoy the stuff you enjoy."

Agreed

I like the label ' bi playful'

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By *ickie76XXXMan
30 weeks ago

dartford

"People seem to have an obsession with being labelled into a group. Perhaps it makes you feel part of something. But if you enjoy it who cares. Some people like fucking plastic toys! What’s that make them. I say ditch the labels and just do what you enjoy with other consenting people."

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Hubby does not find men attractive but he would love a cock to play with. I would love to watch him with another guy sucking each others cocks. I would also love to watch him being fucked by another guy. I find it really hot xx

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By *ertie basset all sortsMan
30 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I love playing with couples and cock on cock play with the wife watching is so hot ??

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I don't find men particularly attractive, I appreciate a good figure though. Love playing with a nice cock though and bi MMF is so fun. Women are a far superior turn on and doing things with them is so much more fun.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
30 weeks ago

Durham

I’m not physically attracted to men although do like to play with and even suck a cock as part of a threesome.

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By *iger3Couple
30 weeks ago

Dunstable

I also cd and occasionally played with cock only sucking and stroking

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By *illy26Man
30 weeks ago

Craigavon

Love this had my 1st bi 3sum and he was sucking the juices of my cock while she was sitting on my face and it's such a different experience x

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By *erkshireguy4uMan
30 weeks ago

newbury

Same here, don’t find men attractive but defo do appreciate a gym fit body and stiff cock!

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By *iger3Couple
30 weeks ago

Dunstable

My Mrs has watched me suck cock in fact she told me to suck it got on my knees and sucked away

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By *ourbon1Man
30 weeks ago

wales

love this thread! so i have never thought i like guys or do i look and find them attractive. yet i was lucky to meet a hi couple he asked to suck me and so tried it and wow since nothing better than playing with bi couples and all playing with each other.

to the point i now have a fantasy to be with a bi couple me in her him in me.

yes i still don’t look at a man and think him ha x

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By *erICorknowCouple
30 weeks ago

cork

Perfect story! Hubby wouldn’t want to kiss a guy but would suck a Cock,

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By *ourbon1Man
30 weeks ago

wales

are bi couples in general okay with men like this then as great to know as it really is my favourite meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I think sometimes there's a simplified view of what a bi/pan guy is.

Not all straight people are into all straight sex. It's the same with bi/pan/gay/etc.

Be you and enjoy the stuff you enjoy."

^^^This

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I don't find men particularly attractive, I appreciate a good figure though. Love playing with a nice cock though and bi MMF is so fun. Women are a far superior turn on and doing things with them is so much more fun."

^^^ and this

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By *abonTedCouple
30 weeks ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

I think there’s room for all manner of shades of being.

Im a red hot woman loving man but I do find a handsome dingaling rather fascinating

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By *erICorknowCouple
30 weeks ago

cork

The feeling of a hard Cock is great to be honest. Bisexual porn is top of our list at the moment.

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By *umblebiMan
30 weeks ago

ayles

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By *omRachCouple
30 weeks ago

Wirral

Bi hubby here

I dont fancy men and I'm not attracted to men. Having said that I DO like sex with men - for me personally I don't need one to progress to the other.

That does not mean I will fuck every man I meet either (have only ever been with 3), there's simply needs to be some form of mutual interest/likes/desires for both of 'us'.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
30 weeks ago

Croydon Area

"Just wondered if there are any other similar men out there...

I don't class myself as bi as I don't find men attractive and I wouldn't want to be fucked by a guy.

Saying that... I do find some cocks and chatting to other men about our wives or whatever while wanking hot

Obviously, then there's seeing men in action during meets is a turn on too"

I’m the same

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
30 weeks ago

Leicestershire

I think being on Fab as part of a couple affects guys. Being sent cock pics all day long you start to grade them. Then there’s the meets, watching your wife getting fucked by different men, you start to wonder about hard cocks….it leads to wanting to play with them yourself. It did for me.

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By *ourbon1Man
30 weeks ago

wales

"I think being on Fab as part of a couple affects guys. Being sent cock pics all day long you start to grade them. Then there’s the meets, watching your wife getting fucked by different men, you start to wonder about hard cocks….it leads to wanting to play with them yourself. It did for me."

i would say your cock grades well great pic

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I was always curious growing up. And after playing a bit with a dildo I got the urge to try the real thing. Now I am fully bi and loving it.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
30 weeks ago

lightwater

No greater pleasure than sharing a cock with your wife. Trust us!

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By *assageduoCouple
30 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"Just wondered if there are any other similar men out there...

I don't class myself as bi as I don't find men attractive and I wouldn't want to be fucked by a guy.

Saying that... I do find some cocks and chatting to other men about our wives or whatever while wanking hot

Obviously, then there's seeing men in action during meets is a turn on too"

This is 100 percent me. I do like looking at a hard cock been played with and touching but attracted to the men more the bi couple meet where hands and mouths have no limits between each other in a true four way play.

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By *assageduoCouple
30 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"I think sometimes there's a simplified view of what a bi/pan guy is.

Not all straight people are into all straight sex. It's the same with bi/pan/gay/etc.

Be you and enjoy the stuff you enjoy.

Agreed

I like the label ' bi playful'"

Bi playful it’s a very good label.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
30 weeks ago

Leicestershire

i would say your cock grades well great pic"

Very kind thank you

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By *ab_paulMan
30 weeks ago

North Hertfordshire

"Just wondered if there are any other similar men out there...

I don't class myself as bi as I don't find men attractive and I wouldn't want to be fucked by a guy.

Saying that... I do find some cocks and chatting to other men about our wives or whatever while wanking hot

Obviously, then there's seeing men in action during meets is a turn on too"

Pretty much the same, although no interest in chatting with guys about our wives. I would recommend giving it a try, sucking on a big thick cock is a delight.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
30 weeks ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I think sometimes there's a simplified view of what a bi/pan guy is.

Not all straight people are into all straight sex. It's the same with bi/pan/gay/etc.

Be you and enjoy the stuff you enjoy.

Agreed

I like the label ' bi playful'

Bi playful it’s a very good label. "

In agreement with that

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By *obyorkMan
30 weeks ago

Keighley

I class myself as bi even though I’m not romantically attracted to men. But I love their cocks. I just love the feeling of wanking and sucking a nice hard dick and tasting the guy’s spunk. I do kiss men as I think that feels quite sexy. But I really appreciate a sexy woman. Meeting MF couples is the best of both worlds

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By *ister_EMan
30 weeks ago

Hayling Island

I've been sucking cock and fucking men for over 25 years so I call myself bisexual even though I've never and would never, date a man or fall in love or have a bf. It's purely sexual for me no romance, love or emotion. I only feel like that with women.

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By *loydyMan
30 weeks ago

British

"You can still fuck a cock and be straight though, just feels good, not into the guy.

you cant change what a person thinks or feels but others will see you as bi because if you just fucked a person of the same sex then you 100% no doubt about it bi

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I always laugh blokes asking for straight guys if your playing with cock or having your cock played with not straight full stop

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By *loydyMan
30 weeks ago

British

"You can still fuck a cock and be straight though, just feels good, not into the guy."
don't talk absolute nonsense

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By *aste-the-RainbowCouple
30 weeks ago

Worthing

I am not attracted to men and wouldn't want to be with one on my own, but in a threesome or with another couple I like to share a BJ and enjoy cum either from a creampie or directly from the source

So I have myself as curious as bi playful is not an option.

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By *friderMan
30 weeks ago

Warminster

I'm finding this kind of dynamic more and more appealing and looking to explore more with a fun couple.x

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By *friderMan
30 weeks ago

Warminster

"No greater pleasure than sharing a cock with your wife. Trust us!"

Definitely the kind of fun I'm looking for with the right couple x

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By *astpoetMan
30 weeks ago

where the world takes me

I think of myself as biplayful, I don’t have any desire to date a man, and find women and trans women most attractive, but I also love cock and being fucked by one

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By *esmdMan
30 weeks ago

Woodhall Spa

Wife chatting is so hot always makes me hard

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Wow! What a great thread this is

Interesting to see all the different views on what defines being bisexual. I think there's a big difference from enjoying a sexual act because of how it makes you feel, compared to finding someone sexually attractive.

When I first realised I wasn't 100% straight, it's because I enjoyed looking at dicks, but I was never attracted to anyone's face. It was literally, oh that's a nice cock, nothing more of it.

Eventually I built up the courage to touch one, and quite enjoyed it. Then I still labelled myself as Bi curious... but then I was thinking, how many dicks before I'm no longer curious :D

Curiosity for me grew into understanding what I liked, and didn't like doing. I was always openly bi curious from early 20's - and no one seemed to understand why I kept having girlfriends. (Because my physical attraction was to women, I just liked dick as a treat day).

I quite like that straight men have the curiosity and the courage and balls to experiment. If you are secure in yourself and your relationship, it's all harmless fun and no labels needed.

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By *erICorknowCouple
28 weeks ago

cork

Agree 100%

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By *hristopherd999Man
28 weeks ago

Brentwood

I've always considered myself as straight but over the last couple of years I've wondered what it would be like to play with a cock, I now say I'm bi curious just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I'm not in a couple at the moment and not sure I want another LTR but if I were tempted then she'd have to accept my curiosity.

I'm very much the same as you. I don't fancy guys, I've no interest in kissing or the other affectionate intimacy I enjoy with women, and I've no interest to be fucked, but I do like the idea of mutual wanking and sucking other guys in either a 1 on 1, mfm, or mixed group.

I've put off exploring this side of my curiosity due to past vanilla relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

This...

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"I think sometimes there's a simplified view of what a bi/pan guy is.

Not all straight people are into all straight sex. It's the same with bi/pan/gay/etc.

Be you and enjoy the stuff you enjoy.

Agreed

I like the label ' bi playful'"

Bi-playful is good. I've also heard the term bi-friendly.

Helps to find people of a like-mind.

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By *erICorknowCouple
28 weeks ago

cork

I think it’s becoming more accepted that men, like women are okay to want the opposite sex at times.

By that I mean it’s always a turn on for most men to watch women together! Now in my little experience it seems ok for men to want each other in swinging situations!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I see sexuality as a spectrum, there are no finites, you like what you like are sit somewhere along that spectrum, it may have a label, it may not. As long as you enjoy what you are doing between two or more consenting adults, then who cares. Have fun everyone.

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By *urabriteMan
28 weeks ago

stafford

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By *iceButtSlimMan
28 weeks ago

somewhere

Like others I enjoy the experience and I'm not necessarily attracted to guys and couldn't date one in the same way that I could another women. Kissing I find a bit strange.

I do find it more difficult to meet up with guys on my own and prefer it when the wife and I are playing with a guy.

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By *obyorksMan
28 weeks ago

Leeds

I’m exactly the same. Don’t fancy guys etc but would love to watch a guy wank over my wife or fuck her.

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By *oublefun0401Couple
28 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Yeh similar here don’t find men attractive but happily have sex with them in a mmf scenario

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
28 weeks ago

Hyde

Well, I wouldn't even considered myself curious until I got with Mrs.

Since then I've sucked 3 cocks and swallowed 3 loads and it's all been a spur of the moment thing. I'd love to go a bit further, I think the idea of it is sexy, knowing Mrs finds it incredibly hot seeing me with a cock. So now... who knows what I'm classed as 😅

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By *linky1Couple
28 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

But took a while for us to get there.

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By *ewdtenantMan
28 weeks ago

Sheffield

I quite like that straight men have the curiosity and the courage and balls to experiment. If you are secure in yourself and your relationship, it's all harmless fun and no labels needed."

Exactly this. People need to relax.

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By *anGuy4funMan
28 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm bi but pan is probably closer. Definitely attracted to guys mainly physically but there is emotional attraction, just took longer to unpack. In fact I'd say the emotional component is needed for me to want to have sex with a man or woman. But if me and my partner ever invite a guy to join us. She definitely wants to see some man on man action and I'm not just talking a fiddle

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