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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi ive been on this site for a few months now but have yet to have any luck finding any ladies who are interested.

Just wanted some advice on things to say, how to approach ppl.

Im not very sexually experienced, ive only been with two girls and only ever had one girlfriend. But im a genuine nice guyjavascript:doSmilie('%20')

(Also my cock is on the small side)

Would b greatful for any feedback, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says nothing about the type of people you are looking to meet and with your verification being from a sexual encounter with a male I think many would assume this to be your preference. If you are interested in meeting females I would make this clear in your profile, it may help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I'll help! Your profile text could do with expanding to say more about you and what you're looking for and can offer. Search forum threads for profile advice as there's loads of great advice. A variety of pics might help along with going to socials and clubs to get yourself known on the scene. Your cock doesn't look small to me plus it's what you do with it that counts for more than size alone! Good luck.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Hmmm I'd have to agree with the above. Make the profile a bit more dymanic. Make it clear what what your looking for and what you'd like.

And final tip - do some man gardening and redo the pics. Seems most ladies really do prefer less of a bush and good luck with it all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, this is all very useful info!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You are bisexual....

Why only ask for female advise?

Sure the guys could help also...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are bisexual....

Why only ask for female advise?

Sure the guys could help also..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you know it's small then maybe don't put it out on show. If you was selling a car your main pic of it wouldn't be the little dent in the bumper. Gloss over the negative and work on the rest. Man gardening is a good idea. Crafty crimping can make your cock look bigger. Too be honest I'm no expert but it looks quite average and if anyone complains it's too small then they won't mind you putting it in their bum.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

And try spell-checking. Not vastly important but can make a good impression if you appear to be articulate. E.g, not 'experiance' but 'experience'.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

an initial approach should be friendly and not too pushy in my opinion. Include that you like the ladies profile and you think she looks very nice, ask her if she woudl be interested in taking things further with you maybe. After that as each woman is an individual there is no magic formula but respect and a sense of humour go a long way.

Your front on picture is fine but I find the one with your cock(which isn't small by the way) sticking out of your boxers a bit creepy.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"an initial approach should be friendly and not too pushy in my opinion. Include that you like the ladies profile and you think she looks very nice, ask her if she woudl be interested in taking things further with you maybe. After that as each woman is an individual there is no magic formula but respect and a sense of humour go a long way.

Your front on picture is fine but I find the one with your cock(which isn't small by the way) sticking out of your boxers a bit creepy.

Good luck"

Lol. I thought it looked a bit like he was trying to pretend he didn't realise his cock was actually hanging out......"ooopsy. silly me"

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

definitely some man gardening, a good trim.

Personally, for me, cock pics should be private, and sent later - but thats just me. Altho I do know a lot of ladies don't find cock pics that appealing. As has been said, the one hanging out of your boxers is not very flattering. A nice torso shot, clothed bums in nice tight boxers seem to do well.

A bit more text, your profile is your shop window - sell yourself - what you are good at. Also, as a lady, I'd be wary that your friends in the majority seem male making your preference seem to be for men - either hide your friends list or get chatty and ask a couple of nice ladies to be friends.

Put in a bit of work on the profile and then approach people politely, remembering to read their profile first, and respect, manners and good spelling go a long way.

Also, rather than being inexperienced being a bad thing, go for friendlier terms, like willing to learn, open to new things... use your sense of humour - things like "not very experienced so no bad habits - but willing to pick some up"

Oh and lots of patience - the competition for ladies attention on here is unbelievable! Good luck,

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