FabSwingers.com forum: over weight men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its about time you guys got a grip of your weight guys...lol

im having to say no to lots of couples because the guys are'nt looking after them selfs, which is a shame because the girls always do,

im not saying you have to be a well toned because im not! just not fat,

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

im not saying you have to be a well toned because im not! just not fat,

Damn near perfect I'd say!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"which is a shame because the girls always do"

Eh?

I'll have you know, there's some very pretty BBW's on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am saying nothing.......

lol ....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"its about time you guys got a grip of your weight guys...lol

im having to say no to lots of couples because the guys are'nt looking after them selfs, which is a shame because the girls always do,

im not saying you have to be a well toned because im not! just not fat,

Wow...... okay so now I know where I am going wrong.... hmmm....

and I am sure that a lot of couples are saying no to you as well because you only play bareback... so I am sure the feeling is mutual...

there is a saying for this I think... oh yeah... something about "glass house" and "throwing stones" hmmmmmm

I'd really hate for someone to knock you off that soapbox of yours....

you really do complain a lot for something that is suppose to be fun.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kinda like big guys..Robbie Coltrane..mmmm...Barry White...yumm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again...people trying to dictate to others. Am I missing something? Is it really that hard to skip to another profile if you come across people you don't want to shag, instead of posting threads like this?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez, imagine the uproar if this thread was started about women.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"Here we go again...people trying to dictate to others. Am I missing something? Is it really that hard to skip to another profile if you come across people you don't want to shag, instead of posting threads like this?!!

Not hard at all but simply moving on to the next profile doesn't give you a chance to shout 'look at me, look at me'.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

And I'm sure that are many bigger men out there who wouldn't want to play with idiots (sorry, barebackers) and won't want to play with women who have more celulite on their arse and legs than the rest of the site put together. Or women who are so up themselves that they are licking their own tonsils from the inside!

Each to their own, but put your preferences in your profile, don't have a 'pop' in the forums unless you are just looking to make total idiots of yourselves, or your supply of fresh 'meat' has dried up.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

now just imagine if

and i stress "if"

I had said that about you ladies

I would be dangling from the rafter by my bollox now

just get a grip lady

there are all shapes and sizes on here

thin ladies who like larger men

larger ladies who like thin men and all the other permutations inbetween

if there are not enough for you to pick from may be its you you should be looking at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We thinks someones got to much time on their hands to post threads like this..

If you want to be picky as far as were aware no one ever died shagging a larger guy but many have died as a result of shagging bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not hard at all but simply moving on to the next profile doesn't give you a chance to shout 'look at me, look at me'."

I see your point there!!

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

got to agree with the Jones not worth the risk

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

"We thinks someones got to much time on their hands to post threads like this..

If you want to be picky as far as were aware no one ever died shagging a larger guy but many have died as a result of shagging bareback."

try googling faty harbuckle silent screen actor

was acused of killing a young actress while shagging her due to his weight on top of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback and lots of cellulite, not a combination for us we must admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its about time you guys got a grip of your weight guys...lol

im having to say no to lots of couples because the guys are'nt looking after them selfs, which is a shame because the girls always do,

im not saying you have to be a well toned because im not! just not fat,

The girls always look after themselves, talk about rose tinted glasses.

If you don't like the people you see in a profile .... walk on by, why should anyone conform to what you want ? many people male and female are happy with thier size be it small or large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aaahhhh bareback I did wonder why we had got this OP's profile blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love threads like these

you get to see some peoples true colours shine through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"aaahhhh bareback I did wonder why we had got this OP's profile blocked

Nowt as queer as folk!! Trawling profiles and criticising people that don't appeal to them sexually...but happy to sleep with "perfect strangers" bareback...

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By *aughtyHubbyMan
over a year ago

Sunderland

"Jeez, imagine the uproar if this thread was started about women.

Just what I thought when I read the first post.

To be honest, some of us guys, myself included, don't look after ourselves as well as we'd like to, for a variety of reasons. Some are just down to the pressures of everyday life. However, the same applies to the ladies, and thats the beauty of it all. We don't all want to meet "model" image ladies because for most of us it just isnt "real". The "girl next door" will, for me, always be more attractive than a pin up. So, if you dont like what you see, move on, next profile or next website. Simple as. We all aint gonna join a gym on the basis of hoping to meet with someone!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I'm saying nothing bout this thread, nothing at all - too contentious, got no value to offer. Nope. Nadda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess they like playing russian roulette...but only with supermodels

lol

Each to their own...but OP please feel free to block my lardie arse I am sure I will regret never meeting you but am willing to take that risk (in fact thats the only risk I like to take...confirmed welly wearer even when its not snowing)

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

If you can keep your head whilst all around you are losing theirs.....

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"its about time you guys got a grip of your weight guys...lol

im having to say no to lots of couples because the guys are'nt looking after them selfs, which is a shame because the girls always do,

im not saying you have to be a well toned because im not! just not fat,

"its about time you guys got a grip of your attitudes...lol

im having to say no to lots of snobs because the people aren't taking responsibility of their opinions, which is a shame because other posters always do, "

im not saying you have to be in agreement because im not! just not stuck up!,

Okay okay... I gave in to the voices!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay okay... I gave in to the voices!

good man, I am still trying to say nowt....... fecking difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its about time you guys got a grip of your weight guys...lol

im having to say no to lots of couples because the guys are'nt looking after them selfs, which is a shame because the girls always do,

im not saying you have to be a well toned because im not! just not fat,

"its about time you guys got a grip of your attitudes...lol

im having to say no to lots of snobs because the people aren't taking responsibility of their opinions, which is a shame because other posters always do, "

im not saying you have to be in agreement because im not! just not stuck up!,

Okay okay... I gave in to the voices!

lmao...I just knew you would feeking crack..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez, imagine the uproar if this thread was started about women.

yea i agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you are.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

What this lady said goes for me too.

Why on earth it still surprises me I don't know.....but for swingers to constantly make jibes against other peoples looks /weight/sexuality because it isn't want they want or isn't the same as theirs is beyond me.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Its all about fun, if someone's physical attributes do not appeal to you, don't meet them, simple.

Christ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I'm sure that are many bigger men out there who wouldn't want to play with idiots (sorry, barebackers) and won't want to play with women who have more celulite on their arse and legs than the rest of the site put together. Or women who are so up themselves that they are licking their own tonsils from the inside!

you surely are the rudest person on this site.

every time i look at a post you are insulting someone, if someone wants to post a thread thats up to them, its not really appropriate for you to start making personal digs about them based on profiles and photos.

you hide your profile, i wonder why?

anyone is entitled to give an opinion in the forum, thats what they are for but you are just plain rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive heard it all now ,im well put togther,me thinks and you think id have people knockin me door down to get to me,maybe there put off by my mans curse(shinny head)

ho hum

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im saying nothing except let she without cellulite cast the first stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im saying nothing except let she without cellulite cast the first stone

maybe even a stone and a half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit when I checked their profile for someone so in shape there was an awful lot of "orange peel" on show...........

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Now it is all getting rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare the OP tell guys they need to loose weight?

If you dont like what the guys look like you dont have to meet them.

Would be a boring world if we all looked the same!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Excellent......... I'm officially the rudest person on this site!! woooo hoooo

Please note: I don't start threads berating larger people. I don't start threads telling men to get a grip. I don't start insulting threads.

I add to them, generally in defence of those that are being slated.

I can do that because this is an open forum, I will do that because I can. I do it because after 10 years of swinging it still pisses me off that there are people on here who think that because THEY think they are better than others, they are entitled to tell the whole forum what everyone else is doing wrong and then get the total hump when someone points out their faults.

Lets get real. Big people, small people, short, tall and lanky people, giants, obese, petite and tiny, gay, bi and straight....... all have a place in the swinging world. There is someone for everyone.

The only thing I disagree with (personally), is those who think they are better than the rest of us.

I do not and have never perported to be better than anyone else, in fact, I'm a total nightmare and my swinging career has been laced with laughter, tears, strops, good friends, bad friends and too many sleepless nights......

I was thin when I started out, now I'm fat....... do I care? Nope! Do I care what the Op or anyone else thinks? Nope! Do I have enough people who are interested in me to take my swinging into 2012....... Yes!

So.... I really don't care what anyone else thinks of me! I have enough friends within the swinging world and within my vanilla life to counter any backlash........

And as for your feeble attempt at sarcasm regarding my hidden profile....

Ask the Pussy Posse..... one of them MAY tell you why it's hidden!

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