FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters..

By *apperleyman OP Man
23 weeks ago

Nottingham

So arranged an outdoor meet with a mf couple last night.. given a time & a place to meet. Seemed legit.

Turned up and then messaged to say I was there.. then all the messages disappeared and no trace on fab so either they left or blocked me..

Has this happened to anyone else on here? Can you report them as timewasters/ fakes?

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
23 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

If messages disappeared then they left the site or at least deleted that account

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
23 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Sounds like they've left the site op unfortunately.

I don't think admin would be able to do much now their profile has gone.

Just be vigilant, as they may rejoin and try to do the same again.

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By *apperleyman OP Man
23 weeks ago

Nottingham

I mean, what’s the point other than tricking someone to drive to a place?

They’d been on fab a while, wasn’t a ‘new’ profile..

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
23 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I mean, what’s the point other than tricking someone to drive to a place?

They’d been on fab a while, wasn’t a ‘new’ profile..

We're they deffo a couple and verified as there's lots of men who are fantasists and pretend to be a woman or couple on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Sounds like there account was deleted unfortunately. Had it before ourselves.

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By *apperleyman OP Man
23 weeks ago

Nottingham

"I mean, what’s the point other than tricking someone to drive to a place?

They’d been on fab a while, wasn’t a ‘new’ profile..

We're they deffo a couple and verified as there's lots of men who are fantasists and pretend to be a woman or couple on fab. "

I mean it could be anyone.. however the photos etc seemed legit, had one veri (not published) and had been in fab for a while..

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

We have a group of people in our area that always appear on new accounts and get verified within an hour of rejoining and are known to mess people around. Don't know what's wrong with people.

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By *as0046Man
23 weeks ago

stourbridge

"We have a group of people in our area that always appear on new accounts and get verified within an hour of rejoining and are known to mess people around. Don't know what's wrong with people. "

Yep there is a few around by mine that do this. Normal the same people that verify them and they are blank profiles

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By *apperleyman OP Man
23 weeks ago

Nottingham

"We have a group of people in our area that always appear on new accounts and get verified within an hour of rejoining and are known to mess people around. Don't know what's wrong with people. "

Normally there are a few ‘tells’

New profile

No veri’s or veri’s from unverified.

Pics (if they have any) are fake or have been on old profile.

And some schtick saying ‘our old profile was shut down for not reason’

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

As opposed to timewaisters?

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By *yhotwife24Couple
20 weeks ago

redcar & cleveland

we had it over the weekend a guy agreed to do an outdoor meet with us, his profile was verified and looked legit. any way the last message we received was to say he's 10 min away then he blocked us? what is wrong with these people what is the point of doing this.

then after that it was just time waster after time waster and we still didn't get a meet after all!

Tbh it has put us off the site a little which is a shame but it seems to be getting worse over the years.

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
20 weeks ago

wirral

All we seem to get, probably 1 in 3 meets happens as so fakes, liars, secretly married and timewasters

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By *ooking for threesome funMan
20 weeks ago

Basildon

"we had it over the weekend a guy agreed to do an outdoor meet with us, his profile was verified and looked legit. any way the last message we received was to say he's 10 min away then he blocked us? what is wrong with these people what is the point of doing this.

then after that it was just time waster after time waster and we still didn't get a meet after all!

Tbh it has put us off the site a little which is a shame but it seems to be getting worse over the years."

That’s what makes it harder for us genuine singles to get meets and veris

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Mrs has had her time wasted tonight. First guy bailed 5 minutes before the meet so she had a backup. He went from being free all night to suddenly unavailable but free for a quickie! Pathetic

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By *hristopherd999Man
20 weeks ago

Brentwood

"So arranged an outdoor meet with a mf couple last night.. given a time & a place to meet. Seemed legit.

Turned up and then messaged to say I was there.. then all the messages disappeared and no trace on fab so either they left or blocked me..

Has this happened to anyone else on here? Can you report them as timewasters/ fakes? "

Happened to me more than once

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
20 weeks ago

wirral

Place is full of them. 80% of who we speak to

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By *penmindedbiker69Man
20 weeks ago

Chislehurst

I don't understand why people do this . I'm here actively looking to meet and enjoy the time doing so . Why go to all the bother and not actually want to do something- that's the whole point of the site . !!!!. Yes, l'm new on here with no verifications yet - by social or meet but I'm trying. And looking forward to my first meet from here.

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By *in and bare itCouple
20 weeks ago

kent

Lots of time wasters

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
20 weeks ago

Rushden

Regularly. 2 in the last 2 weeks.

I'll spend a couple of hours getting ready for a meet, dress how they want me, makeup etc.

Then as we're approaching the time of meeting they will disappear & then message a few days later with a "sorry but....."

It's the reason we left for a few months but seems to be getting bad again.

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By *ittymcgeeCouple
20 weeks ago

Stevenage

Site is full of time wasters. We’ve have so many who ‘want to meet’ but when it comes to talking dates etc they disappear. We’ve also arranged meets in clubs etc and had no shows.

Very frustrating site.

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By *nkedguy777Man
20 weeks ago

Manchester

Far to many fantasists and time wasters on here

I just don't see the point, strange behaviour if you ask me

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Bristol

As '_apperleyman' says you get a nose for the tells.

Outdoor meet with a couple is screaming 'nope' at me already unless they've expressed an interest in dogging or more unusually, just outdoor sex.

That was probably just a man and if they've left the site then certainly.

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By *altandPepper24Couple
20 weeks ago

Liverpool

Totally off topic but I bet total fitness is unusually busy today 😂😂

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By *tickler2000Man
20 weeks ago

St Agnes

Have driven to a meet only to have the same happen to me.

I do wonder why people do this.

Just message to cancel.

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By *opman121Man
20 weeks ago

stoke on trent

Plenty on here they come and go like the bus lol

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

We're super close to just going down the club only route for meeting. The amount of times the Mrs has got ready and 5 minutes before her meets due the excuse comes. We have even had a well verified guy arrange a meet then turn around just before and say he only arranged it so no one else could meet her then blocked us! Unlucky for him she got gangbanged that night HaHa

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
20 weeks ago

Wirral

Jeez I suppose we have been very lucky as not encountered this much. I would never ever bail on someone unless I had a very good reason. I’ve gone through with meets even when not really feeling like it but then ended up having a fantastic time. My time is valuable and I automatically think everyone else’s is too so if I genuinely couldn’t make a meet I would let the people know with as much notice as possible. Seems there are some right clowns out there,such a shame

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
20 weeks ago

Sheffield

I make sure my time is never wasted and just go to clubs. I can make a night of it, see my friends, feel safe and have a good night regardless.

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